Unbelivable article! jeez..

Freaky Cat · 09-21-2007, 11:41 PM

Ananova - Couple divorce after online 'affair'

Ananova:

Couple divorce after online 'affair'

A Bosnian couple are getting divorced after finding out they had been secretly chatting each other up online under fake names.

Sana Klaric, 27, and husband Adnan, 32, from Zenica, poured out their hearts to each other over their marriage troubles, and both felt they had found their real soul mate.

The couple met on an online chat forum while he was at work and she in an internet cafe, and started chatting under the names Sweetie and Prince of Joy.

They eventually decided to meet up - but there was no happy ending when they realised what had happened.

Now they are both filing for divorce - with each accusing the other of being unfaithful.

Sana said: "I thought I had found the love of my life. The way this Prince of Joy spoke to me, the things he wrote, the tenderness in every expression was something I had never had in my marriage.

"It was amazing, we seemed to be stuck in the same kind of miserable marriages - and how right that turned out to be.

"We arranged to meet outside a shop and both of us would be carrying a single rose so we would know the other.

"When I saw my husband there with the rose and it dawned on me what had happened I was shattered. I felt so betrayed. I was so angry."

Adnan said: "I was so happy to have found a woman who finally understood me. Then it turned out that I hadn't found anyone new at all.

"To be honest I still find it hard to believe that the person, Sweetie, who wrote such wonderful things to me on the internet, is actually the same woman I married and who has not said a nice word to me for years."

can u believe this?? dang...

sequoias · 09-22-2007, 12:42 AM

interesting, but weird....

Freaky Cat · 09-22-2007, 09:42 AM

yeppie.. would u do that knowing u are married and look for someone else? not me! jeez..

highlands · 09-22-2007, 10:05 AM

I think it is due to kind of communication problem in person ..

shel90 · 09-22-2007, 10:10 AM

Ohhh that has to SUCK!!! Hahahaha! Talk about getting busted by each other. LOL!

ASLGAL · 09-22-2007, 10:20 AM

Funny and Sad

They should be really happy to know that they are each others true soulmates apparently.
They will not have to divorce or remarry or anything.

I guess the saying is true

"The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence"

apparently just the same grass.

moonflower · 09-22-2007, 10:26 AM

OMG weird *shudders*

Freaky Cat · 09-22-2007, 10:45 AM

yeah i think its fate that both of them are soulmates.. why else they click together ?? just that they need to work on communication problems??? that is so sad.. and i agree both got busted by each other! LOL ..

Maria · 09-22-2007, 11:21 AM

Soulmates, eh ? I don't believe in soulmates at all ! It's full of crap. Pssh ....

Tousi · 09-22-2007, 01:17 PM

This also indicates to me that, while they were unknowingly online with each other, they were not being their true selves.

jillio · 09-22-2007, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Tousi

This also indicates to me that, while they were unknowingly online with each other, they were not being their true selves.

Excellent point. This happens in real life relationships as well. As the old saying goes, "You never really know a person until you live with them!"

Nesmuth · 09-22-2007, 02:37 PM

Sounds like something I saw on The Jeffersons.

Richard

RedheadGrrl · 09-22-2007, 04:17 PM

weird but sad!!!

Lil_country_gal · 09-22-2007, 04:27 PM

Wow that's just wow that makes me think they should have tried to work things out knowing they could act better but it's not me so

Tousi · 09-22-2007, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by jillio

Excellent point. This happens in real life relationships as well. As the old saying goes, "You never really know a person until you live with them!"

Yeah, and unbeknownst to this couple, they actually solved their issues online and then when the realization dawned upon them what had transpired, why didn't/can't they make use of that and carry on with their life together? Or is it that each was faking who they were online?

jillio · 09-22-2007, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Tousi

Yeah, and unbeknownst to this couple, they actually solved their issues online and then when the realization dawned upon them what had transpired, why didn't/can't they make use of that and carry on with their life together? Or is it that each was faking who they were online?

I think the perception of who the person really was underneath what was posted probably interferred with their ability to recognize that, in effect, they had rectified their problems. A situation of looking at the meesenger instead of the message.

