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Unread 07-06-2008, 10:49 PM   #1
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Unhappy why so many deaf single men?

I was wondering why so many deaf single men, who can't find any ladies yet at time, average between 18 and 40 age. I feel sorry for deaf single men who had deeply and lonely I had seen, once I met a lot of deaf single men when it is social event or at Gallaudet. Ever not likely deaf women, cuz many of them are taken, how comes? I need to understand how and why...
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Unread 07-06-2008, 10:53 PM   #2
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You have to remember some choose to be single by choice. Some want to focus on their education or their job? There are many reasons why Men cant find one. Wrong type or whatever it is. or maybe they are gay? ever thought of that?

I noticed that today lot of them are picky too? compare to the past.. many marriages were arranged so lot of them got married and had children. nowadays none of the marriages are arranged.. just met them by accident or knew each other from school etc. some are lucky to find love. Some are not.
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Unread 07-07-2008, 12:33 AM   #3
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Read some of these threads and you will find out why.
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Unread 07-07-2008, 12:46 AM   #4
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You have to remember some choose to be single by choice. Some want to focus on their education or their job? There are many reasons why Men cant find one. Wrong type or whatever it is. or maybe they are gay? ever thought of that?

I noticed that today lot of them are picky too? compare to the past.. many marriages were arranged so lot of them got married and had children. nowadays none of the marriages are arranged.. just met them by accident or knew each other from school etc. some are lucky to find love. Some are not.
I agree.

A lot of students at NTID ended up getting pregnant and leaving school... because they were too focused on having relationships when they should have been focusing on schoolwork.

It's like one student I knew who had multiple forced miscarriages because she kept getting drunk & stoned... then having sex with random guys she met at parties. She was obsessed with being "cool" and trying to find a boyfriend. Of course, she couldn't keep a boyfriend for more than a few months.

Then there's another student who just transferred to NTID... only to leave a couple months later cuz she accidentally got pregnant. She was only 3 months away from graduating.

Then there's a group of girls who knew each other... yet, they got pregnant by the same guy.

So, what does that tell you? Are they too obsessed with having relationships and not being careful when they could actually put their brains to good use and finish school?

That's the problem nowadays. People think that it won't happen to them... but it does.
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Unread 07-07-2008, 12:48 AM   #5
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I get unlucky these days, and still today... it is just they are picky and I agree what Frecky Cat just said ..
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Unread 07-07-2008, 06:31 AM   #6
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I have been single cause I have no room for relationship during busy working as enterpriser and software engineer =/ someday I hope I will have time to look for woman
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Unread 07-07-2008, 09:40 AM   #7
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I agree.

A lot of students at NTID ended up getting pregnant and leaving school... because they were too focused on having relationships when they should have been focusing on schoolwork.

It's like one student I knew who had multiple forced miscarriages because she kept getting drunk & stoned... then having sex with random guys she met at parties. She was obsessed with being "cool" and trying to find a boyfriend. Of course, she couldn't keep a boyfriend for more than a few months.

Then there's another student who just transferred to NTID... only to leave a couple months later cuz she accidentally got pregnant. She was only 3 months away from graduating.

Then there's a group of girls who knew each other... yet, they got pregnant by the same guy.

So, what does that tell you? Are they too obsessed with having relationships and not being careful when they could actually put their brains to good use and finish school?

That's the problem nowadays. People think that it won't happen to them... but it does.
Group of girls got pregnant by the same guy? WOW! Hope he has deep pockets to pay for child support.
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Unread 07-07-2008, 11:22 AM   #8
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You have to remember some choose to be single by choice. Some want to focus on their education or their job? There are many reasons why Men cant find one. Wrong type or whatever it is. or maybe they are gay? ever thought of that?

I noticed that today lot of them are picky too? compare to the past.. many marriages were arranged so lot of them got married and had children. nowadays none of the marriages are arranged.. just met them by accident or knew each other from school etc. some are lucky to find love. Some are not.
Good post. In general, people are getting married and starting families at later ages than in the past. There are many reasons for that.
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Unread 07-07-2008, 12:24 PM   #9
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Good post. In general, people are getting married and starting families at later ages than in the past. There are many reasons for that.
and what you said was right on the spot as it was mentioned in the news that lot of people (both genders) are delaying to get married till late 30's and early 40's to focus on education or jobs after they are done then they get married and have a family.

like in the past, the parents get married earlier and have many children so they can help with chores around the farm then when they get older= marry them off to someone else. usually the older son take over the farm and get married to a homemaker then have a family.

Today none existed anymore maybe few do. We do have farms but few... not many nowadays.. its a dying breed. lot of people are going to college or working then later when they are settled down then they started to look for their significant other and have family but family is not large like in the past.
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I was wondering why so many deaf single men, who can't find any ladies yet at time, average between 18 and 40 age. I feel sorry for deaf single men who had deeply and lonely I had seen, once I met a lot of deaf single men when it is social event or at Gallaudet. Ever not likely deaf women, cuz many of them are taken, how comes? I need to understand how and why...
I'm not lonely.... most deaf I know are pussys.. won't do anything except go to deaf clubs.. while I'm busy skydiving, flying airplanes and other fun stuff...
you could get killed but that part of the fun...
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maybe the guys might not ready for relationships anyway shrugs
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There might be many single men (if true) who have been so for a long time because they only think below the waist.
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I guess single men are too busy to watch porn and jerk off or play video games too much. Some people who watch porns too much then end up to picky type on women's body.
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Good post. In general, people are getting married and starting families at later ages than in the past. There are many reasons for that.
There is a lot of truth to that comment. Secondly, with everything being expensive--it's much more affordable to stay single.

Heck.......I can't even afford myself!
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There is a lot of truth to that comment. Secondly, with everything being expensive--it's much more affordable to stay single.

Heck.......I can't even afford myself!
Quite true. Combining finances doesn't offer the benefits it used to. Many cohabitating couples don't get married for just that reason.
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There might be many single men (if true) who have been so for a long time because they only think below the waist.
Thinking with that little head.
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You have to remember some choose to be single by choice. Some want to focus on their education or their job? There are many reasons why Men cant find one. Wrong type or whatever it is. or maybe they are gay? ever thought of that?

I noticed that today lot of them are picky too? compare to the past.. many marriages were arranged so lot of them got married and had children. nowadays none of the marriages are arranged.. just met them by accident or knew each other from school etc. some are lucky to find love. Some are not.
Good posting I agree with that. Also some deaf guys can be immature that not ready to grow up or some of them have weak commuicate barrier or it could some of them could be crimals just like hearing guys. I agree they also compare way too much to other women and expect to