My Wife's SSD Cut Off - Page 2

yizuman · 03-06-2010, 02:33 PM

Just so you all know, this is the creep that beat my wife and the kids.

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The Prosecutor's office has been informed of this warrant. Problem is with this county that we live in, they're too lenient towards criminals. For example: A child molester got sentenced to 6 years probation last year compare to a county East of us in the same year got sentenced to 60 years in prison. Just so you know how farked up my county really is.

It's be really nice if somehow this low lifer actually pay up what he owes to my wife and then turn around and get this SSD mess finally fixed so this will never happen again.

Yiz

yizuman · 03-06-2010, 02:48 PM

Oh, I forgot to mention that the Senator's office replied back to me yesterday regarding my wife's situation and he sent me a permission form for me to fill out that will enable the office to investigate my wife's SSD situation on her behalf. I filled it out and scanned it, then sent it back along with a copy of my POA (power of attorney) that allows me to speak on her behalf. She can't use her hands much since her left hand is all curled up due to the stroke and her right hand shakes very badly.

I also informed the Senator about this loser ex-husband and did send that link as I mentioned above. So he's aware of the child support payment that he owes. Hope he can help with that. I guess Senator's office can only do so much.

Yiz

**Jiro** · 03-06-2010, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by yizuman

Oh, I forgot to mention that the Senator's office replied back to me yesterday regarding my wife's situation and he sent me a permission form for me to fill out that will enable the office to investigate my wife's SSD situation on her behalf. I filled it out and scanned it, then sent it back along with a copy of my POA (power of attorney) that allows me to speak on her behalf. She can't use her hands much since her left hand is all curled up due to the stroke and her right hand shakes very badly.

I also informed the Senator about this loser ex-husband and did send that link as I mentioned above. So he's aware of the child support payment that he owes. Hope he can help with that. I guess Senator's office can only do so much.

Yiz

whoa! You got Senator's ear! you go, yizuman!

yizuman · 03-06-2010, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

whoa! You got Senator's ear! you go, yizuman!

Thanks. I just hope the Senate's office will follow up on my problem and find a solution.

I will be going to the SSA office Tuesday morning, couldn't go yesterday because I felt there wasn't enough time to get to the SSA office and back home in time to assist my wife in getting back to her medical bed after a trip back from Dialysis. It's a 45 min drive to the SSA office from here. The time she's on dialysis is 4 hrs. What makes it hard is the wait time to speak to someone at the SSA office.

So I've arranged to have a nurse to be here at 10 AM Tuesday morning. Once the nurse arrives and given some special instructions regarding my wife's needs, then I'm gone. At least I'll be glad someone is here to watch over my wife and be there to assist her with whatever needs she will have.

I hope it all works out. I really do.

Yiz

**Reba** · 03-06-2010, 06:02 PM

I'm glad you have the Senator helping you.

**Jiro** · 03-06-2010, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by yizuman

Thanks. I just hope the Senate's office will follow up on my problem and find a solution.

I will be going to the SSA office Tuesday morning, couldn't go yesterday because I felt there wasn't enough time to get to the SSA office and back home in time to assist my wife in getting back to her medical bed after a trip back from Dialysis. It's a 45 min drive to the SSA office from here. The time she's on dialysis is 4 hrs. What makes it hard is the wait time to speak to someone at the SSA office.

So I've arranged to have a nurse to be here at 10 AM Tuesday morning. Once the nurse arrives and given some special instructions regarding my wife's needs, then I'm gone. At least I'll be glad someone is here to watch over my wife and be there to assist her with whatever needs she will have.

I hope it all works out. I really do.

Yiz

I can't think of any person who is as caring and diligent as you. Your wife is very blessed to have you

**Reba** · 03-06-2010, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

I can't think of any person who is as caring and diligent as you. Your wife is very blessed to have you

yizuman · 03-06-2010, 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jiro

I can't think of any person who is as caring and diligent as you. Your wife is very blessed to have you

Yiz

Lighthouse77 · 03-06-2010, 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yizuman

Thanks. I just hope the Senate's office will follow up on my problem and find a solution.

