I'm sorry about your cat.I'm thinking about my sister - she will going to Air Force BMT (bootcamp) in Texas on May 15 and we will traveling to Texas to watch her graduation in July, so I hopefully she goes well with training and I know that she is brave woman.
I'm thinking about cat - my family have to put 12 years old cat down today after abscess went burst and she was in severe pain, also vet said that she has diabetes, kidney disease and mostly blind. I reminded my family that cat didn't feel well since before Halloween last year, but progressed worsen. I can't believe that two of our cats shunned her.
The older we get, the more "patching up" we need. Hang in there.Left Ear....been aching for a week now...same ear with so many prior surgeries. See my ENT Monday....had my left eye Implant 2 weeks ago. (right eye was done last year)...vision is much better, but still will have to get glasses...