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Hi all,
I'm not sure if this is the right place to have this thread, but moderators, if this is in the inappropriate place, please feel free to move it.
I have a friend whom I have known for nearly 6 years. Let's call her Sally.
Lately she has been sticking her nose into other people's private lives and relationships.
A good male friend of mine (let's call him Tommy) recently started a serious relationship with a girl he really liked.
Sally and Tommy are best friends and they have known each other since they were pre-schoolers.
Since Tommy got his first serious girlfriend, Sally has been sticking her nose into their relationship from the beginning and hasn't stopped ever since. Tommy is really fed up and frustated with her, and he wants to tell her to stop sticking her nose in the nicest way possible without hurting her feelings.
I was expressing my feelings to another friend of mine (again, lets call her Amy) about engagement, and how I was waiting for Andrew to pop the question and also how I'm happy to wait. I also told Amy I wasn't in any hurry, but that I was ready for the next level.
Amy told her fiance, who then went and told Sally today - apparently he told her that I was complaining to Andrew about how we weren't engaged yet.
I was appalled and upset. That was not true at all. I hadn't pushed Andrew yet and I dont intend to. I was also hurt that Sally was asking me thousands of questions about this, and she wanted me to admit it. She was complaining about how I didnt tell her this and that. I was so pissed off at the fact that she wants to know everything about everyone.
I have been wanting to tell her to quit sticking her big fat nose into other people's business, but I have no idea how. I don't want to hurt her feelings nor have the friendship ruined. Tommy feels the same - he's really sick of her.
I'm not sure if this is the right place to have this thread, but moderators, if this is in the inappropriate place, please feel free to move it.
I have a friend whom I have known for nearly 6 years. Let's call her Sally.
Lately she has been sticking her nose into other people's private lives and relationships.
A good male friend of mine (let's call him Tommy) recently started a serious relationship with a girl he really liked.
Sally and Tommy are best friends and they have known each other since they were pre-schoolers.
Since Tommy got his first serious girlfriend, Sally has been sticking her nose into their relationship from the beginning and hasn't stopped ever since. Tommy is really fed up and frustated with her, and he wants to tell her to stop sticking her nose in the nicest way possible without hurting her feelings.
I was expressing my feelings to another friend of mine (again, lets call her Amy) about engagement, and how I was waiting for Andrew to pop the question and also how I'm happy to wait. I also told Amy I wasn't in any hurry, but that I was ready for the next level.
Amy told her fiance, who then went and told Sally today - apparently he told her that I was complaining to Andrew about how we weren't engaged yet.
I was appalled and upset. That was not true at all. I hadn't pushed Andrew yet and I dont intend to. I was also hurt that Sally was asking me thousands of questions about this, and she wanted me to admit it. She was complaining about how I didnt tell her this and that. I was so pissed off at the fact that she wants to know everything about everyone.
I have been wanting to tell her to quit sticking her big fat nose into other people's business, but I have no idea how. I don't want to hurt her feelings nor have the friendship ruined. Tommy feels the same - he's really sick of her.