Emotional Abuse..

thanks for share with us.. yes few of my ex has it n i dont like it n turned me off..that why i left
 
YW.. my ex bill emotionally abused me big time.. unbelivable.. i am glad i am not with him anymore.. but thought to share with you and others.. its good article and good for people who are having plms and want to get out but arent sure ?? this is perfectly to show if they are or not??
 
I've been there with my psycho ex-fiance and this was back in 1992. It was so, so awful to go through it especially with him who has a "sick" mind which I didn't know about until later. He put a scar in my heart for a very long time and it took me a long time for me to recover mentally. I'm just so glad that I broke off with him because if I hadn't I wouldn't be here today. :aw:
 
SmileyGin said:
YW.. my ex bill emotionally abused me big time.. unbelivable.. i am glad i am not with him anymore.. but thought to share with you and others.. its good article and good for people who are having plms and want to get out but arent sure ?? this is perfectly to show if they are or not??
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yes i undy how ur feeling abt this.. my 2 of ex were out of control n angry at me n i was innocent.. it turned me off n left
 
Catmandu said:
I've been there with my psycho ex-fiance and this was back in 1992. It was so, so awful to go through it especially with him who has a "sick" mind which I didn't know about until later. He put a scar in my heart for a very long time and it took me a long time for me to recover mentally. I'm just so glad that I broke off with him because if I hadn't I wouldn't be here today. :aw:
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wow u r very lucky alive whew :hug:
 
Catmandu said:
I've been there with my psycho ex-fiance and this was back in 1992. It was so, so awful to go through it especially with him who has a "sick" mind which I didn't know about until later. He put a scar in my heart for a very long time and it took me a long time for me to recover mentally. I'm just so glad that I broke off with him because if I hadn't I wouldn't be here today. :aw:
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:shock:~serouisly..

btw I'm glad you're still here today :D :hug:
 
Thank you :grouphug: and ofc, I'm glad to be here today! No one should ever have to go through this like some of us did. Pray that everyone is safe and happy. Just look out for the red flags then get the hell out. There are beautiful people out there that you can settle down with.

:ily:
 
Catmandu said:
Thank you :grouphug: and ofc, I'm glad to be here today! No one should ever have to go through this like some of us did. Pray that everyone is safe and happy. Just look out for the red flags then get the hell out. There are beautiful people out there that you can settle down with.

:ily:
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yes true i agree with u...:hug: n :ily:
 
Catmandu said:
Thank you :grouphug: and ofc, I'm glad to be here today! No one should ever have to go through this like some of us did. Pray that everyone is safe and happy. Just look out for the red flags then get the hell out. There are beautiful people out there that you can settle down with.

:ily:
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yep i agree with you that there are fishes out there for others to find and be happy in love forever.. heh..

im glad you are ok.. just like me.. im fine but still never forget the scars like what if what if had happen? i gotta stop that and move on as im not with him anymore? :) thats why i believe i should share the link with others to watch out for red flags of their partner and if should get out or not? not worth to go thru and suffer terribly? :(

Hugs and :ily: too
 
SmileyGin said:
yep i agree with you that there are fishes out there for others to find and be happy in love forever.. heh..

im glad you are ok.. just like me.. im fine but still never forget the scars like what if what if had happen? i gotta stop that and move on as im not with him anymore? :) thats why i believe i should share the link with others to watch out for red flags of their partner and if should get out or not? not worth to go thru and suffer terribly? :(

Hugs and :ily: too
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It is impossible to forget, but at least you were aware of the abuse from your past relationship and if it happen again with new relationship then you'd get out of it much quicker this time around. I will tell you it will take a long time for you to heal and no BS about that. As long as you keep yourself open to your fiance and he'd understand and be patient with you. Think positive girl! Thanks for sharing the links with us and I'm glad that you are okay as well. :hug:
 
I have a question... Does that mean if your parents refuse to learn sign language, it is a form of emotional abuse ????
 
i have seen few friends of mine that their parents doesnt use sign language and grew up to be an adult and have emotional problems.. yes i believe it is...
 
Buffalo said:
I have a question... Does that mean if your parents refuse to learn sign language, it is a form of emotional abuse ????
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Not always. It really depends on why the parents refuse to learn to sign.

Some parents don't think it's needed, especially if the kids are in a residental school and only home for the weekend.
Some parents don't have time, due to having a job that takes up so much of their time plus other kids in the family that also need attention.
Some parents want their kids to have both oral and signing skills, so they may use oral at home, and allow the child to sign at school (mine did this)

SO really, it's not always emotional abuse. It really depends on the parents reasons.
 
Everyday people emotional abuse me.

Especially here on AllDeaf.

That is why I carried all of these hate.
 
Freaky Cat said:
http://www.therapistfinder.net/Domestic-V iolence/Emotional-Abuse.html <-- 404 File Not Found


Emotional Abuse 20Emotional%20Abuse?



http://www.studentaffairs.cmu.edu/counsel ing/documents/emotion.htm <-- The page cannot be found


http://www.abc.net.au/science/news/storie s/s97008.htm <-- Sorry, Page not Found

something to think.. if you are being emotionally abused.. get out of the relationship....
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Ummm, the FACT in past and present white citizen/ white foreigners who are still emotion abuse toward the Native black people in North America by their * forms of name-calling, accusing, blaming, threatening! nothing changes since 1500 period.
 
BearBeauty said:
Not always. It really depends on why the parents refuse to learn to sign.

Some parents don't think it's needed, especially if the kids are in a residental school and only home for the weekend.
Some parents don't have time, due to having a job that takes up so much of their time plus other kids in the family that also need attention.
Some parents want their kids to have both oral and signing skills, so they may use oral at home, and allow the child to sign at school (mine did this)

SO really, it's not always emotional abuse. It really depends on the parents reasons.
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That's fine but what if the child depends on sign only and the parents still dont learn sign?
 
That I would consider neglect, since the parents are not considering the child's needs. Could be a form of emotional abuse as well. Especially if the parents are purposely not using sign due to being embarassed by having a child they consider "disabled"

I'm not trying to start anything, that's just how some parents are. I know none of the parents here on AllDeaf are like that, but I"m sure we all know of some parents who are like that.
 
XBGMER said:
Ummm, the FACT in past and present white citizen/ white foreigners who are still emotion abuse toward the Native black people in North America by their * forms of name-calling, accusing, blaming, threatening! nothing changes since 1500 period.
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im sorry if the link doesnt work.. if you looked closely.. i put the links here last year so obivously why the file is not found. I m sorry.
 
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