Been there before. My first ex hubby ( azzhole) that ruined my second wedding day. On the day he and his friend came and were drunk. I had to call cops to arrest them. We had to announce ppls who were at wedding to come other time. GRR at him and his idiot mother. They both got jealous cuz they found out that I had big wedding and have a house to live and place to live to be able to live happily. Cuz my ex hubby did not have a job and didnot have a house. Thats why I had argued to court to order both of them to deny their parole to stay in jail long term. Finally I got them to stay long time in jail. I hope it wont occur to your wedding. Let me know then I can kick his azz if he try to ruin your wedding. I am seriously.
How awful to spoil your happy day like that!!!! Vampy's right, "no life".