sexual abuse

highlands · 10-06-2007, 05:56 AM

hmm It may sound that I should start the thread in penisarium instead of here but I think this should be considered seriously instead of fun. Mods, please keep this here if possible.

I saw a website against porn.. A rich collection about the truth on porn.

there you go Anti-Pornography Activist Blog: Top 100 Anti-Porn Videos From YouTube All In One Post! :-)

what do you think about it ? fire away

PuyoPiyo · 10-06-2007, 07:23 AM

I watched some of video, but no CC, all I can watch is them talking without understanding so I don't watch whole of the video.

My opinion about the porn is that.. I have really nothing to do whatever people do in the bed, I don't really care if they videotaping themselves in the bed and sell for $$$. I know being a porn star is totally disrespect about themselves, but it's their body. What can we do about their body?

We would want to have a sign "Keep your law off my body!" on us, that will be the same as those people who are porn star. What can we do about them?

Liebling:-))) · 10-06-2007, 04:11 PM

I really don´t care what and how the people do... It´s their business..., not mine.

CrzyMeg · 05-12-2008, 08:39 PM

I do. It happen to me when I was young child. ANd I am against everyone who does it to kids.

GarnetTigerMom · 05-12-2008, 10:10 PM

Sexual abuse is a terrible thing like rape and it wrong. What hurts the "victim most is not the cruelty of the oppressor, but the silence of the bystander." Reporting Educator Sexual Abuse Is Always Difficult. Whether the sexual abuse/harassment occurred during one incident yesterday or many, many times eighteen years ago, reporting it to authorities is a long, scary, painful and highly stressful process. There is no correct way for all victims. There is no easy way for any victim! But I do believe we should fight sexual abuse and help educate children and teenagers to be aware of the danger of sexual abuse. It important to help children and teenagers to understand the danger out there.

deafbajagal · 05-12-2008, 11:22 PM

Some people are not going to like my opinion, but hopefully they will respect it as I would theirs. But I do think porn has a lot of adverse influence on creating sexual offenders. This does NOT mean that every person who watches or read/look at porn will become a sexual offender - no! Same as not every person who plays violent videogames will become shooters at a mall or school. And it does not mean that porn is an excuse or to be the center of the blame for the sexual offenses - no! What I'm saying is that there are some people who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality. Most sexual offenders start out with soft pornography...then gradually it becomes more hard core until pornography doesn't "do the trick." Then they seek out actual victims. Most were sexually abused themselves as a child. Porn is sick and perverted. It is unrealistic and fake. I'm sorry, but I just don't get what is so cool about watching two people have sex. Having actual sex seems to be way more cool and exciting - why would I want to watch what others are doing that I could be doing myself? And the big businesses of porn are linked to child pornography and child sex abuse as well. I cannot name the businesses, especially one of them, because of slander and risk being sued, but I can promise you that one of the biggest porn business in the world - is also linked to child pornography and sex slavery. And most people don't realize that when they are buying that magazine, that they are supporting ongoing child porn, child abuse (and murder), and sex slavery. One hand washes the other.

Byrdie714 · 05-13-2008, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

Some people are not going to like my opinion, but hopefully they will respect it as I would theirs. But I do think porn has a lot of adverse influence on creating sexual offenders. This does NOT mean that every person who watches or read/look at porn will become a sexual offender - no! Same as not every person who plays violent videogames will become shooters at a mall or school. And it does not mean that porn is an excuse or to be the center of the blame for the sexual offenses - no! What I'm saying is that there are some people who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality. Most sexual offenders start out with soft pornography...then gradually it becomes more hard core until pornography doesn't "do the trick." Then they seek out actual victims. Most were sexually abused themselves as a child. Porn is sick and perverted. It is unrealistic and fake. I'm sorry, but I just don't get what is so cool about watching two people have sex. Having actual sex seems to be way more cool and exciting - why would I want to watch what others are doing that I could be doing myself? And the big businesses of porn are linked to child pornography and child sex abuse as well. I cannot name the businesses, especially one of them, because of slander and risk being sued, but I can promise you that one of the biggest porn business in the world - is also linked to child pornography and sex slavery. And most people don't realize that when they are buying that magazine, that they are supporting ongoing child porn, child abuse (and murder), and sex slavery. One hand washes the other.

