GalaxyAngel
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Want the explanation of the nice-guy vs. bad-boy phenomenon? It isn't that women aren't attracted to "nice guys" it's that we're not attracted to those overly agreeable puppy dog kind of men. Be nice -- remember our birthdays, respect our parents, be kind to fluffy woodland creatures -- but remember that spineless isn't sexy.
Are you making any of these too-polite passion faux pas?
Lover, May I
It's sweet you don't want to take advantage of your honey. But here's the thing: sometimes she wants you to. Nothing makes us want to climb back into our clothes faster than a guy who asks for sex the same way he'd beg for a favor. An exciting lover will take pains to make sure their partner wants to get down and dirty. An intense look, or meaningful touch, is much hotter than hearing, "Can I please make love to you?"
Agreeable Groping
You can't figure out why women aren't swooning over you when you always agree to do whatever makes them happy. That's because when we ask you what you'd like to do to us, we'd rather hear a steamy description of what would thrill you than "whatever you want, honey."
Unkind Compliments
You do your best to make your woman feel comfortable under the covers. Or so you think. But confessions like "I love that your butt's big enough to rest a beer on" or "Mmm, you're so deliciously squishy here" aren't the path to her carnal confidence. Give some thought to the best way to compose your flattery...or play it safe just moan appreciatively.
Best In Show
Oh, yeah, you think, this sounds good. Telling my partner that he or she is the best I've ever been with is, like, the ultimate compliment. And maybe it would be if it didn't make your partner worry that you're now comparing all the dirty details among your past and present lovers. If you want to hand out the compliments (and you should), keep them focused entirely on one person.
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My comment: I'd rather stick "In Trust relationship and love more than prior sex" Of course I do love sex but prefer open commcation!
Sex is important in your life? Concern about relationship may ended up and probably "using you" ? No hard feelings?
Are you making any of these too-polite passion faux pas?
Lover, May I
It's sweet you don't want to take advantage of your honey. But here's the thing: sometimes she wants you to. Nothing makes us want to climb back into our clothes faster than a guy who asks for sex the same way he'd beg for a favor. An exciting lover will take pains to make sure their partner wants to get down and dirty. An intense look, or meaningful touch, is much hotter than hearing, "Can I please make love to you?"
Agreeable Groping
You can't figure out why women aren't swooning over you when you always agree to do whatever makes them happy. That's because when we ask you what you'd like to do to us, we'd rather hear a steamy description of what would thrill you than "whatever you want, honey."
Unkind Compliments
You do your best to make your woman feel comfortable under the covers. Or so you think. But confessions like "I love that your butt's big enough to rest a beer on" or "Mmm, you're so deliciously squishy here" aren't the path to her carnal confidence. Give some thought to the best way to compose your flattery...or play it safe just moan appreciatively.
Best In Show
Oh, yeah, you think, this sounds good. Telling my partner that he or she is the best I've ever been with is, like, the ultimate compliment. And maybe it would be if it didn't make your partner worry that you're now comparing all the dirty details among your past and present lovers. If you want to hand out the compliments (and you should), keep them focused entirely on one person.
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My comment: I'd rather stick "In Trust relationship and love more than prior sex" Of course I do love sex but prefer open commcation!
Sex is important in your life? Concern about relationship may ended up and probably "using you" ? No hard feelings?