We've been married 19 years. I went total deaf 6 years ago. All along he knowsd how hard I try and how well I've used my CapTel phone since I still speak, but am going more "voice off". Well, out of the blue this morning, he's talking about going to the insurance company to have them cancel the insurance on the vehicle we sold yesterday and I mention that I was planning on calling them today. Well, he jumps up with "But, you're deaf, you can't use the telephone anymore." Well, my son got all over him for that remark and hubby's been so apologetic since, but I do need to let it go, but it's hard since I have to deal with it so much these days.