Is Talking On The Phone With Another Girl Cheating?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by DEAFNIGGAfasho, May 26, 2004.

  1. I dont understand it, my girlfriend keeps YELLING at me....and screaming, and i scream back you bitch! is it cheating or not?
     
  2. Mistyrose

    Mistyrose Guest

    well you didnt give us more details than the screaming part...sounds more like you both are fighting...reckon?
    dont think it is cheating unless you know that she is seeing another guy.
     
  3. Frisky Feline

    Frisky Feline Well-Known Member

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    Since this is a debate forum. Can you give us more details to help us to give you more opinions.

    From what I read yours, i assume that you guys are having problem over on the phone chatting with other women??

    Please explains so we will reply back..
     
  4. TweetyBird

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    are u date 2 girlfriends?? or what??? do u like this girl on the phone that u spoke to??? huh???
     
  5. Angel

    Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Premium Member

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    Well, I'll be honest here... :D

    I don't see a problem with talking to girls on phone or on-line as long it is ' friendship ' then I don't see a problem with why you couldn't or allow to....My boyfriend, Roadrunner do talk to girls on line and it's doesn't bother me at all, because I do trust him, if your girlfriend doesn't trust you than there is no relationship..' Trust ' is the important part in a relationship.. IMO!
     
  6. Gemtun

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    Right on, Angel.

    But what disturbs me the most about that posting is that he called her a bitch. How can a good decent loving man call his girlfriend a bitch? It shows lack of disrespect there

    I would freak out too if my b/f called me that degrading name - it will just esaclate into ugly fights, whether it is about him cheating with a girl on the phone or not.
     
  7. Cheri

    Cheri Prayers for my dad. Premium Member

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    Could u Explain more Deeply the reason why she Yelled at u and How this whole thing Started Maybe We could Understand More...;) :D

    If she yelled at u because u simple talking to a female on the phone as long it is Friendship then she has no reason to be Jealous. I agree with ^Angel^ On her Post, I feel the same way She feels.


    I think it would be better if u hang up with that Female and Deal with ur Girlfriend in Private away from the Phone because, This Girl is maybe Hearing you yelling at ur girlfriend it isn't Good to Embarrassed her like that... :D
     
  8. Angel

    Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Premium Member

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    Yeah, I notice that, I was a bit scare to say something about that because , I didn't want to get jumped on! I agree Meg, no boyfriend should call his girlfriend that word or any cruel words if you happen to love someone! I don't know about some people but for myself here, I wouldn't want to be called that! :|
     
  9. Gemtun

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    Let them jump on me..I ll do that for both of us LOL but yes its scary to speak up but I want to stop seeing men calling women nasty names while in relationships/marriages. Enough of verbal abuse. :smash:
     
  10. Fly Free

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    if shes just a friend and a platonic one at that then ur gf shouldnt be going on a temper tantrum unless u are yakking on the fone for hours and hours with this same girl and u call that girl a "friend" and the gf might think otherwise from the way u sit around yakking on the fone for longer than a reasonable time period -- just my thoughts :dunno: what really is going on tho
     
  11. Mistyrose

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    Looks to me that because they were fighting, he just blew up and called her the name out of anger, probably didnt really mean it..
    He needs to come in and clarify this to us so we will understand better.
     
  12. Angel

    Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Premium Member

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    Still no excuess what he did , or how it may have happened, when someone have an agruement with their spouse or partner, walk away and cool down before you react that may end up hurting the relationship with your spouse or partner! There just no excuses to use any kind of verbal abuses toward the person you love!...IMO There's no justification for that kind of behaviour, it's so much better to walk away and simmer down (cool down) before such words are lashed out that could make matters more difficult and harder to resolve...True love CAN lead the way and help each one of us to deal with certain problems much better without blurting out hurtful and spiteful name-calling.... :smash:
     
  13. GalaxyAngel

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    *simlair alike Al Bundy*
    Who loves watch t.v. porno and felt turn on quicker and run after his wife *mak'n love*
    :laugh2: Is that affair? (hmmmm)
     
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    DeafNeggafasho, can you tell us exactly what happened? What did your girlfriend get upset about when you were talking to a girl on the phone? Like other Aders here, calling your girlfriend a b*tch is not nice and will not help solve problem. Most ladies will not stay with men for long who calls them nasty names because it shows no respect. My husband has lady friends and I do not get upset about it when he talks to them, because I know that his heart is for me only. I also talk with men friends and he does not have problem with it either. We do not flirt in person or online either with other people and we know it. My husband knows that I truly love and cherish him forever. Like Angel said, trust is the most important in relationship...when there is no trust, it is very hard to keep relationship going....I totally agree with her. Can not really forcefully HOLD on to this person you love...u gotta trust and let her go do what she wants...if the relationship is meant to be, she will be there for you. Trusting sometimes is hard at first, but if you show that you trust her, she will feel that she can trust you too and the relationship WILL grow.
     
  15. VamPyroX

    VamPyroX bloody phreak from hell

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    I don't consider it cheating... unless you're doing something naughty on the phone. I see nothing wrong with having a decent converstation with another gal on the phone. Women and girls are still people... there's nothing wrong with talking to them, regardless of who they are.

    However, if it's phone-sex... that's a different story! :nono:
     
  16. Sweet_KJ

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    Well it depends on how the phone conversation was made....

    If the boyfriend trys to make it secretive, etc... and gets tons of phone calls with that girl... then I would consider it cheating.

    The reason I believe that is because my Ex did the exact same thing to me. Because I am Deaf I have no idea who he's on the phone with. And a few times he actually covers his mouth so I can't read his lips, and he would spend hours on the phone whilst he and I aren't really talking that much, I really felt hurt -- one night I finally asked him who was on the phone, he yelled at me and snapped "None of your business!!" Wow.

    It may not be physical cheating, but it is emotionally cheating, because you are confiding in this girl you're talking with over the phone.

    For that reason, I sometimes get scared dating a Hearing guy again... I might consider it if I can trust that guy, and if he didn't have the habit of taking phone calls while at dinner table, or whatever (ugh pet peeve!)
     
  17. Tousi

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    People with a "lack of disrespect" are fine, unstanding people! :mrgreen: I know Meg meant "lack of respect". :mrgreen: And I agree with many of the responses here....
     
  18. icecl_out1

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    depends

    it depends on if you are talking to this other girl and trying to get with her or just talking with this girl as in friendship talking. I talk to girls other than my girlfriend on the phone and its fine. She knows I would never cheat on her so she trusts me . It justs seems like your girl may be too jealous or something.
     
  19. Are You Fucking Deaf Or What? You Cant Talk On The Phone You Fuckers Are Deaf God Damnit
     
  20. Frisky Feline

    Frisky Feline Well-Known Member

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    Whoa!! why did you post it in here asking for our opinions in the first place.

    We are kindly giving out our opinions here and you screw up with us. Do you think it is funny. I do not think so. I do encourage you to change your attitude for this or else.
     

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