Reply to thread

Message

well my experience with my mom and my dad (my parents are dirvoced anyways)

when I was in high school, my mom caught me writing a letter to a girl who i loved. she asked me if I am gay. I told her HELL NO. because i wasn't sure if she would accept who I was so I kept myself very very LOWWWWW until I moved out to go to RIT after my older sister's wedding which was on Aug 24th 1997 and I didn't even talk with my mom for a while. until 1998 after christmas, I got an apartment in Rochester, New York. Then a few months later. I called my mom to see how she is and etc.. started off with a good start of conversations. then a few mins later, I asked my mom if I could tell her something.. she said what is it.. and I told her first of all before I start telling u something. I asked her if she remembered that she had asked me if I was bisexual or gay?? she said yes I do remember. And I asked her how would she feel if she heard that I am GAY? She said well, it is your decision and I love you no matter what because YOU are my daughter. I just want to see U happy that's all. I said okay thank you and yes I am GAY then hung up. a week later, my mom called me and said Hey u okay? I said yeah i am okay why? she said well u hung up on me last week afteru said "I am GAY". I said ohh sorry about that but i am glad that you do accept who I am no matter what. then she said no problem chattered for a little while off the point.. Werid huh?? Funny huh??

Now my dad, shessh.. i went to my dad's house two months ago before I moved up here in St. Louis.. I told upfront to my dad at the resturant that I am GAY. He said okay. then he said that he doesn't accept it or anything but just :x so I let him be himself. Then when i went back there last Monday til Wednesday. He started talking about other GAY and Lesbian people that I could meet. It got me confused and I was like is he accepting me who i am. I asked him U accept me who I am no matter what? He said YES because U are my daughter.. so whoever you decide to be i don't care. gave me a smile werid!!! right??

<blockquote data-quote="LezArtist" data-source="post: 92630" data-attributes="member: 335">well my experience with my mom and my dad (my parents are dirvoced anyways)when I was in high school,&nbsp; my mom caught me writing a letter to a girl who i loved.&nbsp; she asked me if I am gay.&nbsp; I told her HELL NO.&nbsp; because i wasn&#039;t sure if she would accept who I was so I kept myself very very LOWWWWW until I moved out to go to RIT after my older sister&#039;s wedding which was on Aug 24th 1997 and I didn&#039;t even talk with my mom for a while.&nbsp; until 1998 after christmas, I got an apartment in Rochester, New York.&nbsp; Then a few months later. I called my mom to see how she is and etc.. started off with a good start of conversations.&nbsp; then a few mins later, I asked my mom if I could tell her something.. she said what is it.. and I told her first of all before I start telling u something.&nbsp; I asked her if she remembered that she had asked me if I was bisexual or gay??&nbsp; she said yes I do remember.&nbsp; And I asked her how would she feel if she heard that I am GAY?&nbsp; She said well, it is your decision and I love you no matter what because YOU are my daughter.&nbsp; I just want to see U happy that&#039;s all. I said okay thank you and yes I am GAY then hung up.&nbsp; a week later, my mom called me and said Hey u okay?&nbsp; I said yeah i am okay why?&nbsp; she said well u hung up on me last week afteru said &quot;I am GAY&quot;.&nbsp; I said ohh sorry about that but i am glad that you do accept who I am no matter what.&nbsp; then she said no problem chattered for a little while off the point..&nbsp; Werid huh??&nbsp; Funny huh??Now my dad,&nbsp; shessh..&nbsp; i went to my dad&#039;s house two months ago before I moved up here in St. Louis.. I told upfront to my dad at the resturant that I am GAY.&nbsp; He said okay.&nbsp; then he said that he doesn&#039;t accept it or anything but just :x&nbsp; so I let him be himself.&nbsp; Then when i went back there last Monday til Wednesday.&nbsp; He started talking about other GAY and Lesbian people that I could meet.&nbsp; It got me confused and I was like <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/wtf.gif"&nbsp; class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":wtf:" title="WTF&nbsp; &nbsp; :wtf:" data-shortname=":wtf:" /> is he accepting me who i am.&nbsp; I asked him U accept me who I am no matter what?&nbsp; He said YES because U are my daughter.. so whoever you decide to be i don&#039;t care.&nbsp; gave me a smile <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/smile.png"&nbsp; class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :)" data-shortname=":)" />&nbsp; werid!!! right?? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/ugh.gif"&nbsp; class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":ugh:" title="Ugh&nbsp; &nbsp; :ugh:" data-shortname=":ugh:" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="LezArtist, post: 92630, member: 335"] well my experience with my mom and my dad (my parents are dirvoced anyways) when I was in high school, my mom caught me writing a letter to a girl who i loved. she asked me if I am gay. I told her HELL NO. because i wasn't sure if she would accept who I was so I kept myself very very LOWWWWW until I moved out to go to RIT after my older sister's wedding which was on Aug 24th 1997 and I didn't even talk with my mom for a while. until 1998 after christmas, I got an apartment in Rochester, New York. Then a few months later. I called my mom to see how she is and etc.. started off with a good start of conversations. then a few mins later, I asked my mom if I could tell her something.. she said what is it.. and I told her first of all before I start telling u something. I asked her if she remembered that she had asked me if I was bisexual or gay?? she said yes I do remember. And I asked her how would she feel if she heard that I am GAY? She said well, it is your decision and I love you no matter what because YOU are my daughter. I just want to see U happy that's all. I said okay thank you and yes I am GAY then hung up. a week later, my mom called me and said Hey u okay? I said yeah i am okay why? she said well u hung up on me last week afteru said "I am GAY". I said ohh sorry about that but i am glad that you do accept who I am no matter what. then she said no problem chattered for a little while off the point.. Werid huh?? Funny huh?? Now my dad, shessh.. i went to my dad's house two months ago before I moved up here in St. Louis.. I told upfront to my dad at the resturant that I am GAY. He said okay. then he said that he doesn't accept it or anything but just :x so I let him be himself. Then when i went back there last Monday til Wednesday. He started talking about other GAY and Lesbian people that I could meet. It got me confused and I was like :wtf: is he accepting me who i am. I asked him U accept me who I am no matter what? He said YES because U are my daughter.. so whoever you decide to be i don't care. gave me a smile :) werid!!! right?? :ugh: [/QUOTE]

Verification