Why Men-bashing? Women are just as bad!

lanapoo said:
I do understand where you are coming from. Yes, there are some women just equally as bad as men. You have to understand one thing that I noticed about why women cheat.

Women cheat because they're unhappy in their current relationship, it could be abusive, or love is not there anymore. So women look else where for emotional support or any kind of love they can find. It just happens, usually not on purpose.

Men usually cheat to satisfy their sexual drive. Men are out to look for younger women, tighter pussy, someone they don't have to be attached to.
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Or looking for trophy wives!
 
Steinhauer said:
No, I am saying it is lecherous.
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Sigh.

Are you conservative or what? Don't tell me you've never watched porn with 18 year old girls in it.

At least they're of legal age and they're free to do what they want.

Marriage is another question. I have a friend who is 24 year old who just married a 37 year old. Yes, it's a bit weird, but whatever rocks their boat. The bigger the age difference is, the more obvious it is that the woman is just into him for money. :giggle:
 
lanapoo said:
I do understand where you are coming from. Yes, there are some women just equally as bad as men. You have to understand one thing that I noticed about why women cheat.

Women cheat because they're unhappy in their current relationship, it could be abusive, or love is not there anymore. So women look else where for emotional support or any kind of love they can find. It just happens, usually not on purpose.

Men usually cheat to satisfy their sexual drive. Men are out to look for younger women, tighter pussy, someone they don't have to be attached to.
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That is the general rule. People change, and their interests change too. However, I think I can see why so much anger is directed at men - from women. In serious relationships, when a partner has cheated, there is often times no coming back and there will never be the state of love and trust as there was before. Another general rule is that men crave respect and women crave security. If that is the case, and a woman is felt that there is no security left .... well ...

Just don't forget that there have been loyal and faithful men that have gotten just as burned.
 
lanapoo said:
Sigh.

Are you conservative or what? Don't tell me you've never watched porn with 18 year old girls in it.

At least they're of legal age and they're free to do what they want.

Marriage is another question. I have a friend who is 24 year old who just married a 37 year old. Yes, it's a bit weird, but whatever rocks their boat. The bigger the age difference is, the more obvious it is that the woman is just into him for money. :giggle:
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FLOATS their boat.

rock their boat = bad
float their boat = good
 
Steinhauer said:
yours too. And NY too - actually, more common in NY than my state.
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You're derailing the thread.

Are you bitter? Have a bad experience? Why are you even concerned with this matter when it's their own lifestyle and it shouldn't bother you?
 
lanapoo said:
Sigh.

Are you conservative or what? Don't tell me you've never watched porn with 18 year old girls in it.

At least they're of legal age and they're free to do what they want.

Marriage is another question. I have a friend who is 24 year old who just married a 37 year old. Yes, it's a bit weird, but whatever rocks their boat. The bigger the age difference is, the more obvious it is that the woman is just into him for money. :giggle:
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Or the security. Security could mean financial stability to some women. How many women like having to shell out cash for their BF/Husband? I am sure that is loads of fun .... not.

There is a huge difference between watching a porn and engaging in an extramarital affair. Some women don't seem to think so.

There is also porn for women in the form of romance novels, soap operas etc. etc. How many men do you know have to keep up with soap operas?
 
lanapoo said:
You're derailing the thread.

Are you bitter? Have a bad experience? Why are you even concerned with this matter when it's their own lifestyle and it shouldn't bother you?
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No, I was answering a question. Not derailing the thread, just derailing a myth.
 
Steinhauer said:
Or the security. Security could mean financial stability to some women. How many women like having to shell out cash for their BF/Husband? I am sure that is loads of fun .... not.

There is a huge difference between watching a porn and engaging in an extramarital affair. Some women don't seem to think so.

There is also porn for women in the form of romance novels, soap operas etc. etc. How many men do you know have to keep up with soap operas?
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Security=money
Money=security

Same thing.

Have you ever read a romance novel? It's all about love, not cheating.

And soap operas? I really don't know ANYONE who watches soap operas besides my mother, but she only watches while doing laundry. Not a fanatic. Honestly, what does soap operas have to do with cheating women?

And women do watch porn, too. Surprise, surprise.
 
lanapoo said:
Security=money
Money=security

Same thing.

Have you ever read a romance novel? It's all about love, not cheating.

And soap operas? I really don't know ANYONE who watches soap operas besides my mother, but she only watches while doing laundry. Not a fanatic. Honestly, what does soap operas have to do with cheating women?

And women do watch porn, too. Surprise, surprise.
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Nothing surprises me anymore. You are the one that brought up porn and now asking me why I was discussing it ... hmmm.
 
Steinhauer said:
Or the security. Security could mean financial stability to some women. How many women like having to shell out cash for their BF/Husband? I am sure that is loads of fun .... not.

There is a huge difference between watching a porn and engaging in an extramarital affair. Some women don't seem to think so.

There is also porn for women in the form of romance novels, soap operas etc. etc. How many men do you know have to keep up with soap operas?
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Ummm...some women do watch straight out porn.
 
Steinhauer said:
Nothing surprises me anymore. You are the one that brought up porn and now asking me why I was discussing it ... hmmm.
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Because you are the one who brought up having sex with younger people even if they're of legal age and I was using porn as an example because a lot of them have younger people in them and old people like to watch them.

So. :hmm: Is that lecherous to you as well?

And having sex with younger people has absolutely nothing to do with the point of this thread, just for your information.
 
DeafTim said:
What is wrong with you ladies? It wasnt really a relationship. I never took her to movies,never went out to eat. She liked me,she wanted me. We werent in love. I was young and having fun. We didnt go to same high-school. We didnt go to prom or dancing. I didnt even get upset after she bitch-slapped me. I actually liked it.:cool2: She apologized to me afterwards. So there!
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Sounds like you way over estimate your value to the female race. I predict a life time of relationship problems for you.
 
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