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The*Empress

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I don't want men to want to date me right away...
and then dumped me afterward.

I want to have friendship first....
if we like to have a good conversation with each other...
like being around with each other.

For example...

a guy at work... he plays games...
and I would try to sit next to him...
but he gets up and sit somewhere else...
and then he gets mad if a guy talk to me.

I don't have time for that.

At work, it would be nice if a guy
asked me if he want to learn astrology
while I was reading my astrology book
during lunch break.

And just share with him... what I have learn
and teach him a little bit....
And we share common interesting...

If he says... oh that is witchcraft or he doesn't believe in that stuff...
then he isn't a man for me... because I think he will criticize me
for everything else I do.

If he says... oh I would love to learn some more about that stuff.
then yeah he is the man for me.

And if he talks tooo soft and i can't hear him...
and he knows I have a hearing problem, but doesn't care
if I can hear or not... then I don't want him...

I want someone I can have a good long conversation with me...

And if someone wanna talk silly all the time, I don't wanna waste
my time trying to figure out that person...
I want to talk seriously about stuff with that person...

I want a soulmate, a buddy, a bestfriend, good listener, and
a damn good good lover too.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
I don't want men to want to date me right away...
and then dumped me afterward.

I want to have friendship first....
if we like to have a good conversation with each other...
like being around with each other.

For example...

a guy at work... he plays games...
and I would try to sit next to him...
but he gets up and sit somewhere else...
and then he gets mad if a guy talk to me.

I don't have time for that.

At work, it would be nice if a guy
asked me if he want to learn astrology
while I was reading my astrology book
during lunch break.

And just share with him... what I have learn
and teach him a little bit....
And we share common interesting...

If he says... oh that is witchcraft or he doesn't believe in that stuff...
then he isn't a man for me... because I think he will criticize me
for everything else I do.

If he says... oh I would love to learn some more about that stuff.
then yeah he is the man for me.

And if he talks tooo soft and i can't hear him...
and he knows I have a hearing problem, but doesn't care
if I can hear or not... then I don't want him...

I want someone I can have a good long conversation with me...

And if someone wanna talk silly all the time, I don't wanna waste
my time trying to figure out that person...
I want to talk seriously about stuff with that person...

I want a soulmate, a buddy, a bestfriend, good listener, and
a damn good good lover too.
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Lol... Yeah, I understand how u feel thru.. I dont blame u...

are ya h&hearing ? ?

Just keep looking around and find a Mr. right in someday. Just be patience.


:fly2:
 
yea i'd rather be friends first then you know whats his flaws and what you like about him. And if you can see yourself with him more then friends. Sometimes a guy you're just friends with can end up being someone you never thought you could see more then just a friend. I would rather go out with someone i known for a year then someone i only known for a week or two.
 
my gf and i have been friends for 10 years. we just now are together.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
yes I am hard and hearing.

Okay.
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Cool, that u are h&hearing...

Yeah, take ur time to looking for Mr. RIGHT ! !

Like, I wasn't serious in relationship for 4 yrs cuz I was student of NTID. Later, I met my husband. I didn't excepted that happened. But Im glad to met him ! :mrgreen:
 
ella said:
yea i'd rather be friends first then you know whats his flaws and what you like about him. And if you can see yourself with him more then friends. Sometimes a guy you're just friends with can end up being someone you never thought you could see more then just a friend. I would rather go out with someone i known for a year then someone i only known for a week or two.
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yeah me too... I like that....
I wanna guy who is like my best friend... and know him for a year
and then start dating.

I don't like that guy at work who expect me to date him right away...
when I only know him a minute.

I like that white guy at work though, he was trying to learn
how to sign language, trying to communicate with me...
And we chat and stuff...
:P
At least that is a good start.
 
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