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Old 05-14-2008, 04:44 AM   #271 (permalink)
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In Australia, we don't pay tip to waitress, hairdresser, taxi, hotel porter etc, but my husband sometimes pay the tip to the waitress if she is helpful and friendly, the look of waitress' face was priceless in receiving the money from him.
haha yea. In Europe (I don't remember which country), the bell boy delivered our luggages to our rooms for us and then my dad gave him a nice tip. He was perplexed and awkwardly accepted the tip. My dad was puzzled about his behavior but we learned quickly that it's uncommon to tip.
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Old 05-14-2008, 04:55 AM   #272 (permalink)
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It is not "could be" ..it is well known among the employees in the DC restaurants that Deaf people are notorious for not tipping so we get the bad attitudes. I learned that by going out in DC while I was at Gallaudet...one restaurant refused to serve us cuz of a prior bad experience. Oh well.
I went to the Cafe near my Deaf Club in Clapham, London, I went there to meet a deaf group before the club's opening for the first time, I order my meal, and the waitress asked me to pay first, I was baffled and asked "Why should I pay first even though I haven't see my meal yet?"

A group of deaf people came to me and tell me to pay first because of the past bad experience they had with deaf people order their meals, and walked off without paying for their meals!! I was shocked and could not believe it was real!!
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Old 05-14-2008, 04:56 AM   #273 (permalink)
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I've seen few restaurants here have two different pricing for foods. Russian prices are little higher because they know Russians don't tip but many foreigners do tip especially Americans.
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Old 05-14-2008, 07:38 AM   #275 (permalink)
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I think it´s parent´s responsible to educate their children how to aware about tip system.
They're not children, they're students, they should do their own homework. It's common sense, when you are being served, and if you see them working hard for you, you should tip them.

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There are two ways, leaving a buck or two, or leaving a percentage of the bill.
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... Donīt blame them if they donīt know how to count how many % they should tip to....
If they are college students they should be able to figure percentages.
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Old 05-14-2008, 09:42 AM   #277 (permalink)
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So that means, do they have a memory of an elephant, no?
Probably. Remember that us deaf people do stand out in a crowd.
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Old 05-15-2008, 03:43 AM   #278 (permalink)
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If they are college students they should be able to figure percentages.
or maybe they just didn't know better
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Old 05-15-2008, 07:53 AM   #279 (permalink)
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If they are college students they should be able to figure percentages.
No matter either they are college students or not. I was student at college but I am not there to study math.

Anyway, some of people do have the problem with math., no matter either they were or are students.
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Old 05-15-2008, 08:03 AM   #280 (permalink)
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They're not children, they're students, they should do their own homework. It's common sense, when you are being served, and if you see them working hard for you, you should tip them.


There are two ways, leaving a buck or two, or leaving a percentage of the bill.
Do you really think all people can learn math. well? Some people have the problem with math... Did you know what illiteracy is?
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Do you really think all people can learn math. well? Some people have the problem with math... Did you know what illiteracy is?
I know that Liebling, that people have some difficulties, but it's common sense wisdom to tip when someone is serving you and you're getting everything you can ask for, a thank you should be given, a tip.

Do you tip your hairdresser for cutting, perming or highlighting your hair?
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Old 05-15-2008, 08:23 AM   #282 (permalink)
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No matter either they are college students or not. I was student at college but I am not there to study math.

Anyway, some of people do have the problem with math., no matter either they were or are students.
Figuring a tip isn't upper level calculus. It's elementary school math.

You went to college and didn't study any math? What kind of college was that?

Almost everyone has a cell phone, and those have calculators built in.

There are no excuses.
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Old 05-15-2008, 08:40 AM   #283 (permalink)
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Figuring a tip isn't upper level calculus. It's elementary school math.

You went to college and didn't study any math? What kind of college was that?

Almost everyone has a cell phone, and those have calculators built in.

There are no excuses.
Yes I just used my cell phone last night at restaurant to figure out the tip but there is another way to do it easy by look at the sales tax here in my county. For instance if it says $3.50 then I would tip about $5.25. I have taught other deafies how to do this because they were cheapstake tippers.
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Old 05-15-2008, 09:14 AM   #284 (permalink)
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If one has a hard time figuring out their tip on their restaurant bill, I suggest buying a little wallet size card that says, "Tip Computer".

It breaks everything down on how much one should tip.
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Old 05-15-2008, 09:19 AM   #285 (permalink)
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If one has a hard time figuring out their tip on their restaurant bill, I suggest buying a little wallet size card that says, "Tip Computer".

