Sorry but it's easy to do that because it looks like you have. Did you take it up with the waiter? By not saying anything and not going to the restaurant anymore it looks like you gave up that fight pretty easily. You can't blame the hearing/ late deafened for having slightly ignorant opinions because there aren't exactly an abundance of deaf and blind people in the world. We're not exposed enough to this type of thing and as a result don't know what will offend you.Sunshine is correct it's because I am blind. But you right now are doing something that happens a lot.
You are dismissing my perceptions and saying I jumped to conclusions.
If I go to a restaurant with family members who can obviously tell the difference and my order is correct, but two times I go alone and get a cheap substitution for what I ordered, that is pretty definitive.
People tend to think I am snappish with hearing and late deafened people, but they are the people who would say I jumped to a conclusion after I tried to tell them something they wanted to know.