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Farewell for Emma on Monday - New Zealand news on Stuff.co.nz

Hundreds of family and friends of murdered Christchurch woman Emma Agnew will farewell her at a funeral service on Monday.

Police said yesterday that a post-mortem revealed Agnew, 20, who was deaf, had been suffocated.

Her body was found covered by vegetation in Spencer Park, on the northern outskirts of Christchurch, on Monday night, 11 days after she went missing.

Liam James Reid, 35, unemployed, who has changed his name from Julian Heath Edgecombe, appeared in the Christchurch District Court this week charged with her murder.

Agnew's funeral will be held in the Aurora performing arts centre at Burnside High School at 2.30pm on Monday.

The service will have visual tributes to Agnew, who worked with the Deaf Sports Federation and the Deaf Society of Canterbury.

Members of her extended family have discussed releasing butterflies at the funeral to pay their respects.

Most butterfly species are deaf and they symbolise freedom and independence for the deaf community.

Agnew's parents, Louise and Henry Agnew, are also deaf, as are her three brothers.

Deaf Association general manager Tony Blackett said the Agnew family had requested no television cameras inside the centre during the funeral because it did "not want to be reliving the service on the television".

Friends of Agnew have told The Press that she had been relishing a new phase of life, having moved into a Linwood house she shared with a deaf flatmate.

She enjoyed going to nightclubs, dancing to the beat, and visiting friends. Her sign name, or nickname in the deaf community, was Smile.

The son of a woman murdered last year has urged Agnew's family to stay together to try to deal with her death.

Kevin McNeil, whose mother, Lois Dear, was murdered in July 2006, said Agnew's killer should not be allowed to destroy her family's lives as well.

"You need to be strong and get a really good family bond together," said McNeil, 43, a truck driver, from Coromandel.

"Don't let what has happened break your family apart. You need to have huge strength. Don't let it control your life as well."

Dear was beaten to death by an intruder at the school she worked at in Tokoroa.

"If they need help there are plenty of other victims who would be grateful to offer advice and help," said McNeil, who lives in Coromandel with his partner, Lizzie, 30, and two children.

"I would love to meet with them and help them if that's what they wanted. I can't think of them enough," he said.

Meanwhile, Agnew's friend Andy Savage said he had been amazed by the support shown from across New Zealand.

"I find it pretty amazing ... even complete strangers are offering support and donating money to the family."

Savage said it remained a very difficult time for those who knew Emma. "All the support in the world doesn't change what happened."

The Solicitor-General's office yesterday said it was investigating whether several websites and a radio station were in contempt of court over comments about Reid.

A spokeswoman said comments on the Trade Me forum, the TV3 and Radio Live websites, and a broadcast from Radio Live host Michael Laws were being looked at.

She said people should be careful what they published about Reid.
 
That's tragic! May she rest in peace.
 
Emma Agnew's funeral

6PM TRANSCRIPT (03/12/07): Emma Agnew's funeral | NATIONAL | NEWS | tvnz.co.nz

PRESENTER, SIMON DALLOW: Hundreds of people gathered in Christchurch today to farewell murdered woman Emma Agnew. The 20-year-old's body was found a week ago on the outskirts of the city. Her funeral gave family and friends and the Deaf community a chance to celebrate her achievements. Reporter Vicki Wilkinson-Baker was at the service and joins us now from Christchurch. Vicki.

(LIVE) REPORTER, VICKI WILKINSON-BAKER: Hello, Simon. Well, the auditorium here at Burnside High holds about 700 people - that was completely packed. There were another two or three hundred people out here in the foyer watching the service on a big screen. Organisers told me afterwards they weren't surprised at the numbers. They say she was so well loved in the Deaf community, that's what they expected. For those who turned up for this service today, it was a very very sad occasion and a very moving one.

(CLIP BEGINS) REPORTER: Emma Agnew touched many people in her life. This, their chance to say farewell.

RACHEL NOBLE, DEAF ASSOCIATION, (VIA INTERPRETER): Today is about Emma, and it's about Emma's family, her extended family, her friends and her community.

REPORTER: They came in their hundreds. Each with their special memories.

BAZ KAY, FRIEND, (VIA INTERPRETER): She was never a negative kind of person; she was always positive and always helping the Deaf community.

DARRYL ALEXANDER, FRIEND, (VIA INTERPRETER): Well, of course for her smile - her sparkly, white smile.

REPORTER: When Emma Agnew failed to turn up for work two and a half weeks ago, a huge police operation swung into action. Posters went up round the city as the Deaf community did all they could to find her. The search lasted 12 days and ended with the discovery of her body at Spencer Park.

REPORTER: Today no one wanted to dwell on the events of the last few weeks; it was about celebrating what one young woman achieved in her 20 years.

RACHEL NOBLE, DEAF ASSOCIATION, (VIA INTERPRETER): It was a beautiful funeral. It just matched Emma perfectly.

REPORTER: Family and friends spoke of a young woman who had tremendous potential, a young woman who loved life and laughter - her death bringing together two different communities.

JOSJE LELIJVELT, DEAF SOCIETY, (VIA INTERPRETER): Emma has gone, but one of the big things that we've learnt and seen from her death is that the Deaf and the hearing communities have come together.

REPORTER: As 200 balloons were released in Emma's memory - today was not the day for expressing anger. Although a man's been charged with her murder, today's service was about love and a life that ended too soon.

(CLIP ENDS)

(LIVE) PRESENTER: An understandably emotional time for many there, Vicki. What else was said at the service?

(LIVE) REPORTER: One of the main things was there was a very special thank you for the police who've worked so long and so hard on this case. There was a thank you as well for the interpreters, for people who've donated money and flowers, people who've given their time and have helped support the family through this. There were a couple of very very moving moments in this service. They played a couple of songs in Emma's memory. A lot of us, of course, could hear those songs, but many in the Deaf community couldn't, so they signed them. And to see these songs being signed was a very very beautiful thing to watch, and it made a lot of people cry. Straight after the service, the family had their own private funeral, and this evening a lot of members of the Deaf community are gathering at the Deaf Society where, as they said at this service, they'll be telling more stories and sharing more memories.

PRESENTER: Thank you, Vicki. Vicki Wilkinson-Baker in Christchurch.
 
Too much violence to beat or murder women from boyfriend, husband or stranger(man). I am sick of what is happening to women whether hearing, deaf, normal or disabilities. Those men are sickos and we are never safe from those preperators. :eek: :crazy:
 
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