Save yourself a mistake

Heath · 01-17-2006, 01:52 AM

Save yourself a mistake when you are not ready to be a father just that yet, man !!!! That is what marriage is for.

This is a clean video clip which was appropriate to put in the Parenting forum.

Funny Condom Ad
http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...387103&q=funny

Heath · 01-17-2006, 04:43 PM

Anyone see the moral of the story?

AJ · 01-17-2006, 06:28 PM

the reason no one has responded to this thread is because i already posted this video awhile ago.

http://alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=21041

and i dont really think its cool to call a child a Mistake. correct me if u meant something else by ur title.

01-17-2006, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Heath

Save yourself a mistake when you are not ready to be a father just that yet, man !!!! That is what marriage is for.

This is a clean video clip which was appropriate to put in the Parenting forum.

Funny Condom Ad
http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...387103&q=funny

I did not respond because I did not like your choice of word: M I S T A K E

No kid is ever a mistake so you better change your thinking!

AJ · 01-17-2006, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemtun

I did not respond because I did not like your choice of word: M I S T A K E

No kid is ever a mistake so you better change your thinking!

exactly. children arent mistakes. and children arent just for marriages, i know a woman who has 3 funny, beautiful children and she's not married. and i KNOW she doesn't view them as mistakes.

01-17-2006, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemtun

No kid is ever a mistake.....

Except Heath..

Can we say Broken Condem?

AJ · 01-17-2006, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by apathrev

Except Heath..

Can we say Broken Condem?

Broken condem and 4 bottles of Jack Daniels

IcedTeaRulz · 01-17-2006, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Heath

Anyone see the moral of the story?

Beg for our attentions?

IslandGal · 01-17-2006, 07:01 PM

I have two little girls and sure they give me a bit hard time sometimes but I NEVER call them my mistakes. Heath, how would you feel if your parents viiewed you as a mistake? Give it some thought when you look at the title that you made for this thread.

IcedTeaRulz · 01-17-2006, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ButterflyGirl

I have two little girls and sure they give me a bit hard time sometimes but I NEVER call them my mistakes. Heath, how would you feel if your parents viiewed you as a mistake? Give it some thought when you look at the title that you made for this thread.

Good point...

Nancy · 01-17-2006, 08:25 PM

I don't think any child on this earth is a "mistake"....they all are here for a reason.

Cheri · 01-17-2006, 08:41 PM

While I am agreeing with others here about no child is a mistake. I have two beautiful boys that I never think of them as a mistake, their father is a mistake, I choose the wrong guy but I never regret having my children. They're the joy of my life, wouldn't give them up for anything in the world even marriage. Marriage is for two people that are meant to be together for eternity. I'm not marrying the the father of my children when there is no love for us at all and never will be.

Heath · 01-18-2006, 01:39 AM

Maybe I did not make myself clear.

The child did not make any mistake. The child is innocent and at no fault.

The man in the video clip is wishing he did not make that life changing mistake.

If you will notice the grocery store is full of ladies shopping for food and he is the only guy there with no wife by his side.

Now I understand why no one said anything because I thought that was a really good video clip with a good moral story. Thank you very much.

mlkshkgrl · 01-18-2006, 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Heath

Maybe I did not make myself clear.

The child did not make any mistake. The child is innocent and at no fault.

The man in the video clip is wishing he did not make that life changing mistake.
If you will notice the grocery store is full of ladies shopping for food and he is the only guy there with no wife by his side.

Now I understand why no one said anything because I thought that was a really good video clip with a good moral story. Thank you very much.

Maybe Im just missing your point. What was his life changing mistake?

Heath · 01-18-2006, 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by mlkshkgrl

Maybe Im just missing your point. What was his life changing mistake?

He got a girl pregnant out of wedlock and did not marry her then have a baby together in the married bedroom as he was supposed to. The condom ad seems to be targeted at single people and they are forgetting about what God has to say on the issue of marriage. The condom ad makers would have been more responsible in airing their television commericals if it was targeted towards the married couple's market. I am positive the t.v. commericals would be alots different if it was marketed to the married couple's market too as well. The condom ad makers......... " un-consiciously " showed the moral of the story and I wanted to point that out in an environment of good church teachings illustrating the moral of the story.

Cheri · 01-18-2006, 04:47 AM

I don't need you to teach me anything Heath, You're not my dad, You're not my God, You're not my mentor. If you believe in marriage, Good for you. I don't have to follow your footsteps and I sure do not want to lecture by you either. Thank-you and please do get a life, and stop worrying about others.

Heath · 01-18-2006, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Cheri

I don't need you to teach me anything Heath, You're not my dad, You're not my God, You're not my mentor. If you believe in marriage, Good for you. I don't have to follow your footsteps and I sure do not want to lecture by you either. Thank-you and please do get a life, and stop worrying about others.

