Find my Birth Parents!!!

ILoveTarget · 09-21-2008, 04:42 AM

Hi!! my name whitney. i always look at board but i register today to post this. i born in indiana but my parents very young and it very hard to raise child with disability/deaf. they give me to state of indiana so i have better life!! i dont get adopted so state of indiana give me to state of california so i can go to special school for the deaf and live in home for deaf! i turn 18 and graduate school so i move back to indiana because california is very expensive!! i live in indiana now and i rent room in big boarding house! i have two jobs. i work at golden coral as dishwasher and purdue as janitor! i very happy!! i dont know anyone in indiana i havent met friends yet. i want to find my birth parents and see if they want to be friends and thank them for giving me better life!!! but i dont know how to do this. i look up my last name on whitepages.com but there are a lot of them with my last name. does anyone have ideas? thank you!!!!!!!!!!

Brian · 09-21-2008, 08:32 AM

Hi and welcome to AllDeaf.

If you have your parents' full names and last-known city/town/township of their residency. If they aren't listed in the directory, look up the list with your last name in the same or next to the town, it is possible they are related to you.

There is PeopleFinders.com that would allow you to see possible/close relatives/associates to your parents. The site is not free to use, but you can see the names and try finding them in the phone directory.

Best luck on finding your parents.

Btw, go Purdue Boilmakers! Several of my relatives were educated at the main campus in WLaf.

Buffalo · 09-21-2008, 09:20 AM

Do you have a copy of your birth certificate? It should mention the names of your parents since you wasn't adopted. Also it would tell you your birthplace if you don't already know. It should be easier to find your father as women change their last name when they get married. Good luck!

WhisperHorse · 09-21-2008, 09:52 AM

to Alldeaf and enjoy your stay!

I wish you a good luck to find your birth parents

ClearSky · 09-21-2008, 04:44 PM

Hello, welcome to AD.

Have you tried contacting the State of Indiana and the deaf school you went to to see if they have information they can give you or if they have advice to help you?

CrzyMeg · 09-21-2008, 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILoveTarget

Hi!! my name whitney. i always look at board but i register today to post this. i born in indiana but my parents very young and it very hard to raise child with disability/deaf. they give me to state of indiana so i have better life!! i dont get adopted so state of indiana give me to state of california so i can go to special school for the deaf and live in home for deaf! i turn 18 and graduate school so i move back to indiana because california is very expensive!! i live in indiana now and i rent room in big boarding house! i have two jobs. i work at golden coral as dishwasher and purdue as janitor! i very happy!! i dont know anyone in indiana i havent met friends yet. i want to find my birth parents and see if they want to be friends and thank them for giving me better life!!! but i dont know how to do this. i look up my last name on whitepages.com but there are a lot of them with my last name. does anyone have ideas? thank you!!!!!!!!!!

SSI might help you or your old caseworker. It help me find my dad and my mom. I was in foster care in CA. Best is the SSI or caseworker who work your case

GalaxyAngel · 09-21-2008, 08:38 PM

Hello IloveTarget,

Take my word.. I recommend you go through this link
http://www.google.ca/search?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&channel=s&hl=en&q=search+birth+paren ts&meta=&btnG=Google+Search

What more, I'm adoption and found my birth mother where I did register so many different website through ... until someone who looking for you.. One day, whoever will contact you directly privacy emails. You search your birth Mom or Dad and found your parent.. contact the person who handled the website. The person will be very happy discuss w/you and will contact your Birth Mom or Dad.

Hope you will find them soon.

I'm reunited my birth mom and still searching my birth Father.

Good Luck!

**Oddball** · 09-21-2008, 11:29 PM

Go out to the courthouse in Indiana where you were born and asked for information, so they will give you the name of your birth mother and/or dad. That's how I found my birth mom.

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brian

Hi and welcome to AllDeaf.

If you have your parents' full names and last-known city/town/township of their residency. If they aren't listed in the directory, look up the list with your last name in the same or next to the town, it is possible they are related to you.