Get ideas?

Cowpuppy · 05-13-2008, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

Some people are not going to like my opinion, but hopefully they will respect it as I would theirs. But I do think porn has a lot of adverse influence on creating sexual offenders. This does NOT mean that every person who watches or read/look at porn will become a sexual offender - no! Same as not every person who plays violent videogames will become shooters at a mall or school. And it does not mean that porn is an excuse or to be the center of the blame for the sexual offenses - no! What I'm saying is that there are some people who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality. Most sexual offenders start out with soft pornography...then gradually it becomes more hard core until pornography doesn't "do the trick." Then they seek out actual victims. Most were sexually abused themselves as a child. Porn is sick and perverted. It is unrealistic and fake. I'm sorry, but I just don't get what is so cool about watching two people have sex. Having actual sex seems to be way more cool and exciting - why would I want to watch what others are doing that I could be doing myself? And the big businesses of porn are linked to child pornography and child sex abuse as well. I cannot name the businesses, especially one of them, because of slander and risk being sued, but I can promise you that one of the biggest porn business in the world - is also linked to child pornography and sex slavery. And most people don't realize that when they are buying that magazine, that they are supporting ongoing child porn, child abuse (and murder), and sex slavery. One hand washes the other.

I agree.
Lot of kidnapping rapist are porn freaks.
Myself.....have no interest in watching some guy acting porn....always seemed gay for a guy to watch a guy and gal. No naked guys in my vision thank you.

GarnetTigerMom · 05-13-2008, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

Some people are not going to like my opinion, but hopefully they will respect it as I would theirs. But I do think porn has a lot of adverse influence on creating sexual offenders. This does NOT mean that every person who watches or read/look at porn will become a sexual offender - no! Same as not every person who plays violent videogames will become shooters at a mall or school. And it does not mean that porn is an excuse or to be the center of the blame for the sexual offenses - no! What I'm saying is that there are some people who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality. Most sexual offenders start out with soft pornography...then gradually it becomes more hard core until pornography doesn't "do the trick." Then they seek out actual victims. Most were sexually abused themselves as a child. Porn is sick and perverted. It is unrealistic and fake. I'm sorry, but I just don't get what is so cool about watching two people have sex. Having actual sex seems to be way more cool and exciting - why would I want to watch what others are doing that I could be doing myself? And the big businesses of porn are linked to child pornography and child sex abuse as well. I cannot name the businesses, especially one of them, because of slander and risk being sued, but I can promise you that one of the biggest porn business in the world - is also linked to child pornography and sex slavery. And most people don't realize that when they are buying that magazine, that they are supporting ongoing child porn, child abuse (and murder), and sex slavery. One hand washes the other.

I know child porns is sick I agree. I know that is a disturbing connection between images of sexual violence, produced for men's amusement, and the high incidence of rape. It really sick men out there. Pornography as a form of sexual abuse and that how I see it. It not only just kids it also women too it both. Many of the rapes portrayed in porn are actual rapes. The same applies to painful forms of bondage and torture. Pornography is not `just fantasy' for the women who are used to make it. I am sure it very very traumatic for women and children who gone through porns by force. We need to fight against people that using porns is wrong. It sick and twisted. Children and young girls need to be protected against crimials like that.

jillio · 05-13-2008, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by GarnetTigerMom

I know child porns is sick I agree. I know that is a disturbing connection between images of sexual violence, produced for men's amusement, and the high incidence of rape. It really sick men out there. Pornography as a form of sexual abuse and that how I see it. It not only just kids it also women too it both. Many of the rapes portrayed in porn are actual rapes. The same applies to painful forms of bondage and torture. Pornography is not `just fantasy' for the women who are used to make it. I am sure it very very traumatic for women and children who gone through porns by force. We need to fight against people that using porns is wrong. It sick and twisted. Children and young girls need to be protected against crimials like that.

