Yes, DSL filters are brand new and everything is new. And even exchanged the modem, no help. Guess it is the relay box thing is too far to me. I guess I'll have to move back to the city just to get cable internet which i hate. And we have DirecTV and it is not connect to the phone >_>. So it is mainly the DSL's DNS servers and such.
I tried decreasing to 192kb in VP-200, it works fine, but eh. I need to learn how to keep my mouth shut :P.
I also tried DMZ on and it works but i tried port fowarding and it is slower than DMZ even i put the right port info.
But thanks for your explaination on i2eye's VRS thing.
Also, i forgot ot mention, we have 2 separate lines of DSL modems, my bf have a DSL modem too, so we use separate lines, is that probly the reason why it won't work well?