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Old 08-14-2007, 04:59 PM   #1 (permalink)
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(CNN) -- After spending a total of seven months in custody, the Tennessee woman who fatally shot her preacher husband in the back was released on Tuesday, her lawyer told CNN.

"She is out," Farese said.

Farese said his client will not talk to the news media because she continues to wage a legal battle to win custody of her girls and faces a $2 million civil suit filed by the parents of her slain husband, Matthew Winkler.

Except for her oldest daughter's brief testimony at her trial, Winkler hasn't seen her children in a year, the lawyer said.

Winkler will return to work at the dry cleaners in McMinnville, Tennessee, where she worked before the trial, Farese said. She is living with friends.

Winkler served about five months in county jail as she awaited trial, then spent two months undergoing therapy at the mental health facility following her conviction for voluntary manslaughter.

Winkler never denied shooting her husband, Matthew, the popular new preacher at the Fourth Street Church of Christ in Selmer, a town of 4,500 people about 80 miles east of Memphis.

On March 22, 2006, church elders found his body -- with a shotgun wound to the back -- in the bedroom of the parsonage after he failed to show up for an evening service. His wife was arrested the next day with the couple's three young daughters in Orange Beach, Alabama, on the Gulf coast.

Mary Winkler was charged with murder, which could have sent her to prison for up to 60 years, but a jury found her guilty of voluntary manslaughter following an emotional trial in which she testified about suffering years of verbal and physical abuse.

In a statement to police after her arrest, Winkler said she didn't recall pulling the trigger .She said she apologized and wiped the blood that bubbled from her dying husband's lips as he asked, "Why?"

Prosecutors and Matthew Winkler's family members said he was a good husband and father.

But on the stand, Mary Winkler described a hellish 10-year marriage during which, she said, her husband struck her, screamed at her, criticized her and blamed her when things went wrong. She said he made her watch pornography and wear "slutty" costumes for sex, and that he forced her to submit to sex acts that made her uncomfortable.

She testified she pointed the shotgun at her husband during an argument to force him to talk through their problems, and "something went off."

A defense psychologist testified that she was depressed and showed classic symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder.

Mary Winkler initially received a three-year sentence in June. But Circuit Court Judge J. Weber McCraw required that she serve only 210 days, and allowed her to serve the rest of the time on probation.

She also received credit for five months she spent behind bars awaiting trial, which left only about 60 days to her sentence. McCraw ruled she could serve the time in a mental health facility.

Since Mary Winkler's arrest, the couple's three children have been cared for by Matthew Winkler's parents, who have filed court papers seeking to terminate her parental rights.

Reference with pics: CNN news story

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Old 08-14-2007, 05:05 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Maybe the Preacher did abuse her.She had the right to defend herself.
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Old 08-14-2007, 05:19 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:42 PM   #4 (permalink)
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She's stupid. Killing wont help. Now she's freed. She should go to prison for life for killing a human being. yeah her husband abused her but he didn't kill her. She should have done what most people did....

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Old 08-14-2007, 08:48 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:49 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 08-14-2007, 08:56 PM   #7 (permalink)
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She's stupid. Killing wont help. Now she's freed. She should go to prison for life for killing a human being. yeah her husband abused her but he didn't kill her. She should have done what most people did....

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If she was being abused it was likely that she was to scared to leave by the fact of possibley getting hurt. Or he could have threatened her if she got a divorce he was going to hurt her or something.
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Old 08-14-2007, 09:07 PM   #8 (permalink)
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If she was being abused it was likely that she was to scared to leave by the fact of possibley getting hurt. Or he could have threatened her if she got a divorce he was going to hurt her or something.
Not just that, many churches condemn couples for getting divorced. Back in the ol' days, a lot of wives wouldn't even consider divorce because of the public shame they would be forced to go through with.
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Old 08-15-2007, 09:10 PM   #9 (permalink)
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She's stupid. Killing wont help. Now she's freed. She should go to prison for life for killing a human being. yeah her husband abused her but he didn't kill her. She should have done what most people did....

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I know divorce are not bad for Lutherans people who is member of Church.
But, my mother are better to be separated just not divorced that would been health insurance would be lower than single or divorced. I knew he having a best health insurance from his work.
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If she divorce him, He will threat her that he will take the girls away from the mother and will never see the girls if she do it. So guess she took a risk and kill him. Now the girls are with the grandparents and might will not get the girls back unless can have a visit rights to see them.
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If she divorce him, He will threat her that he will take the girls away from the mother and will never see the girls if she do it. So guess she took a risk and kill him. Now the girls are with the grandparents and might will not get the girls back unless can have a visit rights to see them.
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Old 08-16-2007, 05:07 PM   #12 (permalink)
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If she divorce him, He will threat her that he will take the girls away from the mother and will never see the girls if she do it. So guess she took a risk and kill him. Now the girls are with the grandparents and might will not get the girls back unless can have a visit rights to see them.
So it sounds like you think killing somebody is right thing to do with a good reasons. I believe murdeering human is very bad period no matter what reasons.
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(CNN) -- After spending a total of seven months in custody, the Tennessee woman who fatally shot her preacher husband in the back was released on Tuesday, her lawyer told CNN.