I will be going to the SSA office Tuesday morning, couldn't go yesterday because I felt there wasn't enough time to get to the SSA office and back home in time to assist my wife in getting back to her medical bed after a trip back from Dialysis. It's a 45 min drive to the SSA office from here. The time she's on dialysis is 4 hrs. What makes it hard is the wait time to speak to someone at the SSA office.

So I've arranged to have a nurse to be here at 10 AM Tuesday morning. Once the nurse arrives and given some special instructions regarding my wife's needs, then I'm gone. At least I'll be glad someone is here to watch over my wife and be there to assist her with whatever needs she will have.

I hope it all works out. I really do.

Yiz

that is really tough. I had to do stuffs like that with my mother when she had breast cancer and turned for the worst (near her death) She lived with us for awhile.

Miss-Delectable · 03-06-2010, 08:11 PM

Hope the Senator and his office can help you and wife with this issue.

She's lucky to have a caring hubby like you.

yizuman · 03-06-2010, 08:30 PM

I would like to dedicate this song to those that offered me support, advice and suggestions....

YouTube - Lean On Me By Bill Withers with Lyrics

Thank you!

Mrs Bucket · 03-06-2010, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

I can't think of any person who is as caring and diligent as you. Your wife is very blessed to have you

Very well said.

This is what love is. Unconditional.

inmate23 · 03-06-2010, 08:42 PM

grouphug

jazzy · 03-07-2010, 10:57 AM

Mmm, I am not sure if I am right but here in Calif when a patient has alizmeher's (mispelling, I feel crap this am so not bother to check my spelling)disease someone in this person's family whether they are spouse or children. They gets $$$ from state to assist patient. My friend is considering about this now her mother is in the stage where she can not take care of herself. I am not sure if in your home state has this kind of program? Now that you are staying home and take care of her, maybe check it out. I only know this because of what my friend told me and someone who work for the state told her to apply one if she decided to take her mother in and take care of her. full time job.

yizuman · 03-08-2010, 10:36 AM

Well crap, my unemployment voucher only paid out $16 this week and I won't roll over into a new one until next week Monday. GAH! March is starting out to be the suckiest month EVER!

I called the bank in a panic and explained that I don't have my usual full amount this week and asked if the mortgage can be held off until next week Monday and he said he already put a stop payment (automatic debit from our account) until I get this problem with my wife's SSD straighten out. The banker is aware that I'm going to the SSA office tomorrow morning.

Dunno what we're gonna do about food, guess it's time to hit the food banks.

Yiz

rockin'robin · 03-08-2010, 01:08 PM

Yes, Yiz....Churches will help you! Food banks also, even clothing when you're in need. Bless you! And hang in there...it will all work out. Been there and done that!

inmate23 · 03-09-2010, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by yizuman

Well crap, my unemployment voucher only paid out $16 this week and I won't roll over into a new one until next week Monday. GAH! March is starting out to be the suckiest month EVER!

I called the bank in a panic and explained that I don't have my usual full amount this week and asked if the mortgage can be held off until next week Monday and he said he already put a stop payment (automatic debit from our account) until I get this problem with my wife's SSD straighten out. The banker is aware that I'm going to the SSA office tomorrow morning.

Dunno what we're gonna do about food, guess it's time to hit the food banks.

Yiz

check out the local libary they might have a book/list of places that provide services

yizuman · 03-09-2010, 02:57 PM

I finally got to them to release my wife's check, it should arrive via direct deposit within 3-5 days post paperwork.

I'm now the designated payee for my wife since she's unable to get around much and is bedridden often. Makes more sense since I pretty much take care of everything for her nowadays.

Whew! Glad that's over with and my wife can now sigh with relief.

Yiz

Frisky Feline · 03-09-2010, 03:00 PM

That's so great!! did you ask them why they stopped the checks in the first place?

yizuman · 03-09-2010, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Frisky Feline

That's so great!! did you ask them why they stopped the checks in the first place?