Tousi · 09-22-2007, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by jillio

I think the perception of who the person really was underneath what was posted probably interferred with their ability to recognize that, in effect, they had rectified their problems. A situation of looking at the meesenger instead of the message.

Dang, and here I was gonna say, for myself at least, that the message and da messenger are one and da same!

jillio · 09-22-2007, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Tousi

Dang, and here I was gonna say, for myself at least, that the message and da messenger are one and da same!

Ahh...but you're a rare bird, Tousi. Most people are not that genuine!

shel90 · 09-22-2007, 05:24 PM

What if the couple, under their false names, said bad things about each other especially when it comes to sex? That would have stung big time! I cant get over how funny this is cuz if u are gonna cheat on your spouse, there will be a heavy price but this price is orginal!

jillio · 09-22-2007, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

What if the couple, under their false names, said bad things about each other especially when it comes to sex? That would have stung big time! I cant get over how funny this is cuz if u are gonna cheat on your spouse, there will be a heavy price but this price is orginal!

I found the whole situation pretty funny, as well, shel. First time I've heard of this one!

Wokamuka · 09-22-2007, 07:49 PM

Sounds like that WTC-related divorce. The worried wife called her husband, who was in a hotel room (guess why), who - not knowing what was going on - insisted that he was in his WTC office.

shel90 · 09-22-2007, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jillio

I found the whole situation pretty funny, as well, shel. First time I've heard of this one!

Right...I dont feel sorry for them cuz both did wrong. Yes, it is sad when marriages ends but I feel that if u are gonna seek out companionship from other people other than your spouse, get help or end the marriage. If u dont and the shit hits the fan, I am gonna laugh. I have issues with cheating cuz my ex hubby did that to me and it just really hurts like nothing else knowing that your spouse lied and was with someone else. It would have hurted less if he had been honest with me and ended our marriage instead of lying to both of us and making a fool out of me.

jillio · 09-22-2007, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Right...I dont feel sorry for them cuz both did wrong. Yes, it is sad when marriages ends but I feel that if u are gonna seek out companionship from other people other than your spouse, get help or end the marriage. If u dont and the shit hits the fan, I am gonna laugh. I have issues with cheating cuz my ex hubby did that to me and it just really hurts like nothing else knowing that your spouse lied and was with someone else. It would have hurted less if he had been honest with me and ended our marriage instead of lying to both of us and making a fool out of me.

Have to say I agree with you.

Dixie · 09-23-2007, 08:53 AM

This would make for a good hollywood movie if they turned out to stay together having re-discovered each other again.

I'll be in my dark corner working on a script to send to Paramount Studios......

~*Kaelei*~ · 12-29-2007, 10:25 PM

This is Priceless! Man, that gotta suck big time! Sounds like they have commucation problem and they should work it out instead of getting divorced!

deafskeptic · 12-31-2007, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Ohhh that has to SUCK!!! Hahahaha! Talk about getting busted by each other. LOL!

Ha ha, QFT!

Secretblend · 12-31-2007, 04:04 PM

I have to wonder if that is even a true story. It's so stupid it has to be made up.

09-21-2007, 11:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
Freaky Cat Space - it's like heaven! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,020	Unbelivable article! jeez.. Ananova - Couple divorce after online 'affair' Ananova: Couple divorce after online 'affair' A Bosnian couple are getting divorced after finding out they had been secretly chatting each other up online under fake names. Sana Klaric, 27, and husband Adnan, 32, from Zenica, poured out their hearts to each other over their marriage troubles, and both felt they had found their real soul mate. The couple met on an online chat forum while he was at work and she in an internet cafe, and started chatting under the names Sweetie and Prince of Joy. They eventually decided to meet up - but there was no happy ending when they realised what had happened. Now they are both filing for divorce - with each accusing the other of being unfaithful. Sana said: "I thought I had found the love of my life. The way this Prince of Joy spoke to me, the things he wrote, the tenderness in every expression was something I had never had in my marriage. "It was amazing, we seemed to be stuck in the same kind of miserable marriages - and how right that turned out to be. "We arranged to meet outside a shop and both of us would be carrying a single rose so we would know the other. "When I saw my husband there with the rose and it dawned on me what had happened I was shattered. I felt so betrayed. I was so angry." Adnan said: "I was so happy to have found a woman who finally understood me. Then it turned out that I hadn't found anyone new at all. "To be honest I still find it hard to believe that the person, Sweetie, who wrote such wonderful things to me on the internet, is actually the same woman I married and who has not said a nice word to me for years." can u believe this?? dang... __________________ "SpongeBob, that's my Krabby Patty! Give it back, you porous freak! I command you! My patty! Nooo! I'll settle for some fries." - Plankton. Freaky Cat's Blog