There is PeopleFinders.com that would allow you to see possible/close relatives/associates to your parents. The site is not free to use, but you can see the names and try finding them in the phone directory.

Best luck on finding your parents.

Btw, go Purdue Boilmakers! Several of my relatives were educated at the main campus in WLaf.

hi Brian! thank u for ur help. i don't have first name but i have my last name. purdue is very nice school! i love working there!!!

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buffalo

Do you have a copy of your birth certificate? It should mention the names of your parents since you wasn't adopted. Also it would tell you your birthplace if you don't already know. It should be easier to find your father as women change their last name when they get married. Good luck!

hi buffalo!! thank u. i don't have copy of my birth certificate but i have social security card!!! i dont know where in indiana i was born.

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ClearSky

Hello, welcome to AD.

Have you tried contacting the State of Indiana and the deaf school you went to to see if they have information they can give you or if they have advice to help you?

hi clear sky!! i contact my case manager at deaf school and she said not to look for my parent just find new friends! i dont believe her though. i want to find my birth parents. who do u think i contact at state of indiana? do u know how i get my birth certificate? do my birth certificate have parent phone number on it?

CrzyMeg · 09-22-2008, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILoveTarget

hi clear sky!! i contact my case manager at deaf school and she said not to look for my parent just find new friends! i dont believe her though. i want to find my birth parents. who do u think i contact at state of indiana? do u know how i get my birth certificate? do my birth certificate have parent phone number on it?

Best to contact your case worker. That how I did to find my parents.

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oddball

Go out to the courthouse in Indiana where you were born and asked for information, so they will give you the name of your birth mother and/or dad. That's how I found my birth mom.

hi oddball! i live down street from court house. can i go to that court house and ask? i dont know where in indiana i born but i sure it is indiana. was your birth mom very happy you find her? i hope my birth mom happy i find her!

thank u for your help!!! i very excited about finding my birth parents.

holidays are sad and maybe they be happy now!

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by CrzyMeg

Best to contact your case worker. That how I did to find my parents.

hi crzy meg! i contact case worker and she not help. make me very sad. your birth mom very happy you find her??? i hope you have good day!

CrzyMeg · 09-22-2008, 03:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILoveTarget

hi crzy meg! i contact case worker and she not help. make me very sad. your birth mom very happy you find her??? i hope you have good day!

Or SSI, they could help you because you have social security yes?

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CrzyMeg

Or SSI, they could help you because you have social security yes?

yes!!! i contact ssi and ask for my birth certificate and then i get my birth parents name! thank u!!!!

ClearSky · 09-22-2008, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by ILoveTarget

hi crzy meg! i contact case worker and she not help. make me very sad. your birth mom very happy you find her??? i hope you have good day!

Talk to her supervisor? Maybe she can find out more than she knows.

CrzyMeg · 09-22-2008, 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILoveTarget

yes!!! i contact ssi and ask for my birth certificate and then i get my birth parents name! thank u!!!!

Ur welcome. No problem at all.

**Phillips** · 09-22-2008, 03:32 PM

Hello and Good luck find your parent

Gemma · 09-22-2008, 03:32 PM

My birth father was very pissed off when I found him.

Some parents may be happy and others may not be.

Since I was adopted, they place all birth certificates in the capitol so you may want to contact Birth Registry in your state capitol. They have websites so you can look for it.

I got my birth certificate from applying online for one so that was how I got mine. It does not list their phone numbers though.

Good luck

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemma

My birth father was very pissed off when I found him.

Some parents may be happy and others may not be.

Since I was adopted, they place all birth certificates in the capitol so you may want to contact Birth Registry in your state capitol. They have websites so you can look for it.

I got my birth certificate from applying online for one so that was how I got mine. It does not list their phone numbers though.

Good luck

i so sorry your birth father mad!!!!! i hope my birth parents are happy and they want to be friends. your birth father not want to be friends?

