horselover61

That wouldnt be a problem with me. I like that idea that the Dad stay at home too. So that the father will understand what it is like to be home with the kids and taking care of the house while the mothers goes to work. We the parent should get the idea what it is all about.

Deafness

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Chrysanthe

I am a part time so is my hubby. We both agree that we will work. For example, he would work in the day time and I would work during the evening (once a week).

But in the near future, there is a community college near our home, my husband is considering to return to college to complete his education. I fully support him to complete his education and I need to complete mine. We are figuring it out how we can work with the children and a baby that I am gonna have in a few months while we will be returning to school. It is possible I ll let my husband to complete his first then I ll do mine so that way someone in this family can support our family.

BUT children will come first for their needs, education and etc. We definitely will put them FIRST. When things will go smoothly, then we will start with our goals.

My feeling, I can't be a stay home mom. I am very industrious person and I would love to stay home and work also. ( I would go CRAZY) So I would do both that way I will feel more balance with staying home and working.

Thats about it.

shel90

Many people cant afford to stay home and raise their children due to rising costs of houses, gas, utilities, and more. It is now considered a luxury to be able to stay home with children. Many mothers would love to but if the family cant live on a single income then no choice.

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Greif86

I am a stay at home mom of 3 kids

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GarnetTigerMom

I am a stay home mom and I also work from home as well. I rather watch my baby daughter grow until she olde enough to attend school. She is only 11 months old so I don't want to miss out on anything she does. My child comes first in my life so I rather stay at home mom for her. :-)

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GarnetTigerMom

"The rain may be falling hard outside,
But your smile makes it all alright.
I'm so glad that you're my friend.
I know our friendship will never end."
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~*Kaelei*~

My husband Preston was stay at home Dad when Tristan was first born up to 6 months while I was going to school. But now we're both stay at home parents...I have been stay at home Mother since June 2006 and is still going on. I will most likely be stay at home mother until Tristan goes to Kingergarden in 2010 or maybe longer if we have another kid by then.

Preston and I work at home so we rarely leave home at all for work and this works out perfect because we love to be at home with with our son, Tristan. And we never missed out Tristan's first achivement such as like when he first crawled, first walked, first said the word, first run and so on. We know there are lot of parents out there that missed out on that due to work and Daycare. Preston missed out on his Daughter's first year due to him being stationed in Sudui Abrina during the Gulf War and his late wife and daughter back in US. So he didn't want to miss out second time with his son so he stayed at home...

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deafbajagal

I'm happy to hear that you're looking to meet other parents and friends. When I stayed at home, I became isolated from family and friends. It was unhealthy. Be sure to find a support group with circle of friends who can share your parent experiences with you . You will find a lot of folks at alldeaf are really nice and will make wonderful friends. Best wishes for you and your baby girl.

Pinky678

About me. I don't have a kids yet. If I'm become a mother. I rather to stay at home mom for my new baby. My new husband wanted me to stay at home for first mom while he is at working and school. I am plan to get pregnant after my liver test result.

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webexplorer

How will you know if your husband goes out to a bar to get away from you once a while? deafbajagal is right about the comment.

Please never let him to tell you what to do. It's your life. You know taking care of a baby is a LOT of work and energy because it is just like a slave for 8 years. Actually, he should be responsible to take care of your baby when you need a break. You would not want to be in the 1960's what the mothers were slavery. Hope that helps.

Pinky678

He will not go bar without me. He prefer to stay at home and be a father. If he want to drink beer. He will drink it at home instead go to Bar. He know I don't want he to leave home go to bar. He isn't a stupid!

Haha He isn't a slave person. I like to stay at home and mom instead looking for a new job. I don't want to leave my baby to daycare and baby sitter. I don't trust! I rather be with baby at home. I have a hard to find a new job through VR. My state's economy's slow down the business. I don't want to be stress out at job and take care of baby. I don't need to be stress out. I always watch a "Supernanny" every on Wednesday at 9 Clock. We know to do.

I am lucky I never have kid during teen pregnant. I know it's not funny! I am 26 half years old now. I am ready for mother now.

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webexplorer

Oh that's good to know. Good Luck!

EvilGurl666

I'm not a Stay at home mom, but Im a full time mom/ somewhat of a full time aunt. I have my nephew during the week, while my sis and bro in law is at work. I love those kids so much fun. I'm also a single mom to my daughter.

shel90

I go to bars to get away from my hubby once in a while.

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webexplorer

Oh wow! That's you. I saw you at the bar!