Adam86
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My lady during the course of our relationship has been diagnosed with meniere's in both ears. I'm taking ASL courses at my college. I chose to do this, without a request from her, because I'm crazy in love. We've been together for almost 2 years, and live together.
There's no problems with our communication; we're both practicing ASL as much as we can before she has surgery on one of her ears that'll make her 100% deaf in one ear.
I should be in 200 level ASL classes, but because I'm learning this for my lady before any other reason to keep learning it (like not needing to filter myself, appreciation for what I understand about Deaf culture), I feel like I need to be a master of all material covered in classes...
Brief explanation: we practice signing while doing water aerobics at the gym. Recently a nice deaf lady approached us signing after noticing that we were signing. The lady told us about her ex husband that didn't learn any sign language when she was losing her hearing. I understood all this, but I froze and signed 'anxiety' to her when she was trying to talk to me (my lady had no problem).
I'm a (sometimes) excessively confident person who is definitely an extrovert. I guess I feel anxiety about communicating with Deaf people because I'm not educated enough about ASL, to sign how I write, or speak.
I'd like some Deaf friends, and so would my lady, I just feel weird about signing up a Deaf person to be a teacher, instead of being themselves.
Advice, recommendations?
There's no problems with our communication; we're both practicing ASL as much as we can before she has surgery on one of her ears that'll make her 100% deaf in one ear.
I should be in 200 level ASL classes, but because I'm learning this for my lady before any other reason to keep learning it (like not needing to filter myself, appreciation for what I understand about Deaf culture), I feel like I need to be a master of all material covered in classes...
Brief explanation: we practice signing while doing water aerobics at the gym. Recently a nice deaf lady approached us signing after noticing that we were signing. The lady told us about her ex husband that didn't learn any sign language when she was losing her hearing. I understood all this, but I froze and signed 'anxiety' to her when she was trying to talk to me (my lady had no problem).
I'm a (sometimes) excessively confident person who is definitely an extrovert. I guess I feel anxiety about communicating with Deaf people because I'm not educated enough about ASL, to sign how I write, or speak.
I'd like some Deaf friends, and so would my lady, I just feel weird about signing up a Deaf person to be a teacher, instead of being themselves.
Advice, recommendations?