"She is out," Farese said.

Farese said his client will not talk to the news media because she continues to wage a legal battle to win custody of her girls and faces a $2 million civil suit filed by the parents of her slain husband, Matthew Winkler.

Except for her oldest daughter's brief testimony at her trial, Winkler hasn't seen her children in a year, the lawyer said.

Winkler will return to work at the dry cleaners in McMinnville, Tennessee, where she worked before the trial, Farese said. She is living with friends.

Winkler served about five months in county jail as she awaited trial, then spent two months undergoing therapy at the mental health facility following her conviction for voluntary manslaughter.

Winkler never denied shooting her husband, Matthew, the popular new preacher at the Fourth Street Church of Christ in Selmer, a town of 4,500 people about 80 miles east of Memphis.

On March 22, 2006, church elders found his body -- with a shotgun wound to the back -- in the bedroom of the parsonage after he failed to show up for an evening service. His wife was arrested the next day with the couple's three young daughters in Orange Beach, Alabama, on the Gulf coast.

Mary Winkler was charged with murder, which could have sent her to prison for up to 60 years, but a jury found her guilty of voluntary manslaughter following an emotional trial in which she testified about suffering years of verbal and physical abuse.

In a statement to police after her arrest, Winkler said she didn't recall pulling the trigger .She said she apologized and wiped the blood that bubbled from her dying husband's lips as he asked, "Why?"

Prosecutors and Matthew Winkler's family members said he was a good husband and father.

But on the stand, Mary Winkler described a hellish 10-year marriage during which, she said, her husband struck her, screamed at her, criticized her and blamed her when things went wrong. She said he made her watch pornography and wear "slutty" costumes for sex, and that he forced her to submit to sex acts that made her uncomfortable.

She testified she pointed the shotgun at her husband during an argument to force him to talk through their problems, and "something went off."

A defense psychologist testified that she was depressed and showed classic symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder.

Mary Winkler initially received a three-year sentence in June. But Circuit Court Judge J. Weber McCraw required that she serve only 210 days, and allowed her to serve the rest of the time on probation.

She also received credit for five months she spent behind bars awaiting trial, which left only about 60 days to her sentence. McCraw ruled she could serve the time in a mental health facility.

Since Mary Winkler's arrest, the couple's three children have been cared for by Matthew Winkler's parents, who have filed court papers seeking to terminate her parental rights.

Reference with pics: CNN news story

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With one eye open ? Yeah, you better be scared just like a mouse runnin' from a cat. Heh heh!!

But... about the article -- Well, I do support her since she suffered by her deceased husband's verbal/physical abuses. He shouldn't have played with her mind and emotions to tick her off after all those years. TEN years is pretty LONG enough for her. It has to stop so she did by killin' him. She needs peace and normal life back. If, he gives her peace and normal life back, then she wouldn't have killed him in the first place. He wasn't thinkin' of that. Women are vulnerable. Women are just like vases that could break easy when it comes to abuse.... and what does that man get ? Shot to stop the abuse.
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The husband is the cause of murder..... wife had mental breakdown after too long abuses either mentally and psychically......I support the wife....
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Killing is not good at all. I cannot pick a wife or husband because I don't see their life. I was not there. I cannot judge them wrong. I just say it was so sad that Wife said she was abuse and didnt mean to kill a husband. I just say that it was so sad that we don't hear what husband say. No judgement! Who believe which?
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With one eye open ? Yeah, you better be scared just like a mouse runnin' from a cat. Heh heh!!

But... about the article -- Well, I do support her since she suffered by her deceased husband's verbal/physical abuses. He shouldn't have played with her mind and emotions to tick her off after all those years. TEN years is pretty LONG enough for her. It has to stop so she did by killin' him. She needs peace and normal life back. If, he gives her peace and normal life back, then she wouldn't have killed him in the first place. He wasn't thinkin' of that. Women are vulnerable. Women are just like vases that could break easy when it comes to abuse.... and what does that man get ? Shot to stop the abuse.
Well, then, I have another idea. Instead of killing him, maybe she should have done a Lorena Bobbit job Criminal Castration and Severed Penis crimes, Bobbitt - The Crime library on her husband instead and cooked her husband's "tool" and then feed it to their dog or the neighbor's dog.
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I think that is suck, she should serve time in prison.
I hope so too.
Yes it is sad.
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Well, then, I have another idea. Instead of killing him, maybe she should have done a Lorena Bobbit job Criminal Castration and Severed Penis crimes, Bobbitt - The Crime library on her husband instead and cooked her husband's "tool" and then feed it to their dog or the neighbor's dog.
I have heard alot about Lorena Bobbit. Lorena planned all that so well. Very well-planned out. But, that woman in that article who was abused by preacher ( her husband ) - she wasn't thinkin' clearly in her head. She used the gun instead of cuttin' off his penis. Shot was the quickest and saved time without makin' plans.
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I have heard alot about Lorena Bobbit. Lorena planned all that so well. Very well-planned out. But, that woman in that article who was abused by preacher ( her husband ) - she wasn't thinkin' clearly in her head. She used the gun instead of cuttin' off his penis. Shot was the quickest and saved time without makin' plans.
I don't think that is funny... Lorena Bobbit was sexual assaulted... she
cut off her husband's penis to punish him.