It breaks everything down on how much one should tip.
or download and print this out for free...

http://blogs.payscale.com/site_files/pdfs/tipchart.pdf
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Do you really think all people can learn math. well? Some people have the problem with math... Did you know what illiteracy is?
Russians are good at math and they don't need calculators to figure the exact changes. I go to many little shops and they don't have cash registers. They know how to figure the exact changes when I give them money to buy things. It's not rocket science but people are being lazy not wanting to figure out something. That's why we have brains and those who don't use their brains are utterly stupid.
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I know that Liebling, that people have some difficulties, but it's common sense wisdom to tip when someone is serving you and you're getting everything you can ask for, a thank you should be given, a tip.
Count up % of tip is uncommon in Europe countries.

They are happy if I "tip" between €0.50 cent & €1.00 (I alway tell them to keep the change after pay the bill.) US Waitress would feel being insult if I did the same thing because they expect % of tipping system.



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Do you tip your hairdresser for cutting, perming or highlighting your hair?
For your information, I go hairdress for just wash and cut my hair. No, they do not expect % of tip from me like what US expect from their customers. Every hairdresser do have their own piggy bank with each name & photo on it... I put € in one of piggy banks who done my hair.

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How could some people count up % of tip when they thought $5.00 is good enough? In Europe countries doesnīt. They are happy if the customers tip €0.50 or €1.00... Itīs not really obligation... but nice. They donīt have to count up how many % they have to tip waitress...
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Figuring a tip isn't upper level calculus. It's elementary school math.

You went to college and didn't study any math? What kind of college was that?

Almost everyone has a cell phone, and those have calculators built in.

There are no excuses.
I learn math. at school, not college.

Donīt you know what illiteracy is?
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for link... I was like speechless over waiter/waitressīs wage. It makes resturant owner richer.... I would become millionaire if I own resturant and hire waiter/waitress cheaply and let them work hard to have tip from customers. I feel bad for waiter/waitress... I understand why they are not happy over poor tips.
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Russians are good at math and they don't need calculators to figure the exact changes. I go to many little shops and they don't have cash registers. They know how to figure the exact changes when I give them money to buy things. It's not rocket science but people are being lazy not wanting to figure out something. That's why we have brains and those who don't use their brains are utterly stupid.
Do you mean ALL russians? Sure, I have no problem with math. because I work under utilities division but itīs people, I am referring to who have trouble to understand the math.

Many people in the world have illiteracy (unable to read and write... )
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Old 05-16-2008, 08:38 AM   #292 (permalink)
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Do you mean ALL russians? Sure, I have no problem with math. because I work under utilities division but itīs people, I am referring to who have trouble to understand the math.

Many people in the world have illiteracy (unable to read and write... )
I think math and read/write are two different thing. I learned how to play cards at age 3 and I was very good at it. I did not get to read or write till I learned sign language which years later. Anyone can do math if they use money to pay foods and other stuffs.
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Old 05-16-2008, 08:59 AM   #293 (permalink)
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An interesting story about tipping was on the TV news this morning.

Stuart Varney, a financial reporter, was born and grew up in England. He's been an American for many years but he still has a strong British accent.

Recently, he went to a fancy NYC restaurant. He said that as soon as the maitre d' heard his accent, his attitude became cool to him. Why? Because the maitre d' knew that British tourists usually tip 10 percent or less. Varney just laughed because he's not a tourist, and he does things the American way.

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Old 05-16-2008, 10:21 AM   #294 (permalink)
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A group of friends and I went out to a nice restaurant in Seattle. The waitress knew ASL and was really outgoing and attuned to our needs and wants.

When our separate bill came, I gave her more than 20% whereas two of my deaf friends gave less than 5%.

We argued about it afterwards.

The next time I went back to that restaurant by myself, the waitress remembered who I was and again, I got exceptional service.

My friends went back and didn't get that great of a service from her.

Moral of the story: if you want good service, tip good. If you want shi**y service, tip lousy.

Waiters and waitresses remembers who tips good and who doesn't. And they share that information with one another.
Well said!

I'm shocked at the number of cheapskates out there. It's so wrong. The sales min. wage is low but if the server is good at the job, the tips will make up for it! We always try to leave GOOD tips because we know what it's like to work in a restaurant. Yes, the servers do remember the good tippers!
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If they are college students they should be able to figure percentages.
And if they can't do that, then maybe they will be able to at least double what the sales tax on the tab is.
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