Gemma · 09-22-2008, 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILoveTarget

i so sorry your birth father mad!!!!! i hope my birth parents are happy and they want to be friends. your birth father not want to be friends?

No he did not. He did not want to feel guilty so out of sight, no guilt I guess

Do contact the capitol office and ask them what to do. They can guide you to the appropriate department.

ClearSky · 09-22-2008, 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILoveTarget

yes!!! i contact ssi and ask for my birth certificate and then i get my birth parents name! thank u!!!!

Wow, that's fast. Good luck with searching your birth parents.

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ClearSky

Wow, that's fast. Good luck with searching your birth parents.

oh no i sorry! i mean thats what i will do. i havent done that yet! thank u clearsky!

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 03:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemma

No he did not. He did not want to feel guilty so out of sight, no guilt I guess

Do contact the capitol office and ask them what to do. They can guide you to the appropriate department.

gemma i sorry he not want to be friends! i called capitol and they say i get copy of birth certificate at local health department!! so i take bus and go there tomorrow and they make me wait 1 hour and then give me copy of birth certificate. i will tell you if it works tomorrow! have good night!

Buffalo · 09-22-2008, 06:43 PM

Great! Once you get your birth certificate, you will know the names of your parents and your birthplace. Try look up your parents in your birthplace first then go outside your birthplace. Good luck! I hope your parents will not be upset that you found them.

By the way, after finding your parents, you should ask them for medical information like what tends to run in either parents' family - like cancer, diabetes, etc. Important to know so you can watch out for those problems in your life.

GalaxyAngel · 09-22-2008, 07:17 PM

LoveTarget
Interesting. how r u rude remarks towards me.. You have nothing say to me..

Wha..a.. waste my time for nothing and gave you tips of mine..
Next time, I ain't going help you any kinds frigg'n tips.

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 08:32 PM

galaxy!!!! i so sorry. i thought i said thank you. i must have forgotten to quote you! i so sorry don't be mad at me. im very sorry! you helped me a lot i thank you very much!!

ILoveTarget · 09-22-2008, 08:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buffalo

Great! Once you get your birth certificate, you will know the names of your parents and your birthplace. Try look up your parents in your birthplace first then go outside your birthplace. Good luck! I hope your parents will not be upset that you found them.

By the way, after finding your parents, you should ask them for medical information like what tends to run in either parents' family - like cancer, diabetes, etc. Important to know so you can watch out for those problems in your life.

buffalo i will ask medical information when i find them. i dont understand why parents get mad when u find them. i not asking them for anything. i just want to be friends. and maybe i go there for holidays because i dont have anywhere to go for holidays now. i dont understand why they would be mad. u please explain?

Miss-Delectable · 09-22-2008, 09:17 PM

Good luck on finding all the information you wanted. I hope you won't be disappointed or hurt, if it doesn't work out the way you hoped.

09-21-2008, 04:42 AM	#1 (permalink)
ILoveTarget Registered User Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Lafayette, Indiana Posts: 121	Find my Birth Parents!!! Hi!! my name whitney. i always look at board but i register today to post this. i born in indiana but my parents very young and it very hard to raise child with disability/deaf. they give me to state of indiana so i have better life!! i dont get adopted so state of indiana give me to state of california so i can go to special school for the deaf and live in home for deaf! i turn 18 and graduate school so i move back to indiana because california is very expensive!! i live in indiana now and i rent room in big boarding house! i have two jobs. i work at golden coral as dishwasher and purdue as janitor! i very happy!! i dont know anyone in indiana i havent met friends yet. i want to find my birth parents and see if they want to be friends and thank them for giving me better life!!! but i dont know how to do this. i look up my last name on whitepages.com but there are a lot of them with my last name. does anyone have ideas? thank you!!!!!!!!!!