While I have my own views on the issue of pornography, I have to say that there is no correlation between the availablity of pornography and the incidence of rape in the general population. A rapist wil commit rape whether or not pornography is available. Rape occurs in cultures where pronography is not available. As do other crimes against women and children.

Rape is not about sex. Rape is about violence, humiliation, and control. A rapist simply uses their penis as the weapon. It is not about sexual gratification in any way. One who is predisposed to commit degrading acts of violence against women will do so whether they have been exposed to pornography or not. Likewise, those sexual offenders who do report watching pornography have different motivation for watching it than does the average person.

Literature is full of well written and much read volumes of erotica. Do we start burning books, as well?

GarnetTigerMom · 05-13-2008, 11:23 AM

I know I hear horror stories of sexual predator kidnap kids and young girls and force them to do porn and expose it all over the internet is wrong. It feels like it a rape and taking away their innocent. I am against sexual porns on the nets. But I don't mind normal pictures of kids playing or smiling but forcing a child to take off his or her clothes or focing them to perfom sex is awful. But I am concern for children and young girls safety. But the internet does have a dark side. Because of predators are out there, looking for prey in the form of children. The child that had pictures of them being violated in the most obscene ways posted on the internet for all to see. I don't see nothing erotica about kids being violated. I really do believe the internet do have a dark side of that.

jillio · 05-13-2008, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by GarnetTigerMom

I know I hear horror stories of sexual predator kidnap kids and young girls and force them to do porn and expose it all over the internet is wrong. It feels like it a rape and taking away their innocent. I am against sexual porns on the nets. But I don't mind normal pictures of kids playing or smiling but forcing a child to take off his or her clothes or focing them to perfom sex is awful. But I am concern for children and young girls safety. But the internet does have a dark side. Because of predators are out there, looking for prey in the form of children. The child that had pictures of them being violated in the most obscene ways posted on the internet for all to see. I don't see nothing erotica about kids being violated. I really do believe the internet do have a dark side of that.

And that form of porn exists because there are predators out there who will pay for it. That does not mean that the porn created the predators. That means that the predators created a demand for the porn. And they would continue to be out there whether there was a porn industry or not.

deafdyke · 05-14-2008, 02:52 AM

Well, I dislike porn, but I dislike porn in the way that it's so "OMG sexee empowering cumshots.
I'm not all purtain about it, but there's a huge diffy between making love, and actual porn. Porn just seems to be too justifying being sexee.

Byrdie714 · 05-14-2008, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by jillio

While I have my own views on the issue of pornography, I have to say that there is no correlation between the availablity of pornography and the incidence of rape in the general population. A rapist wil commit rape whether or not pornography is available. Rape occurs in cultures where pronography is not available. As do other crimes against women and children.

Rape is not about sex. Rape is about violence, humiliation, and control. A rapist simply uses their penis as the weapon. It is not about sexual gratification in any way. One who is predisposed to commit degrading acts of violence against women will do so whether they have been exposed to pornography or not. Likewise, those sexual offenders who do report watching pornography have different motivation for watching it than does the average person.

Literature is full of well written and much read volumes of erotica. Do we start burning books, as well?

Remember that women are capable of rape as well......

GarnetTigerMom · 05-14-2008, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by deafdyke

Well, I dislike porn, but I dislike porn in the way that it's so "OMG sexee empowering cumshots.
I'm not all purtain about it, but there's a huge diffy between making love, and actual porn. Porn just seems to be too justifying being sexee.

Same here, I never like porn to young teenage girls and kids. But it okay for adults who want to take their clothes off, But not for kids and teenagers being expose the wrong way. It give me the creeps.

jillio · 05-14-2008, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Byrdie714

Remember that women are capable of rape as well......

Absolutely. In which case, they use something else as a weapon to create the same type of degradation a male rapists intends to create through his attack. Which is exactly why chemical castration does not stop a rapist from raping. If the penis is not available , anything else will do.

Byrdie714 · 05-14-2008, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by jillio

Absolutely. In which case, they use something else as a weapon to create the same type of degradation a male rapists intends to create through his attack. Which is exactly why chemical castration does not stop a rapist from raping. If the penis is not available , anything else will do.

