How deal with troublemakers

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I have never experience working in real life, but i did in school life.

When i was in grade 9 and 10 i was bad and mean to a person at school. I would always pick on her and stuff etc. She would always get me in trouble somehow, by my temper or history of bad behaviour easily got me in trouble. Well as I got older, my behaviour starts to change and I dont pick on her much as i got older. Yet she still tries to gt me in trouble. Sure when I was at the school I was often in trouble cuz of her. Finally I transferred to another deaf school (due to small number of students at my old school and not satify education for me) she was transferred with me as well. (so basically she was my "classmate since grade 7 to now) anyway I start fresh at new school, and not get label as troublemaker or bully or pestering that person anymore. Yet she still gets me in trouble, she would tell on me that I did something to her when I did nothing. It piss me off but I just cool it and explain it not true and stuff, they would yell at her for making false assumation (after she realize i told the truth she wouuld say " ohh i thought you said it, i guess i not see right" blah blah blah) I am not going to destroy my reputation again at this school for being a "bully" cuz i am not a bully anymore. Although my other reputation is gone bad already, Long story.

That is my story of troublemaker. She was the only person who caused problems for me. Now me as a troublemaker, ehh that is another story :giggle:
 
I pull my thread of last year out for newbies...

Come and share your view how to deal with troublemakers.
 
false assumation=strong word always senstive being "YOU" you... etc etc can be caused troublemaker seeker..

That what I dislike it..

I've been there experienced when I was teenager and loves stir up *throw your faces looks become anger and emotions stages".. sometimes I recieves them and paint my face become trouble caused.. Pretty different views.. I'm getting know more more adapt them knowledge..
worth for my past experienced before..
Now.. *ahem* Adult.. wowie..
I'm straigthenforward... isn't same as old hood!
Yeah I'm very deal w/troublemakers.. as long I have to speak it out straightenforward and make sure "pieces til solved" If not work.. then you asked for it... fine by me then..
Go ahead if you want contuine twisting and trouble... isn't my type anymore..
Anyhow, if you want trouble w/me..
Go ahead discussion til smarten up your face.. don't mess w/me..
I'm here "straight it out" til you want clean the nose again.. fine.. sure... Ready hold my hand!
Happy to discussion pro vs con...
 
GalaxyAngel said:
false assumation=strong word always senstive being "YOU" you... etc etc can be caused troublemaker seeker..

That what I dislike it..

I've been there experienced when I was teenager and loves stir up *throw your faces looks become anger and emotions stages".. sometimes I recieves them and paint my face become trouble caused.. Pretty different views.. I'm getting know more more adapt them knowledge..
worth for my past experienced before..
Now.. *ahem* Adult.. wowie..
I'm straigthenforward... isn't same as old hood!
Yeah I'm very deal w/troublemakers.. as long I have to speak it out straightenforward and make sure "pieces til solved" If not work.. then you asked for it... fine by me then..
Go ahead if you want contuine twisting and trouble... isn't my type anymore..
Anyhow, if you want trouble w/me..
Go ahead discussion til smarten up your face.. don't mess w/me..
I'm here "straight it out" til you want clean the nose again.. fine.. sure... Ready hold my hand!
Happy to discussion pro vs con...
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Galaxy, mind me asking u Question (sorry offtopic) about your teenager how old is he or she? For me cuz i am trying to help my friend who has alot of problems with her oldest teenager son. Do you deal with her or him when she or he get in troubles?
 
I am sometimes a troublemaker, so I am saying... I get angry when people bother me, and they get unwanted reaction from me.
 
PurrMeow said:
Galaxy, mind me asking u Question (sorry offtopic) about your teenager how old is he or she? For me cuz i am trying to help my friend who has alot of problems with her oldest teenager son. Do you deal with her or him when she or he get in troubles?
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14 will be 15 yrs old and 11 will be 12 yrs old. Both are in summer.
Yes I do deal w/my older son and daughter too.. Pretty roller coaster, as long Patience goes thru w/them..
Ain't easy but can be easy depend their mood swings.. Hopefully helpful for your friend ?
 
Ok Galaxy since my friend's son always make troubles with school, parents, friends but I really adores and cares about him cuz i was there when he was born and still visiting him I am bit worry about him. Cant help that
 
PurrMeow said:
Ok Galaxy since my friend's son always make troubles with school, parents, friends but I really adores and cares about him cuz i was there when he was born and still visiting him I am bit worry about him. Cant help that
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Yeah That okay.. as long you're willing deal w/him.. which you're show caring!
GOOD!
 
How to deal with troublemaker? hmmm just throw them over the bridge LOL.....

I usually ignore the troublemakers, they're not worth my time, pfffttt....
 
Yeah...

Someone who stirs up trouble to punish people & hurt people´s images. I have decided that they (troublemakers) must be a very unfulfilled and unhappy people to deliberately try to sabotage innocent people in way due their overactive imagination.
Troublemarkers dont feel be trust themselves but like to hurt anyone in cruel way.

You really have to wonder about troublemaker who think it´s his/her right to cause disruptions on any forums or real life, she/he has no interest in but think it´s her right to post malicious and libelous untruths about others.

I guess that troublemakers need professional helps to learn to know about themselves
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Yeah...

Someone who stirs up trouble to punish people & hurt people´s images. I have decided that they (troublemakers) must be a very unfulfilled and unhappy people to deliberately try to sabotage innocent people in way due their overactive imagination.
Troublemarkers dont feel be trust themselves but like to hurt anyone in cruel way.

You really have to wonder about troublemaker who think it´s his/her right to cause disruptions on any forums or real life, she/he has no interest in but think it´s her right to post malicious and libelous untruths about others.

I guess that troublemakers need professional helps to learn to know about themselves
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Gotta agree with you on that.

I've got several trouble-makers that I don't deal with. I don't trust them at all.
 
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