Cheri, I never said I was your father or anything like that. I am just replying to mlkshkgrl's post and there was no need for the outrage okay? I am not worried about the anothers, I just stated what I needed to say and left it at that for people to make a good and informed decisions. I think you are the one in need of getting a life for yourself and I hope & pray a good life for yourself.

Cheri · 01-18-2006, 04:56 AM

You know what? I'm putting you on block.

Heath · 01-18-2006, 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Cheri

If that was true, How come you were banned so many times and I wasn't banned at all since 2003?

Cheri , You are blind to your own anger.

Let me highlight my words in blue....You told me this in your own words highlighted in red....

You said...

please do get a life

I said....

you are the one in need of getting a life for yourself and I hope & pray a good life for yourself.

Finally, I may not have the world's best conversation skills. That is because I am a man, okay?

Many of the bans were un-called, in my opinion. There were a few legitimate bans that were called for.

I am sure the moderator resents you rubbing your arrogancy and lack of respect for authority in front of him in this thread.

diehardbiker · 01-18-2006, 08:28 AM

AMEN!!!

Heath, you may not realize that 55% of all marriages ended up divorce, so whats the point of marriage? I am not joking about the statistic, Divorce usually are the worst on children than those who never married and walks off.

I wanted to add this, I never married and I have my beautiful 4 years old son. Any regrets? Hell NO! Without my son, my life won't be this good! After I found out I will become father, I kicked my lazy sorry ass and started move by getting job and get my act together. Is this a mistake? I think it would be mistake if I never had child to begin with! Now, that I have Cheri and she got her own 2 sons, I had NO problem with that! That is because I had my own son too. So whats the deal? I have no plan to dump my beautiful son, this is NOT gonna to happen!

Wait til your 70 years old and you will see what I am talking about!

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Originally Posted by Cheri

While I am agreeing with others here about no child is a mistake. I have two beautiful boys that I never think of them as a mistake, their father is a mistake, I choose the wrong guy but I never regret having my children. They're the joy of my life, wouldn't give them up for anything in the world even marriage. Marriage is for two people that are meant to be together for eternity. I'm not marrying the the father of my children when there is no love for us at all and never will be.

Heath · 01-18-2006, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by diehardbiker65

AMEN!!!

Heath, you may not realize that 55% of all marriages ended up divorce, so whats the point of marriage? I am not joking about the statistic, Divorce usually are the worst on children than those who never married and walks off.

I wanted to add this, I never married and I have my beautiful 4 years old son. Any regrets? Hell NO! Without my son, my life won't be this good! After I found out I will become father, I kicked my lazy sorry ass and started move by getting job and get my act together. Is this a mistake? I think it would be mistake if I never had child to begin with! Now, that I have Cheri and she got her own 2 sons, I had NO problem with that! That is because I had my own son too. So whats the deal? I have no plan to dump my beautiful son, this is NOT gonna to happen!

Wait til your 70 years old and you will see what I am talking about!

DB, What you don't realize is that marriage in the old days were close to 100% and the divorce rate was almost just 0.01 % . It is worse for the children wheter the parents are married or not.

There are many good reasons, not only Biblically & Morally but also what the U.S. Government has to offer for marriage, taxes for one... things like that and it is good you are a working man. I am too. I also noticed that being a father and having no job is a social and a public shame than if a man was single and had no job. I never said anything about dumping children ... that is crazy , man !!! I do not need to wait until I am 70 years old to see what you are talking about. Remember, I am an uncle to many kids and it is not easy especially with the money situation. okay man? Also, a family is a gift from God to the man.

AJ · 01-18-2006, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Heath

He got a girl pregnant out of wedlock and did not marry her then have a baby together in the married bedroom as he was supposed to. The condom ad seems to be targeted at single people and they are forgetting about what God has to say on the issue of marriage. The condom ad makers would have been more responsible in airing their television commericals if it was targeted towards the married couple's market. I am positive the t.v. commericals would be alots different if it was marketed to the married couple's market too as well. The condom ad makers......... " un-consiciously " showed the moral of the story and I wanted to point that out in an environment of good church teachings illustrating the moral of the story.

children can still be wild even if the two people are married when they have the child u are a moron Heath, a complete senseless, obtuse moron.

and thats using my nice voice....i should pm u and let u know what i really think about u. that way i wont get banned.

Heath · 01-18-2006, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by AJ

children can still be wild even if the two people are married when they have the child u are a moron Heath, a complete senseless, obtuse moron.

and thats using my nice voice....i should pm u and let u know what i really think about u. that way i wont get banned.

No pm and you can speak your mind here. You would be very ashamed of yourself if you did meet me in real life. You got it all wrong here.