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sequoias Swifty the Rat Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 10,844	interesting, but weird.... __________________ created by seq

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Freaky Cat Space - it's like heaven! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,020	yeppie.. would u do that knowing u are married and look for someone else? not me! jeez.. __________________ "SpongeBob, that's my Krabby Patty! Give it back, you porous freak! I command you! My patty! Nooo! I'll settle for some fries." - Plankton. Freaky Cat's Blog

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highlands In Love & Happy Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: in an inland city Posts: 4,009	I think it is due to kind of communication problem in person .. __________________

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shel90 Sun Whorshipper Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: A Desert Rat that has found herself in Maryland Posts: 12,342 Blog Entries: 1	Ohhh that has to SUCK!!! Hahahaha! Talk about getting busted by each other. LOL! __________________ ~Shel~

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09-22-2007, 10:20 AM	#6 (permalink)
ASLGAL Here's Your Sign ;-D Join Date: May 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 170	Funny and Sad They should be really happy to know that they are each others true soulmates apparently. They will not have to divorce or remarry or anything. I guess the saying is true "The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence" apparently just the same grass. __________________ "The democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give to those who would not" Thomas Jefferson

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09-22-2007, 10:45 AM	#8 (permalink)
Freaky Cat Space - it's like heaven! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,020	yeah i think its fate that both of them are soulmates.. why else they click together ?? just that they need to work on communication problems??? that is so sad.. and i agree both got busted by each other! LOL .. __________________ "SpongeBob, that's my Krabby Patty! Give it back, you porous freak! I command you! My patty! Nooo! I'll settle for some fries." - Plankton. Freaky Cat's Blog

09-22-2007, 11:21 AM	#9 (permalink)
Maria Premium Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: ALASKA Posts: 7,680	Soulmates, eh ? I don't believe in soulmates at all ! It's full of crap. Pssh ....

09-22-2007, 01:17 PM	#10 (permalink)
Tousi Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 6,849	This also indicates to me that, while they were unknowingly online with each other, they were not being their true selves.

09-22-2007, 02:37 PM	#12 (permalink)
Nesmuth Banned Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: The Southland of California Posts: 3,199	Sounds like something I saw on The Jeffersons. Richard

09-22-2007, 04:17 PM	#13 (permalink)
RedheadGrrl Premium Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 4,743	weird but sad!!!

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Lil_country_gal Cowgirl Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Saint Joseph, MN Posts: 2,280	Wow that's just wow that makes me think they should have tried to work things out knowing they could act better but it's not me so __________________ Put some excitement between your legs.... Ride a Horse Laicy Always and Forever

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shel90 Sun Whorshipper Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: A Desert Rat that has found herself in Maryland Posts: 12,342 Blog Entries: 1	What if the couple, under their false names, said bad things about each other especially when it comes to sex? That would have stung big time! I cant get over how funny this is cuz if u are gonna cheat on your spouse, there will be a heavy price but this price is orginal! __________________ ~Shel~

09-22-2007, 07:49 PM	#21 (permalink)
Wokamuka 1.20.09 : end of an error Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 768	Divorce Sounds like that WTC-related divorce. The worried wife called her husband, who was in a hotel room (guess why), who - not knowing what was going on - insisted that he was in his WTC office.

12-29-2007, 10:25 PM	#25 (permalink)
~Kaelei~ Slytherin Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 125	This is Priceless! Man, that gotta suck big time! Sounds like they have commucation problem and they should work it out instead of getting divorced! __________________ Kaelei: Mother to Tristan Riley 1/6/06 and Wife to Preston 3/28/05

12-31-2007, 04:04 PM	#27 (permalink)
Secretblend Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Plan to move to Austin, TX Posts: 1,279	I have to wonder if that is even a true story. It's so stupid it has to be made up.