How to spot a bum

Discussion in 'Marriage, Dating & Single Life' started by Deafilmedia, Nov 21, 2007.

  1. Deafilmedia

    Deafilmedia New Member

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    1. Someone who give excuse to not to work
    2. Someone who keep asking you for money and won't pay back.
    3. Someone who will use you and abuse your credit card.
    4. Bums are the laziest people on earth.
    5. They will try to control your money. Should not pay on bills but on them.
    6. Will take your car anywhere and won't fill up the gas tank.
    7. They buy gifts for you by using your money.
    8. Want you to pay their bills.
    9. They are very good in bed, but you have to pay them.
    10. They won't pay child supports.

    So if your loving partner is a bum.... what would you do?

    Do you love him or her so much to let him or her go?

    Is it okay for female to be a bum, since men suppose to be providers anyway?

    Men who are bum, they ought to be ashame of themselves?
     
  2. drphil

    drphil Active Member

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    Secret information: how to spot a bum!
    Is this another buried treasure?
     
  3. Anij

    Anij Well-Known Member

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    No, it's another stupid post from 2007 you dragged up for no reason.
     
  4. rockin'robin

    rockin'robin Well-Known Member

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    If my hubby or b/f was a Bum....then I would USE him to clean the house, take care of the kids, cook dinner, etc., while I worked. If he would not agree to do that, then of course I would kick him out. Simply because I will not be used by a bum....

    Love doesn't pay the Rent!....If a man loves a Lady, he will do everything in his power to support her. If he can't find a job, then he can take care of the house and kids while the female works to support the family.
     
  5. drphil

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    Was the listing inaccurate re males? Does it apply to females?
    Seems the O P hasn't posted since the end of 2007-temporary hiatus?
     
  6. TXgolfer

    TXgolfer Dream Weaver Premium Member

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    I think he started his own site
     
  7. Tousi

    Tousi Well-Known Member

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    I remember Deafilmedia. This person's a she.....
     
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    TXgolfer Dream Weaver Premium Member

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    :Oops: sorry
     
  9. Steinhauer

    Steinhauer Well-Known Member

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    I spotted a lot of them standing in line to vote at the last presidential election.

    Coincidence?
     
  10. cmdrwhitewolf

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    You know, Steiny that's not a very nice thing to say...
     
  11. drphil

    drphil Active Member

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    Oh well the cure from being a "bum" have a job and pay your own bills!
    That has been around your centuries.
     
  12. dereksbicycles

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    Not worried about who is a bum or not. Just let them flourish or fail with their relationship.
     
  13. SpaCityMedic

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    Wait wait wait!!!! Men are supposed to be providers?? Whatevs.
     
  14. drphil

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    Hard to believe a "bum" can be "living high off the hog" with not much funds? Except -of course winning the lottery!
    If that eventuality occurs-seems a new host of "friends arrive on the scene"!
     

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