AJ · 01-18-2006, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Heath

No pm and you can speak your mind here. You would be very ashamed of yourself if you did meet me in real life. You got it all wrong here.

son if i met u in real life i would beat ur face in because of half the things uve said. and i cant say what i want to say in here because that would break a lot of rules of AD and i would get banned. and ur not worth getting banned over. i already got a warning because of u.

and why are u scared of a pm from me?

01-18-2006, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by AJ

son if i met u in real life i would beat ur face in because of half the things uve said. and i cant say what i want to say in here because that would break a lot of rules of AD and i would get banned. and ur not worth getting banned over. i already got a warning because of u.

and why are u scared of a pm from me?

Heath · 01-18-2006, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by AJ

son if i met u in real life i would beat ur face in because of half the things uve said. and i cant say what i want to say in here because that would break a lot of rules of AD and i would get banned. and ur not worth getting banned over. i already got a warning because of u.

and why are u scared of a pm from me?

I am not scared of a pm ... you are baiting here.

Nobody likes to get pm or in the mail or e-mail something negative and that is why I said No.

You are very negative. I will speak my mind.

You may find you got your face kicked in because of what you are saying here. I do not even talk like that to any one here or in real life. If I don't like somebody. Don't talk to them or just make some thing more clear. Kicking somebody's ass does not always do a whole alots of good.

You got a warning because of yourself. Not me. You are responsible for your own actions. I am not responsible for you.

AJ · 01-18-2006, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by mld4ds

lol whats that for?

01-18-2006, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by AJ

lol whats that for?

You exactly knew what I was laughing....

AJ · 01-18-2006, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Heath

I am not scared of a pm ... you are baiting here.

Nobody likes to get pm or in the mail or e-mail something negative and that is why I said No.

You are very negative. I will speak my mind.

You may find you got your face kicked in because of what you are saying here. I do not even talk like that to any one here or in real life. If I don't like somebody. Don't talk to them or just make some thing more clear.

You got a warning because of yourself. Not me. You are responsible for your own actions. I am not responsible for you.

no i want to talk this out and i too want to speak my mind but we arent going to do it here. because one of us is gonna get banned for talking this crap in AD. and if u respected AD, and u respected the members of AD u would hash this out with me in PM so no one had to see it.

01-17-2006, 01:52 AM	#1 (permalink)
Heath Banned Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 7,959	Save yourself a mistake Save yourself a mistake when you are not ready to be a father just that yet, man !!!! That is what marriage is for. This is a clean video clip which was appropriate to put in the Parenting forum. Funny Condom Ad http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...387103&q=funny

01-17-2006, 07:01 PM	#9 (permalink)
IslandGal Registered User Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Sunshine State Posts: 4,224	I have two little girls and sure they give me a bit hard time sometimes but I NEVER call them my mistakes. Heath, how would you feel if your parents viiewed you as a mistake? Give it some thought when you look at the title that you made for this thread. __________________ PM me for more info on The HOTTEST New Thing in Candles.

01-17-2006, 08:41 PM	#12 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: All I wanted was a white knight with a good heart, soft touch, fast horse, ride me off into the sunset Posts: 20,231	While I am agreeing with others here about no child is a mistake. I have two beautiful boys that I never think of them as a mistake, their father is a mistake, I choose the wrong guy but I never regret having my children. They're the joy of my life, wouldn't give them up for anything in the world even marriage. Marriage is for two people that are meant to be together for eternity. I'm not marrying the the father of my children when there is no love for us at all and never will be. __________________

01-18-2006, 04:47 AM	#16 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: All I wanted was a white knight with a good heart, soft touch, fast horse, ride me off into the sunset Posts: 20,231	I don't need you to teach me anything Heath, You're not my dad, You're not my God, You're not my mentor. If you believe in marriage, Good for you. I don't have to follow your footsteps and I sure do not want to lecture by you either. Thank-you and please do get a life, and stop worrying about others. __________________

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01-17-2006, 04:43 PM	#2 (permalink)
Heath Banned Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 7,959	Anyone see the moral of the story?

01-17-2006, 06:28 PM	#3 (permalink)
AJ yamn dankees Join Date: May 2003 Location: florida Posts: 3,341	the reason no one has responded to this thread is because i already posted this video awhile ago. http://alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=21041 and i dont really think its cool to call a child a Mistake. correct me if u meant something else by ur title.

01-17-2006, 08:25 PM	#11 (permalink)
Nancy Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Central FL Posts: 2,291	I don't think any child on this earth is a "mistake"....they all are here for a reason.

01-18-2006, 01:39 AM	#13 (permalink)
Heath Banned Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 7,959	Maybe I did not make myself clear. The child did not make any mistake. The child is innocent and at no fault. The man in the video clip is wishing he did not make that life changing mistake. If you will notice the grocery store is full of ladies shopping for food and he is the only guy there with no wife by his side. Now I understand why no one said anything because I thought that was a really good video clip with a good moral story. Thank you very much.