Yep.

gmcman1996 · 05-14-2008, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Byrdie714

Remember that women are capable of rape as well......

Oh man... Now the only thing I can imagine is that school teachers (women) having sex with young boys... and get caught.. and charged with staturary rape, with a minor, under 18, Geez... I hate that "R" word.... It's so degrading....

Byrdie714 · 05-14-2008, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by gmcman1996

Oh man... Now the only thing I can imagine is that school teachers (women) having sex with young boys... and get caught.. and charged with staturary rape, with a minor, under 18, Geez... I hate that "R" word.... It's so degrading....

How soon have we forgotten Mary Kay LeTourneau ?

gmcman1996 · 05-14-2008, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Byrdie714

How soon have we forgotten Mary Kay LeTourneau ?

Thanks.. Couldn't remember the stupid bitch's name.. but last I heard, she got out of prison and dab smack married the boy (who was later 21 years old at the time!) Pretty stupid... but saw the movie, on Lifetime Channel, a couple times.. but now there are widespread cases of teacher-student rapes but still the stupid lady teachers just don't learn for shit... What's wrong with society these days.... Hmm....

harleymn · 05-14-2008, 09:27 PM

but it dont matter it pissses me offf if anybody touches my child or anybody else they be dealing with me thats a fact u know I dont give a shyt

gmcman1996 · 05-14-2008, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by harleymn

but it dont matter it pissses me offf if anybody touches my child or anybody else they be dealing with me thats a fact u know I dont give a shyt

I feel the same way... but one thing is for sure... sex predators are the sorriest motherf---ers of the criminals of all... Dealing with you.. Nah.. I'd done shot the sex predator, with a mean looking 12 gauge pump action Remington shotgun.. with double slug, or buckshot... straight at the sex predator's genitals.. He would not have a pecker nor balls after taking a direct hit there... End of sex predator, in my book... Next one same result... Don't give 2 shyts about sex predators.. cuz children are our future.... Duh...

Got me Harley?

GarnetTigerMom · 05-14-2008, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Byrdie714

How soon have we forgotten Mary Kay LeTourneau ?

Not soon enough! I haven't forgetten her but I know she is sick woman.

Liebling:-))) · 05-15-2008, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Byrdie714

How soon have we forgotten Mary Kay LeTourneau ?

http://www.alldeaf.com/current-event...etourneau.html

gmcman1996 · 05-15-2008, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by GarnetTigerMom

Not soon enough! I haven't forgetten her but I know she is sick woman.

Yep... The bitch is one very very sick whore... and traded her loving husband and 2 kids for a dickhead turd... Now how sick can that bitch be.... and as nasty as she is and was, and will always be...... Ewww! Glad she wasn't my school teacher to begin with!

10-06-2007, 05:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
highlands In Love & Happy Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: in an inland city Posts: 4,138	sexual abuse hmm It may sound that I should start the thread in penisarium instead of here but I think this should be considered seriously instead of fun. Mods, please keep this here if possible. I saw a website against porn.. A rich collection about the truth on porn. there you go Anti-Pornography Activist Blog: Top 100 Anti-Porn Videos From YouTube All In One Post! :-) what do you think about it ? fire away __________________

10-06-2007, 07:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
PuyoPiyo slotting Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Fourth Plain Village WA Posts: 4,825	I watched some of video, but no CC, all I can watch is them talking without understanding so I don't watch whole of the video. My opinion about the porn is that.. I have really nothing to do whatever people do in the bed, I don't really care if they videotaping themselves in the bed and sell for $$$. I know being a porn star is totally disrespect about themselves, but it's their body. What can we do about their body? We would want to have a sign "Keep your law off my body!" on us, that will be the same as those people who are porn star. What can we do about them? __________________ Hey everyone, I know some of you guys tried to pm me or leaving a message on my profile. I am very sorry that I haven't been around here lately because I went up to Puyallup State Fair working with my parents, and then I decided to go to Yakima Fair with my parents to work more, somehow when I came back and discovered that my computer had collasped. So I won't be using the computer as often as I was used to. Thanks everyone

