Without write down on something. I would point at the menus and give number "1" or "2" and do the body sign "drink" and "big" with "no-no" shaking head. Then do the hitchhiking sign as "TO GO".
I'm confuse. Are we fine with same-sex kiss each other so hard and we get sick of hulk waiter? Also, we're fine with hottie waitress at Hooter or Twin Peaks?