Hearing deaf Relationship help

Hi, ok so i have been in a relationship with my deaf boyfriend for a year and a half we now have a beautiful daughter Together. We have struggled in our relationship with communication obviously. Recently it seams like all we do is text. I have been learning and studying deaf culture and trying understand him better but he continually shuts me down stops explaining things, we focus alot on our daughter but when i try to get him to try focus a little on or relationship he just says not to worry about us and to focus on our daughter. Im worried because i still love him and want to be with him but it is so stressful and complicated with him. Is there any hearing partners on her that can give me advice???