My complication is huge, I've worn a hearing aid all my life.
I'am pretty much deaf without my hearing aid, and wish I didn't have to pay so much money to learn sign language. In Toronto there's no other way to learn apparently that I know of, and the Deaf aren't willing to teach, and the Cdn. Hearing Society only helps those that are deaf, and if your HOH they just label you with a bunch of quack labels.
Now my Dad who is 69 is still denying his hearing loss and refuses to wear a hearing aid.
The problem is that he either purposely can't hear me and then barks at me "or" he really can't hear me and always gives me shit!
Even when I answer him he shouts at me to answer his questions!
And this is happening now on a daily basis.
So when I ask Mom if I need to speak to him face to face so he can hear me, she outright almost bolted with anger in my face "Don't you dare ask him that", you need to think about moving out"!
So what I'am I to do?? I' live in Toronto and can't move into an apartment here because they're too dry and I have multiple chemical sensitivites, plus I'am not working. Meanwhile my parents want to just throw me out because Dad keeps hollering at me because he doesn't hear me! They wouldn't care if my health goes insane again and I can't afford food - actually they wouldn't even let me even go back to school years ago either!, every time I purchase something I also get in shit or yelled at and I'am 37.
I lived in another city once and was going back home and changed my mind but my Dad yelled like an ape on the phone so I moved home and he's just a total insane jackass! Has anybody else lived with this shit from their parents?
If I'am sane, and I know I am......this is wrong and normally this doesn't happen and he either really does have dementia and the family covers it up nicely and I'am still the rotten one, or it's just an excuse their doing to get me out of their house, and I used to be their daughter!
But then I'am the one with a hearing loss, and doesn't work so they shun me!
My old boyfriend from college even thought my parents were ashamed about me, but I really didn't see it back then - apparently they are and always have been. When they found out I was HOH, (I was three) they had to decide whether to keep me or send me back to Child Services from where they adapted me at 21/2 months.
I'am pretty much deaf without my hearing aid, and wish I didn't have to pay so much money to learn sign language. In Toronto there's no other way to learn apparently that I know of, and the Deaf aren't willing to teach, and the Cdn. Hearing Society only helps those that are deaf, and if your HOH they just label you with a bunch of quack labels.
Now my Dad who is 69 is still denying his hearing loss and refuses to wear a hearing aid.
The problem is that he either purposely can't hear me and then barks at me "or" he really can't hear me and always gives me shit!
Even when I answer him he shouts at me to answer his questions!
And this is happening now on a daily basis.
So when I ask Mom if I need to speak to him face to face so he can hear me, she outright almost bolted with anger in my face "Don't you dare ask him that", you need to think about moving out"!
So what I'am I to do?? I' live in Toronto and can't move into an apartment here because they're too dry and I have multiple chemical sensitivites, plus I'am not working. Meanwhile my parents want to just throw me out because Dad keeps hollering at me because he doesn't hear me! They wouldn't care if my health goes insane again and I can't afford food - actually they wouldn't even let me even go back to school years ago either!, every time I purchase something I also get in shit or yelled at and I'am 37.
I lived in another city once and was going back home and changed my mind but my Dad yelled like an ape on the phone so I moved home and he's just a total insane jackass! Has anybody else lived with this shit from their parents?
If I'am sane, and I know I am......this is wrong and normally this doesn't happen and he either really does have dementia and the family covers it up nicely and I'am still the rotten one, or it's just an excuse their doing to get me out of their house, and I used to be their daughter!
But then I'am the one with a hearing loss, and doesn't work so they shun me!
My old boyfriend from college even thought my parents were ashamed about me, but I really didn't see it back then - apparently they are and always have been. When they found out I was HOH, (I was three) they had to decide whether to keep me or send me back to Child Services from where they adapted me at 21/2 months.
We face a lot of trials in this life. This is just one wall that