I think Mary Winkler will remarry and raise her children and all...
just like Amy Fisher moved on with her life with her husband and children.
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Murder does have no exceptions. Murder steals a person 2nd chance or remorse or something. We cant assume what he might do to his wife. Each is different in different circumstances. Whether we believe her or not won't solve anything. That's one problem, what is the point by what other thinks if they end up divorce or saying what 'if' attitude to apply. "Ifs" should not be involve. Whatever happen "other" person did, not mean he probably would do too. Abusive is a horrible thing to do, but killing even worse. I know, what "if" he kills her? There are other side, What "if" he have no thought of killing her? Does he have a another chance? Nope. Why? He's dead. What "if" she learned her mistakes? That won't bring him back. Well, the Higher Judge already determined against him or he probably didn't really act that violent. We don't know, but she has her chance, but her husband doesn't. She cut his life short and no second chance.
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Murder does have no exceptions. Murder steals a person 2nd chance or remorse or something. We cant assume what he might do to his wife. Each is different in different circumstances. Whether we believe her or not won't solve anything. That's one problem, what is the point by what other thinks if they end up divorce or saying what 'if' attitude to apply. "Ifs" should not be involve. Whatever happen "other" person did, not mean he probably would do too. Abusive is a horrible thing to do, but killing even worse. I know, what "if" he kills her? There are other side, What "if" he have no thought of killing her? Does he have a another chance? Nope. Why? He's dead. What "if" she learned her mistakes? That won't bring him back. Well, the Higher Judge already determined against him or he probably didn't really act that violent. We don't know, but she has her chance, but her husband doesn't. She cut his life short and no second chance.

Well that is MEN fault.... yall reap what yall sow...

Nobody did anything to help that poor lady who was burn all over her body...
The JUDGE said NO, she didn't need a protection from her husband.

I'll show you her picture... Yvette Cade.



You men need to tell each other to stop abusing women and
and be a better husband to wives. You men don't have good
reputation. Seem like most men even gay men are women haters.
Even that Scott Peterson killed his wife and unborn baby and
tried to kill his mistress to shut her up.


Then I read about this man threw his sick wife off the balcony cause
he is tired of taking care of her....
Man Allegedly Throws Wife From Balcony - AOL News

I know there are some men or few good men who are wonderful husband...
but those guys need to stand up, let everybody know that.

So maybe Mary was fearful of her life, I don't know.
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I don't think that is funny... Lorena Bobbit was sexual assaulted... she
cut off her husband's penis to punish him.

I think Mary Winkler will remarry and raise her children and all...
just like Amy Fisher moved on with her life with her husband and children.
Well, I don't either... but, it also shows that women give a warnin' to men not to play their games on women. Some women don't give crap... know why ? Because, some men are jerks.
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Well, I don't either... but, it also shows that women give a warnin' to men not to play their games on women. Some women don't give crap... know why ? Because, some men are jerks.
so is it ok for men to do that to women who played the game on them? do you know why? some women are bitches too. remember -- we play the game only because women play the game too. it's only way to win them. don't blame men. blame the game.

to people who made these silly misandrist remarks i.e. blame this problem on men, let me give you an illustration of "if" world. if a wife emotionally, verbally, physically and psychologically abused her husband and cheated on him for some times. would y'all support husband entirely if he stabs or shoots her in the face for abusing him? i'm not hiding the fact that i'm testing y'all to see if there is any hypocrisy in your misandrist remarks. what preacher did is wrong but murder is wrong too. two wrongs do not make a right. divorce him or call cops on him is a smart move to make.
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so is it ok for men to do that to women who played the game on them? do you know why? some women are bitches too. remember -- we play the game only because women play the game too. it's only way to win them. don't blame men. blame the game.

to people who made these silly misandrist remarks i.e. blame this problem on men, let me give you an illustration of "if" world. if a wife emotionally, verbally, physically and psychologically abused her husband and cheated on him for some times. would y'all support husband entirely if he stabs or shoots her in the face for abusing him? i'm not hiding the fact that i'm testing y'all to see if there is any hypocrisy in your misandrist remarks. what preacher did is wrong but murder is wrong too. two wrongs do not make a right. divorce him or call cops on him is a smart move to make.
I didn't say it is okay for men to do that to women who played the game on them. Both of women and men do have the same problem. No difference. It's why I said earlier in another thread about " controllin' " ...verbal/physical abuses are controllin'.

Both men and women have their own problems - and, t