Because of my wife's overpayment history. They said something about a recent system upgrade in their computers. Dunno how they missed the agreement my wife made 10 years ago to pay back the overpayment $50 a month. Something borked up so I'm not sure I fully understand how or why.

But the important thing is that it's been resolved. At least I hope it stays that way and not some jerk from higher up overrides it and make me go back to the SSA office again.

Yiz

**Jiro** · 03-09-2010, 03:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yizuman

Because of my wife's overpayment history. They said something about a recent system upgrade in their computers. Dunno how they missed the agreement my wife made 10 years ago to pay back the overpayment $50 a month. Something borked up so I'm not sure I fully understand how or why.

But the important thing is that it's been resolved. At least I hope it stays that way and not some jerk from higher up overrides it and make me go back to the SSA office again.

Yiz

ah! of course! a computer glitch! what a convenient excuse they can use.

wondering how many people got screwed by this...

yizuman · 03-09-2010, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jiro

ah! of course! a computer glitch! what a convenient excuse they can use.

wondering how many people got screwed by this...

Well I can tell you the place was PACKED full of people. Something that I had initially felt it would be. I had that sense of dread and it turned out what I thought it would be.

So it does look as alot of people got effected by this "glitch" as it were.

I can tell you I ended up waiting 3 hrs to talk to someone and spent an hr and 15 pages of scribbled notes trying to get this mess resolved.

And I thought sitting at the DMV was bad.

Yiz

Frisky Feline · 03-09-2010, 03:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yizuman

Because of my wife's overpayment history. They said something about a recent system upgrade in their computers. Dunno how they missed the agreement my wife made 10 years ago to pay back the overpayment $50 a month. Something borked up so I'm not sure I fully understand how or why.

But the important thing is that it's been resolved. At least I hope it stays that way and not some jerk from higher up overrides it and make me go back to the SSA office again.

Yiz

That's good. Now all is settle down.

**JClarke** · 03-10-2010, 12:30 AM

Glad all is resolved and taken care of.

***~SG~*** · 03-10-2010, 03:24 AM

Glad it is resolved, do keep the copies just incase if this happens again.

**Oddball** · 03-10-2010, 07:40 AM

I am glad that the matter got resolved. Damn computer glitch! But, the nice picture of jerk with fugly hair! I hope he will be forced to owe your wife monies!!!

SouthFella · 03-10-2010, 07:54 AM

You didn't request for an interpreter at the SSA office ?

Quote:

Originally Posted by yizuman

Well I can tell you the place was PACKED full of people. Something that I had initially felt it would be. I had that sense of dread and it turned out what I thought it would be.

So it does look as alot of people got effected by this "glitch" as it were.

I can tell you I ended up waiting 3 hrs to talk to someone and spent an hr and 15 pages of scribbled notes trying to get this mess resolved.

And I thought sitting at the DMV was bad.

Yiz

yizuman · 03-10-2010, 09:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SouthFella

You didn't request for an interpreter at the SSA office ?

I did, but they never provided one. So I just make do w/ a notepad. I've never expected them to provide one, even at the last minute. As usual, none of the SSA offices I've ever been into ever has a "ready-to-go" interpreter.

Yiz

Miss-Delectable · 03-11-2010, 10:11 PM

Glad to hear your wife's problem has been resolved. Let's hope they won't screw up with you or your wife's checks again!

yizuman · 03-11-2010, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss-Delectable

Glad to hear your wife's problem has been resolved. Let's hope they won't screw up with you or your wife's checks again!

Amen to that.

