abortion addict - Page 4

shel90 · 10-26-2009, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Why would I want to stone her? Like I said, abortion is legal. Her body, her decision as they. What's another several extra dead pre-born human beings on her conscious regardless of her reason(s) for having those abortions?

U keep bringing up abortion rather than focus on her underlying issues. I know that there are people who want to blast her for all those abortions. Would that really help her in the long run? Probably not.

Jiro · 10-26-2009, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Why would I want to stone her? Like I said, abortion is legal. Her body, her decision as they. What's another several extra dead pre-born human beings on her conscious regardless of her reason(s) for having those abortions?

so what would you like the legislators to do about it?

jillio · 10-26-2009, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Why would I want to stone her? Like I said, abortion is legal. Her body, her decision as they. What's another several extra dead pre-born human beings on her conscious regardless of her reason(s) for having those abortions?

Several contradictions in terms contained in your post, and the wording is evidence of the attempt to promote a personal agenda rather than to look at the issue as it exists. Just more judgement. Don't be surprised when others judge you as you seem to be so willing to judge others. You get back what you put out.

jillio · 10-26-2009, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

so what would you like the legislators to do about it?

He wants them to stone her!

That way he can say, "I didn't throw the rocks!"

The narrow mindedness and inability to see past a single word never ceases to amaze me.

***VamPyroX*** · 10-26-2009, 09:39 PM

This reminds me of someone I knew at RIT. She had a serious drinking and drug problem. She would go out almost every night and get drunk and stoned. She would often have sex with guys that she met at parties and wake up not remembering who she slept with. She would also end up being pregnant. Since she didn't want to pay to have an abortion, she would keep drinking and doing drugs trying to cause a miscarriage. Of course, she succeeded. It never ended for her, she kept doing it over and over. She had gotten pregnant like 5 to 7 times in 2 years... which she had a forced miscarriage for all of them.

jillio · 10-26-2009, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by VamPyroX

This reminds me of someone I knew at RIT. She had a serious drinking and drug problem. She would go out almost every night and get drunk and stoned. She would often have sex with guys that she met at parties and wake up not remembering who she slept with. She would also end up being pregnant. Since she didn't want to pay to have an abortion, she would keep drinking and doing drugs trying to cause a miscarriage. Of course, she succeeded. It never ended for her, she kept doing it over and over. She had gotten pregnant like 5 to 7 times in 2 years... which she had a forced miscarriage for all of them.

Sounds like she had some serious mental health issues that needed to be dealt with as well. The type of behavior you described is evidence enough that she was not mentally and emotionally healthy.

***VamPyroX*** · 10-26-2009, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by jillio

Sounds like she had some serious mental health issues that needed to be dealt with as well. The type of behavior you described is evidence enough that she was not mentally and emotionally healthy.

Yeah. She got kicked out of school because she missed too many classes. She thinks it's because her teachers simply don't like her and not because she missed too many classes.

She had at least 1 more forced miscarriage after I last saw her a few years ago. I don't know what she's up to these days.

It does make me wonder who she did it with and where she went when these things happened.

Jiro · 10-26-2009, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by VamPyroX

This reminds me of someone I knew at RIT. She had a serious drinking and drug problem. She would go out almost every night and get drunk and stoned. She would often have sex with guys that she met at parties and wake up not remembering who she slept with. She would also end up being pregnant. Since she didn't want to pay to have an abortion, she would keep drinking and doing drugs trying to cause a miscarriage. Of course, she succeeded. It never ended for her, she kept doing it over and over. She had gotten pregnant like 5 to 7 times in 2 years... which she had a forced miscarriage for all of them.

I'm...... speechless....... I'm not sure but was RIT supposed to try to take care of her with counseling service?

kokonut · 10-26-2009, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

U keep bringing up abortion rather than focus on her underlying issues. I know that there are people who want to blast her for all those abortions. Would that really help her in the long run? Probably not.

Either the underlying issue is about the reason why she is doing all these abortions (i.e empowerment) by doing it on purpose (get pregnant) or that she has done "too many" abortions. Regardless, the end result is still the same. But I guess for some it's about the horror of finding out why abortions were done.

jillio · 10-26-2009, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by VamPyroX

Yeah. She got kicked out of school because she missed too many classes. She thinks it's because her teachers simply don't like her and not because she missed too many classes.

She had at least 1 more forced miscarriage after I last saw her a few years ago. I don't know what she's up to these days.

It does make me wonder who she did it with and where she went when these things happened.

Its very typical for someone who exhibits the kind of behavior you described to alway claim it is the "other person's fault". Until they are ready to accept their own contributions to the situation, no one can help them much.

I hope that she has gotten some help since you saw her last. If not, she is no doubt still living a life of misery.

shel90 · 10-26-2009, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Either the underlying issue is about the reason why she is doing all these abortions (i.e empowerment) by doing it on purpose (get pregnant) or that she has done "too many" abortions. Regardless, the end result is still the same. But I guess for some it's about the horror of finding out why abortions were done.

Again, your focus is on the abortions themselves.

jillio · 10-26-2009, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Either the underlying issue is about the reason why she is doing all these abortions (i.e empowerment) by doing it on purpose (get pregnant) or that she has done "too many" abortions. Regardless, the end result is still the same. But I guess for some it's about the horror of finding out why abortions were done.

