I agree with the earlier posts. If you love someone and they love you back, it doesn't matter they they are hearing or not. I am hearing but dated a deaf guy for many years. It was one of the best relationships I have ever been in.
I know how hard it can be to find a date. I've been single now for over three years and I'm ready to get back into the game myself. Oneday we will both find Mr. Right.
I don't think it should matter what size you are. Most people change in size over the years. Some people gain weight and some loose. I have dated men who are larger than me and I've dated men smaller than me. And I perfer a man who is a little bigger.