garrent

i am curious....when u guys were preggy or during preggy....do u already plan what to do with kids...like....take them to church to learn abt god or not take them to fast food that often or something like that? just wonder thanks

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jillio

Oh, yeah, when I was preganant I made all kinds of plans! I was going to be a perfect mom. Then the baby was born and reality set in, LOL!

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Yeah I am plan to get pregnant after marry and liver result. I'm under remicade treatment for colon. I have to wait until it's done with it by Sept or Oct. I will have a Liver test on Sept. I hope it's nothing serious. So I will go ahead get pregnant. Me and My fiance agree to have baby give a birth in summer of 2009. We want to have 3 or 4 kids in future. Of course, I will take them to go church to learn about moral. That's very important for kids to be discipline by us. I am exciting to become a mother.

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garrent

ohhh ! i wish u a goody lucky and i am sure everything will turn out to be ok not THAT serious thru true i wanna take my kid to church very important for me oh yah i undy how u feel abt being exciting to be a mother i feel the same way lol

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garrent

lol yah i made alot of plans but little hard too cuz cant tell what my kid will do in the future and all hope i will be goody mother to my child

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me, too.

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horselover61

Sometimes making a plan for your future kids can changed. Right now I am filing for a full custoday of my son and change his last name. So that change affected my son already.

Nothing gotta stay the same like moving, changing the school, making new friends and so much.

I just go with the flow and go from there.

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Do you have a kids or not?

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About my future kids. My fiance and I discussed about our future kids. We wanted my kids involve with sports, arts, camping, scout, more activities. I want to be enjoy being mom. I don't like to leave my kids alone at home. I don't like neglect children. I know every kids always get parent's attention.

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garrent

ah well i am preggy with my very own first child so not born yet lol

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Congratulations! When is baby's due?? Are you exciting?

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garrent

thanks ! =D baby due in july 16th i am exciting and nervous cuz of labor and delivery hope it will go smooth

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You're welcome! Yeah I will be nervous if I am preg and give a baby birth. I really hate to be painful! Which is girl or boy?

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garrent

it is a boy yah me too not so ready for the painful!

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sara1981

i would like taking my own kids anywhere include mall,shopping,visit families,zoo and trips to KS/MO where im come from and lots of mores but i wanted my own kids to England somedays.

im really love children but i would like to raise somedays and good caring as mother and wives.

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garrent

i am sure u will be a great mother and wiffy ^_^ i wud like to take my son to disney world someday that he can remmy the memory of his first time in disney world ^^

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sara1981

im really love disney world and also sea world too but i wanted take my future kids there somedays because mostly kids loves disney world very dearly but im still goals what i wanted for rightful going anywhere goods spots and dont spots.

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garrent

right i agree with u ^_^

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Miss-Delectable

Well, I'm not pregnant or do I have a child.

But what I do know/want if I had a child, I'd send them to private schools.

They'd eat lots of fruits/vegetables, meat.

Take them around the world, and learn about cultures and a language or two.

Encourage them become a bookworm

Enroll them into activities such as swimming, dancing and whatnot.

By the way, congrats on your impending motherhood.

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garrent

lol thanks! and wow u sound very strict and very careing person for child i am sure u will be wonderful mother to ur child ^^

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Cheri

horselover61 is correct, when a child comes in the world, promising and future plans can be change without noticed.

I had a lot of high expectations for my children to perform better in school, my oldest son been a honor roll student for over 6 years, and my younger son has just had his merit roll award for this school year.

I don't force them to do anything they do not want to do as for sport activities. They can be whatever they want to be, even if it's a doctor, or going for a scholarship. They have my support 100 percent.

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WhisperHorse

Horselover and Cheri,

You're right about the plans that could be change in the future.

Back to the topic;

Well, Im not sure about stuffs but for Fast Food, Im not going to let my future kids to eating Fast Food since I prefer them to eating healthy food first and such like that. Unless if a long trip in the car, then I might will allow them eat small of Fast Food. Depends on my mood and how behavior they are in. I know it's hard.

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deafbajagal

EXACTLY!!!!!!!

OH, the plans I had and all of the things I swore I would never do. Looking back, I can't help but laugh at myself! I ended up doing things I swore I would never do.

For example, I read all of "the books" from the so-called experts about parenting and raising children. When the baby was born...I realized they didn't know what the HELL they were talking about! Then I did some research- some of the authors didn't even have kids themselves! Hmph!

Bottom line- you will know what to do when the baby gets here- follow your instincts.

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shel90

When I was pregnant with both kids, I just want them to have happiness in their future whatever they choose to be. I planned on ensuring that they have a wonderful childhood and not have to grow up so fast.

With my daughter, I vowed that she would grow up in a two-parent household but circumstances changed that with the divorce. However, my ex and I didnt put her in the middle and are still there for her so she wasnt negatively affected by it. She loves my current hubby and my ex's girlfriend and that is important.

As for my 2 year old, just want him to grow up happy too.

As for their careers, I want them to find jobs that they love doing.

I am more of go with the flow and keep my expectations known to them as far as school is concerned.

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zerodog

I do think the same thing, we learn that we have baby coming up. our first new born which it will due jan 23 but it not passed 3 months yet.

we have discuss about the future for child and scare at the same time. Reason, my mom speak such as negative while other mom speak in toward of our hope and investment wealth. It exciting for us, of course; it like.. it actually happen... the bless has began.

About the single mother, I watch the news, it has big affect, but don't listen my word about negative. They knows what to do, all you ask and seek because we thank that we have website that we are search for answer and survival. Without internet or alldeaf.com. We might be clueless where to began.

Single mother is big thing than anything but--- one thing I hate to see when kid grow up and turn out angry and then never spoken until mother die and kid to adult regret. Something that I do not want see each other...

Also, just remember... the child is the begin....

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~*Kaelei*~

My Husband and I have gone through this. We had talked about this while I was pregnant and is still talking about it after he was born two years ago. We both have decided that he'll choose his own religion since I'm Lutheran and Preston (My husband) isn't in any religion except for believing in Buddism and God is everywhere around us. We don't want to put him in situation that he has to choose between his father or mine religion. So we both decided just teach him both and from there, let him decide for himself.

Also, we want to give him much freedom as we can as I grew up in a family not having much freedom and Preston had lots of freedom and he turned out well. But we of course will teach him the line, to show where he can't do, like he can not step out of boundaries. We want him to be able to make his own choices, letting him be his own person.

We have decided to put him in Private school....we're not sure which...but I do know I don't want to put him in Catholic Private School...as I had bad experience with it as a child and I don't agree with that religion (No offense to catholics out there) but I want him to be in good school with small class with kids he'll know for eight years and teacher that will give him good teaching. Public school doesn't really do that. After all I just graduated from High School two years ago and they don't really teach you anything new...basically same things I've learned in Middle School.

Those are few examples of what we have discussed on.

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