Yep, you are just being obtuse. As I suspected.

Jiro · 10-26-2009, 09:50 PM

I find it comical that you are avoiding all of my questions

shel90 · 10-26-2009, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by VamPyroX

This reminds me of someone I knew at RIT. She had a serious drinking and drug problem. She would go out almost every night and get drunk and stoned. She would often have sex with guys that she met at parties and wake up not remembering who she slept with. She would also end up being pregnant. Since she didn't want to pay to have an abortion, she would keep drinking and doing drugs trying to cause a miscarriage. Of course, she succeeded. It never ended for her, she kept doing it over and over. She had gotten pregnant like 5 to 7 times in 2 years... which she had a forced miscarriage for all of them.

Sounds like a path to self-destruction..hope she got the help she needed. The last thing she needed is people passing judgement on her. Obviously, there were serious issues this woman was unable to deal with.

jillio · 10-26-2009, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

I find it comical that you are avoiding all of my questions

That is why it is called "being obtuse"

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kokonut · 10-26-2009, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Again, your focus is on the abortions themselves.

No, rather I am asking the question here. Some are saying that it's a mental issue, and that may very well be so but what exactly is it that makes this a "mental issue"?

CJB · 10-26-2009, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

No, rather I am asking the question here. Some are saying that it's a mental issue, and that may very well be so but what exactly is it that makes this a "mental issue"?

The excessive number and the reasons why she was doing it.

Bottesini · 10-26-2009, 10:19 PM

I'm more interested in the moment in watching one of the protesters of graphic threads avidly reading this one after complaining about the title of another.

jillio · 10-26-2009, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

No, rather I am asking the question here. Some are saying that it's a mental issue, and that may very well be so but what exactly is it that makes this a "mental issue"?

Scroll back. It has already been explained in numerous posts why this is a mental health issue.

CJB · 10-26-2009, 10:21 PM

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I was convinced I had put my finger on something. Fifteen pregnancies, most of them in one romance gone sour while married to a college professor thirty four years my senior, were fifteen "highs" charting an imaginary path of control and empowerment that resulted in fifteen despairing terminations.

The high she got from the fantasies of motherhood are what point to a psychological condition.

CJB · 10-26-2009, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Bottesini

I'm more interested in the moment in watching one of the protesters of graphic threads avidly reading this one after complaining about the title of another.

Cause that poster only thought of it in the other thread since the creator of that thread posts graphic threads on a pretty regular basis.

kokonut · 10-26-2009, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by CJB

The excessive number and the reasons why she was doing it.

Ok. How many is too many?

As for the reason why, is this something about her justification on doing an abortion?

jillio · 10-26-2009, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Ok. How many is too many?

As for the reason why, is this something about her justification on doing an abortion?

Those questions have been answered as well. Scroll back.

Why is it that you feel such a need to control and have power a woman's reproductive decisions? Particularly a woman you do not know and does not affect your life in the least?

shel90 · 10-26-2009, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Ok. How many is too many?

As for the reason why, is this something about her justification on doing an abortion?

Question...is it your body?

CJB · 10-26-2009, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by kokonut

Ok. How many is too many?

As for the reason why, is this something about her justification on doing an abortion?

How many is too many is a matter of debate and depends heavily on circumstances. In her case, personally I would put the limit at 2, but that's just my personal opinion.

As for the reason why, anyone will tell you that someone who gets a high or can't function without something is addicted to it. That's why the article is titled "Abortion addict." She was addicted to the prospect of motherhood and since she didn't actually want to land herself IN motherhood, she aborted her baby. She explains very openly and honestly the feelings behind her actions. I suggest rereading the article.

rockin'robin · 10-26-2009, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Bottesini

I'm more interested in the moment in watching one of the protesters of graphic threads avidly reading this one after complaining about the title of another.

Thank you, Bott!

Bottesini · 10-26-2009, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by rockin'robin

Thank you, Bott!

No problem.

(Truth, justice, etc. )

Cheri · 10-26-2009, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Yea, it seems the word "abortion" became the sole focus here.

That's what the story is about, She has admitted to being "an abortion addict"

If she does have mental illness then she should have had counseling years ago, mental illness like this should have been caught after a few abortions, not after 15 abortions.

Mr. Averythest · 10-27-2009, 12:10 AM

lol.....
First: There are no limits on abortions.
Second: Are any of you e-doctors qualified to say she has a mental health issue?
Third: I dont give a fuck about other people. Feel free to have 100+ abortions, and live your life the way you want to.

kokonut · 10-27-2009, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Question...is it your body?

I'm not the one calling the shots identifying her as having a mental issue.

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Mr. Averythest apotheosis, paragon of Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,841	lol..... First: There are no limits on abortions. Second: Are any of you e-doctors qualified to say she has a mental health issue? Third: I dont give a fuck about other people. Feel free to have 100+ abortions, and live your life the way you want to. __________________ Bewb patrol here. I'd love to see your bewbs, please send them to me in PM here. Sets of bewbs sent to my pm box: 6 w00t! You guys are awesome! Keep sendin' em in! Itchy groin ASL and Deaf happy hour at Avery Brewery info (January 5th 2010)

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