10-06-2007, 04:11 PM	#3 (permalink)
Liebling:-))) Hiiiiiii it's meeeeee Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Germany Posts: 25,673	I really don´t care what and how the people do... It´s their business..., not mine. __________________ sniffing you

05-12-2008, 10:10 PM	#5 (permalink)
GarnetTigerMom Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Virginia Posts: 4,592	Sexual abuse is a terrible thing like rape and it wrong. What hurts the "victim most is not the cruelty of the oppressor, but the silence of the bystander." Reporting Educator Sexual Abuse Is Always Difficult. Whether the sexual abuse/harassment occurred during one incident yesterday or many, many times eighteen years ago, reporting it to authorities is a long, scary, painful and highly stressful process. There is no correct way for all victims. There is no easy way for any victim! But I do believe we should fight sexual abuse and help educate children and teenagers to be aware of the danger of sexual abuse. It important to help children and teenagers to understand the danger out there. __________________ GarnetTigerMom "The rain may be falling hard outside, But your smile makes it all alright. I'm so glad that you're my friend. I know our friendship will never end." -- Robert Alan

05-12-2008, 11:22 PM	#6 (permalink)
deafbajagal Jasmine's Tiger "Lilly" Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 1,884	Some people are not going to like my opinion, but hopefully they will respect it as I would theirs. But I do think porn has a lot of adverse influence on creating sexual offenders. This does NOT mean that every person who watches or read/look at porn will become a sexual offender - no! Same as not every person who plays violent videogames will become shooters at a mall or school. And it does not mean that porn is an excuse or to be the center of the blame for the sexual offenses - no! What I'm saying is that there are some people who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality. Most sexual offenders start out with soft pornography...then gradually it becomes more hard core until pornography doesn't "do the trick." Then they seek out actual victims. Most were sexually abused themselves as a child. Porn is sick and perverted. It is unrealistic and fake. I'm sorry, but I just don't get what is so cool about watching two people have sex. Having actual sex seems to be way more cool and exciting - why would I want to watch what others are doing that I could be doing myself? And the big businesses of porn are linked to child pornography and child sex abuse as well. I cannot name the businesses, especially one of them, because of slander and risk being sued, but I can promise you that one of the biggest porn business in the world - is also linked to child pornography and sex slavery. And most people don't realize that when they are buying that magazine, that they are supporting ongoing child porn, child abuse (and murder), and sex slavery. One hand washes the other. __________________ "The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires." ~Quote by William Arthur Ward

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05-12-2008, 08:39 PM	#4 (permalink)
CrzyMeg I love Toby Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 5,339 Blog Entries: 1	I do. It happen to me when I was young child. ANd I am against everyone who does it to kids.

05-13-2008, 11:23 AM	#11 (permalink)
GarnetTigerMom Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Virginia Posts: 4,592	I know I hear horror stories of sexual predator kidnap kids and young girls and force them to do porn and expose it all over the internet is wrong. It feels like it a rape and taking away their innocent. I am against sexual porns on the nets. But I don't mind normal pictures of kids playing or smiling but forcing a child to take off his or her clothes or focing them to perfom sex is awful. But I am concern for children and young girls safety. But the internet does have a dark side. Because of predators are out there, looking for prey in the form of children. The child that had pictures of them being violated in the most obscene ways posted on the internet for all to see. I don't see nothing erotica about kids being violated. I really do believe the internet do have a dark side of that. __________________ GarnetTigerMom "The rain may be falling hard outside, But your smile makes it all alright. I'm so glad that you're my friend. I know our friendship will never end." -- Robert Alan

05-14-2008, 02:52 AM	#13 (permalink)
deafdyke So NOT a Princess! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Trebekistan Posts: 6,570	Well, I dislike porn, but I dislike porn in the way that it's so "OMG sexee empowering cumshots. I'm not all purtain about it, but there's a huge diffy between making love, and actual porn. Porn just seems to be too justifying being sexee.

05-14-2008, 09:27 PM	#21 (permalink)
harleymn dallas Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: texas Posts: 320	but it dont matter it pissses me offf if anybody touches my child or anybody else they be dealing with me thats a fact u know I dont give a shyt