PePe LePew
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Feel free to say "no" and give no reason.
Change the people in your life.
Get rid of manipulative, cruel or negative people. Befriend anyone who's kind and good.
Retrain your loved ones.
Start teaching them to expect less of you. Weather the storms this may temporarily induce.
Claim your right to change your mind.
The consistency and structure needed for child-raising no longer hold.
Start something new. Be a novice.
Feel your feelings.
Be compassionate, but not as an excuse to be weak.
Change your ways, your life and your way of looking at things. Be willing to endure the negative feelings this will induce - pain, fear, hurt and anger - both in you and in others.
Mourn what's gone and start creating the next stage.
Be a person who has rights.
No one can do this for you and you can't ask to be treated this way.
Change the people in your life.
Get rid of manipulative, cruel or negative people. Befriend anyone who's kind and good.
Retrain your loved ones.
Start teaching them to expect less of you. Weather the storms this may temporarily induce.
Claim your right to change your mind.
The consistency and structure needed for child-raising no longer hold.
Start something new. Be a novice.
Feel your feelings.
Be compassionate, but not as an excuse to be weak.
Change your ways, your life and your way of looking at things. Be willing to endure the negative feelings this will induce - pain, fear, hurt and anger - both in you and in others.
Mourn what's gone and start creating the next stage.
Be a person who has rights.
No one can do this for you and you can't ask to be treated this way.