Yiz

03-06-2010, 02:33 PM	#31 (permalink)
yizuman Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,370	Just so you all know, this is the creep that beat my wife and the kids. Indiana's Most Wanted The Prosecutor's office has been informed of this warrant. Problem is with this county that we live in, they're too lenient towards criminals. For example: A child molester got sentenced to 6 years probation last year compare to a county East of us in the same year got sentenced to 60 years in prison. Just so you know how farked up my county really is. It's be really nice if somehow this low lifer actually pay up what he owes to my wife and then turn around and get this SSD mess finally fixed so this will never happen again. Yiz __________________

03-06-2010, 02:48 PM	#32 (permalink)
yizuman Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,370	Oh, I forgot to mention that the Senator's office replied back to me yesterday regarding my wife's situation and he sent me a permission form for me to fill out that will enable the office to investigate my wife's SSD situation on her behalf. I filled it out and scanned it, then sent it back along with a copy of my POA (power of attorney) that allows me to speak on her behalf. She can't use her hands much since her left hand is all curled up due to the stroke and her right hand shakes very badly. I also informed the Senator about this loser ex-husband and did send that link as I mentioned above. So he's aware of the child support payment that he owes. Hope he can help with that. I guess Senator's office can only do so much. Yiz __________________

03-06-2010, 08:11 PM	#40 (permalink)
Miss-Delectable V.I.P. Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 17,174 Blog Entries: 3	Hope the Senator and his office can help you and wife with this issue. She's lucky to have a caring hubby like you. __________________ "Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light." - Helen Keller

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03-07-2010, 10:57 AM	#44 (permalink)
jazzy Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: High desert in Calif Posts: 4,208	Mmm, I am not sure if I am right but here in Calif when a patient has alizmeher's (mispelling, I feel crap this am so not bother to check my spelling)disease someone in this person's family whether they are spouse or children. They gets $$$ from state to assist patient. My friend is considering about this now her mother is in the stage where she can not take care of herself. I am not sure if in your home state has this kind of program? Now that you are staying home and take care of her, maybe check it out. I only know this because of what my friend told me and someone who work for the state told her to apply one if she decided to take her mother in and take care of her. full time job. __________________

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03-06-2010, 06:02 PM	#35 (permalink)
Reba Granny Terp Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: South Carolina Posts: 39,170	I'm glad you have the Senator helping you.

03-08-2010, 10:36 AM	#45 (permalink)
yizuman Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,370	Well crap, my unemployment voucher only paid out $16 this week and I won't roll over into a new one until next week Monday. GAH! March is starting out to be the suckiest month EVER! I called the bank in a panic and explained that I don't have my usual full amount this week and asked if the mortgage can be held off until next week Monday and he said he already put a stop payment (automatic debit from our account) until I get this problem with my wife's SSD straighten out. The banker is aware that I'm going to the SSA office tomorrow morning. Dunno what we're gonna do about food, guess it's time to hit the food banks. Yiz __________________

03-08-2010, 01:08 PM	#46 (permalink)
rockin'robin Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida Posts: 15,299	Yes, Yiz....Churches will help you! Food banks also, even clothing when you're in need. Bless you! And hang in there...it will all work out. Been there and done that!

03-09-2010, 02:57 PM	#48 (permalink)
yizuman Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,370	I finally got to them to release my wife's check, it should arrive via direct deposit within 3-5 days post paperwork. I'm now the designated payee for my wife since she's unable to get around much and is bedridden often. Makes more sense since I pretty much take care of everything for her nowadays. Whew! Glad that's over with and my wife can now sigh with relief. Yiz __________________

03-09-2010, 03:00 PM	#49 (permalink)
Frisky Feline Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 20,239	That's so great!! did you ask them why they stopped the checks in the first place?

03-10-2010, 12:30 AM	#54 (permalink)
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*~SG~* Super Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Western Australia Posts: 6,851	Glad it is resolved, do keep the copies just incase if this happens again. __________________

03-10-2010, 07:40 AM	#56 (permalink)
Oddball Premium Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: The Toxic State Posts: 4,570	I am glad that the matter got resolved. Damn computer glitch! But, the nice picture of jerk with fugly hair! I hope he will be forced to owe your wife monies!!!

03-11-2010, 10:11 PM	#59 (permalink)
Miss-Delectable V.I.P. Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 17,174 Blog Entries: 3	Glad to hear your wife's problem has been resolved. Let's hope they won't screw up with you or your wife's checks again! __________________ "Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light." - Helen Keller

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