09-21-2008, 09:20 AM	#3 (permalink)
Buffalo Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 4,025	Do you have a copy of your birth certificate? It should mention the names of your parents since you wasn't adopted. Also it would tell you your birthplace if you don't already know. It should be easier to find your father as women change their last name when they get married. Good luck! __________________ “The problem is not that the (deaf) students do not hear. The problem is that the hearing world does not listen. “- Rev Jesse L. Jackson ( American Civil Rights Activist, Minister)

09-21-2008, 09:52 AM	#4 (permalink)
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GalaxyAngel Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Alberta,Canada Posts: 13,626	Hello IloveTarget, Take my word.. I recommend you go through this link http://www.google.ca/search?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&channel=s&hl=en&q=search+birth+paren ts&meta=&btnG=Google+Search What more, I'm adoption and found my birth mother where I did register so many different website through ... until someone who looking for you.. One day, whoever will contact you directly privacy emails. You search your birth Mom or Dad and found your parent.. contact the person who handled the website. The person will be very happy discuss w/you and will contact your Birth Mom or Dad. Hope you will find them soon. I'm reunited my birth mom and still searching my birth Father. Good Luck! __________________ Parent's proud our children.

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09-21-2008, 08:32 AM	#2 (permalink)
Brian Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 4,750	Hi and welcome to AllDeaf. If you have your parents' full names and last-known city/town/township of their residency. If they aren't listed in the directory, look up the list with your last name in the same or next to the town, it is possible they are related to you. There is PeopleFinders.com that would allow you to see possible/close relatives/associates to your parents. The site is not free to use, but you can see the names and try finding them in the phone directory. Best luck on finding your parents. Btw, go Purdue Boilmakers! Several of my relatives were educated at the main campus in WLaf.

09-21-2008, 04:44 PM	#5 (permalink)
ClearSky Registered User Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,154	Hello, welcome to AD. Have you tried contacting the State of Indiana and the deaf school you went to to see if they have information they can give you or if they have advice to help you?

09-21-2008, 11:29 PM	#8 (permalink)
Oddball Premium Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: The Toxic State Posts: 4,569	Go out to the courthouse in Indiana where you were born and asked for information, so they will give you the name of your birth mother and/or dad. That's how I found my birth mom.

09-22-2008, 03:32 PM	#20 (permalink)
Gemma Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,127	My birth father was very pissed off when I found him. Some parents may be happy and others may not be. Since I was adopted, they place all birth certificates in the capitol so you may want to contact Birth Registry in your state capitol. They have websites so you can look for it. I got my birth certificate from applying online for one so that was how I got mine. It does not list their phone numbers though. Good luck

09-22-2008, 06:43 PM	#26 (permalink)
Buffalo Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 4,025	Great! Once you get your birth certificate, you will know the names of your parents and your birthplace. Try look up your parents in your birthplace first then go outside your birthplace. Good luck! I hope your parents will not be upset that you found them. By the way, after finding your parents, you should ask them for medical information like what tends to run in either parents' family - like cancer, diabetes, etc. Important to know so you can watch out for those problems in your life. __________________ “The problem is not that the (deaf) students do not hear. The problem is that the hearing world does not listen. “- Rev Jesse L. Jackson ( American Civil Rights Activist, Minister)

09-22-2008, 07:17 PM	#27 (permalink)
GalaxyAngel Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Alberta,Canada Posts: 13,626	LoveTarget Interesting. how r u rude remarks towards me.. You have nothing say to me.. Wha..a.. waste my time for nothing and gave you tips of mine.. Next time, I ain't going help you any kinds frigg'n tips. __________________ Parent's proud our children.

09-22-2008, 08:32 PM	#28 (permalink)
ILoveTarget Registered User Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Lafayette, Indiana Posts: 121	galaxy!!!! i so sorry. i thought i said thank you. i must have forgotten to quote you! i so sorry don't be mad at me. im very sorry! you helped me a lot i thank you very much!!

09-22-2008, 09:17 PM	#30 (permalink)
Miss-Delectable V.I.P. Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 17,174 Blog Entries: 3	Good luck on finding all the information you wanted. I hope you won't be disappointed or hurt, if it doesn't work out the way you hoped. __________________ "Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light." - Helen Keller

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