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Thank you so much! Also oral speaking is more limitation for many of us because they dont want to take their time to listen to us or have a good communication skills between Deaf and Hearing as usual. Thats the barrier of communication that we are not the blamed for 100 percent. I m so sick of their lame excuses about our deafness that can turned into a hearing children. They are narrowmind as well as we are ability in our hands to communicate and can do anything except hear all along and did the best we could speak in our deaf voices.
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Did you know that Sign Language do have
their own accent, too ? We rarely correct or change their accent in sign language to respect theirs. In the same meantime, this topic reminds me of Reese Witherspoon who had to change her Southern accent for the movie "Sweet Home Alabama" Did she become famous and successful by change her accent and/or keep her accent the same as before ? |
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FYI - Heck, the Chinese basically use one written language but have many dialects. Most of the dialects are so different as to be defacto langauges in their own right. Mandarian Chinese is the official language of China while in Hong Kong the native language is Cantonese (also known as Guangzhou). The difference is simply how they speak the intonations.
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may I remind the topic is about hearing person, not deaf? I was even wondering why it is here not in "On topic debates" or something like that. Unless Reba had hidden agenda..... and looks like it worked.
I am sure when it comes to hiring deaf person nobody in his/her right mind is going to ask for accent reduction course. Because there is big difference between disability and immigration. Fuzzy |
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The accent reduction course sounds like an excellent investment for everyone's benefit, as long as the employers pay for the course in the best interests of the employee and the company. In the past, employees with foreign accents that rendered their speech overtly unintelligible got laid off, fired, or passed over by younger, less qualifed employees. So I can appreciate how employers can find a creative solution for this sort of a problem.
But if they offered an accent reduction course for deaf people, that's an entirely different matter! |
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May I point out accent reduction course is in the best interest of the person who needs this course?
Even if the employer does not provide financial coverage for such services. This is not the employer's responsibility to provide clear accent of his employee. It's a free country, and many people are searching for jobs they want. The potential employers have plenty of applicants to choose from. It's survival of the fittest, and in certain jobs it means best education, best job skills, and if clear speech too - then whoever needs it, better take care of it. You can't always count on having a nice and generous boss, but you can count on that out there is someone else with your skills and better speech wanting your position. Fuzzy |
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The prejudice is not really anything new. Just the type of training and wide-spread use is new. When I was at Defense Information School (in Indianapolis), each of us had to do a radio broadcast audition. I didn't really want to do it (I was there was for public affairs, print media training) but it was required so they could find fresh "talent" for AFRTS billets (remember Good Morning Vietnam? The real guy was an alumnus of that training). Anyway, I was totally mortified at the end of my audition. The evaluators were laughing amongst themselves, and commenting on my "Joisey" accent (which was actually southeastern CT, oh well). Blah! |
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![]() Accents don't always have to do with immigration. In the US, yankees mock southern drawls, and midwesterners mock Bronxites, and who doesn't mock Min-a-sooooda. In SC, people from the upstate can't even understand the Gullah and the old-time SOB (that's South-of-Broad) Charlestonians. Regardless of one's politics, people in general found Bush's Texas inflection much warmer than Kerry's Bostom Brahman clip. Accents do influence, and that includes good old native-born Americans.
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Then I apologize if I suspected you of hidden agenda, Reba.
I agree with you than people do criticize and unccessarily mock each other accents. It's silly, On the other hand it is important for the sake of clear communication that people speak just so they can be understood without any doubts. I guess it's the matter of placement - if you came from the South to NY and people don't understand you, then naturally you should speak like New Yorker not expect everyone learn southern - I think it's logical. As for speech impediments in hearing pple I suppose there is a thin line for everything. But I also think there is always room for improvement, and the one who benefits most is the person who undergoes the therapy. Fuzzy |
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(I suppose someone might *personally* take offense at this, but that seems kind of self-defeating.) It is a thin line, though, as Audiofuzzy says, both with deaf and hearing. Because if a company said to a deaf person "You will only be promoted if you use your voice instead of sign," that could well be seen as offensive if not an out-and-out ADA issue. It's all so complicated. |
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BTW, any thoughts on what the polite way is to say to someone that you don't understand them, when they have a regional/national/other kind of accent, so they don't get offended? |
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Hopefully someone whose first language isn't English will not be offended if you say "I'm sorry, I'm having trouble understanding you." I mean, I certainly don't expect to be understood all the time in the languages I use other than English. If they're a native English speaker and have a strong regional accent...I guess you just have to hope they have a good sense of humor! At least on the phone you can blame it on a bad connection. I've done that more than once! In person, though...I guess just tell the truth nicely and hope for the best. |
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Coming from a large family of immigrants whose native language isn't English and growing up in a multi-cultural environment with non-native English speakers, I'm accustomed to hearing heavily accented English. And being deaf myself, I have come up with a few tricks up my sleeve to bridge communication gaps. If I don't understand what someone is saying on account of incomprehensible English, I'll put on a genuinely perplexed expression and ask, "What do you mean by that?" or "Can you rephrase that please?" It usually works.
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http://linguistlist.org/issues/5/5-443.html
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First of all why illegal, where did I gave you an impression I was speaking of illegal aliens? I meant all immigrants, people who at one point did not speak any English, or barely, or - exactly- were speaking with heavy accent. They certainly might need an accent reduction course. Some go for it by their own initiative. Now, when it comes to disability the line is not only thin but like you said - complicated. Usually it is possible to improve one's accent considerably when the matter is merely different ethinicity, but when it comes to disability the improvement might or might not be possible. And since it might be unfair to demand impossible, this is why there is an ADA act. Fuzzy ps and also of course any US born, English speaking citizen who wishes to improve his accent for any reason can do that. |
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Okay, fair enough. When you said "between disability and immigration" I thought you were talking about two controversial issues, and currently the controversy about immigration is about illegal immigration.
My point, if I had made it when I wasn't annoyed, would have been that "accent reduction" and "immigration" are two very separate issues that might occasionally interact, but not necessarily. |
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