None taken, deafdyke. This is why I dislike it when some people are misinformed about BDSM. They think they can use regular candle wax to pour it all over their other partners when I tell them they can't do that, it has to be paraffin. TMI, I know. Granted, some people get into BDSM as it is "trendy" and some do get into BDSM because it releases pain. Some of those who participate in BDSM have had bad childhood experiences, traumatic sexual experiences and they escape it using BDSM. This is what I really discourage because it's not confronting your issues.
