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Old 10-24-2005, 02:56 AM   #1 (permalink)
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NEVER EVER leave your kid.....

.. alone in a car!!!,

even if you are going to be gone just for just a second!! This one second is enought to get your child abducted along with your car being stolen.

I watched bit's of today's news from Washington in disbelief- a lady left her baby (son, I think) fastened in the car seat AND with the keys in and the car running!!! and just " dashed to some toy's store to ask if they have what she's looking for".

It was enough for someone to stole the car with her child inside.
She spent agonizing 90 minutes before her baby was returned to her.
I was too late to see the particulars but never mind,
for heavens sake , in this age and day who ever leaves a child unattended anywhere, and for cripes sake in a running car at that ????
She and her baby were so lucky!

NEVER EVER THINK ABOUT IT !!! take your child with you even if removing it from car takes longer than the task at hand.


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Old 10-24-2005, 05:39 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Of course it's parent's responsibly to make sure their baby's safe.
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Old 10-24-2005, 06:02 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I've seen parents leavin' their kids in their car soo many times.... mostly at the parkin' lots. Sometimes, one of the parents stay with their kids while the other parent went inside the store to pick up somethin'.

Sometimes, I've seen some mothers yelled at her kids for playin' with their car -- like for instance : mothers sometimes forgot to set the brake on otherwise, kids will play with steerin' wheel by pullin' the shift or automatic in reverse and the car will hit other car in the rear.

Never hit/ or yell at the kids - it's the parents' responsibility, not the kids'. Take up their own responsibility or pay their own penalities.
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Old 10-24-2005, 07:42 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Word Audiofuzzy!

Also when its hot outside I've seen babies died from heat stroke because temperature inside the vehicle was 130 degrees, it doesn't matter if it's 80 degrees or 90's outdoors, the car gets hotter fast. (even if the windows are down alittle)

I've seen most babies trapped in the car seat while mother or father run a quick errand. I have report on a vehicle that left a baby in the back seat alone, I went in the store and told them to call the police. They should know better than that, You cannot leave any child in the car alone not for a minute, not for a second because all those seconds could meant your child's life.
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Old 10-24-2005, 07:55 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Aside from the car being stolen... kids can suffer the high heat if it's sunny outside. One guy left his kid in the car while he went out in the woods. The kid died.
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Old 10-24-2005, 08:05 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I've seen most babies trapped in the car seat while mother or father run a quick errand. I have report on a vehicle that left a baby in the back seat alone, I went in the store and told them to call the police. They should know better than that, You cannot leave any child in the car alone not for a minute, not for a second because all those seconds could meant your child's life.
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Yes you doing right to protect babies. I would do the same if I see babies alone in the car because it's unsafety condition to leave them alone in the car.
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Old 10-24-2005, 08:06 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I've seen parents leavin' their kids in their car soo many times.... mostly at the parkin' lots. Sometimes, one of the parents stay with their kids while the other parent went inside the store to pick up somethin'.

Sometimes, I've seen some mothers yelled at her kids for playin' with their car -- like for instance : mothers sometimes forgot to set the brake on otherwise, kids will play with steerin' wheel by pullin' the shift or automatic in reverse and the car will hit other car in the rear.

Never hit/ or yell at the kids - it's the parents' responsibility, not the kids'. Take up their own responsibility or pay their own penalities.
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Yes, exactly that's what I say that it's parent's responsibly to make sure their babies to be safety.
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Old 10-24-2005, 10:08 AM   #8 (permalink)
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I just can't image leaving my own kids in car alone!!! That is a BIG FAT Disaster among kids can happen in no time!!! One second is TOOOOOO LONGGGGG!!!


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.. alone in a car!!!,

even if you are going to be gone just for just a second!! This one second is enought to get your child abducted along with your car being stolen.

I watched bit's of today's news from Washington in disbelief- a lady left her baby (son, I think) fastened in the car seat AND with the keys in and the car running!!! and just " dashed to some toy's store to ask if they have what she's looking for".

It was enough for someone to stole the car with her child inside.
She spent agonizing 90 minutes before her baby was returned to her.
I was too late to see the particulars but never mind,
for heavens sake , in this age and day who ever leaves a child unattended anywhere, and for cripes sake in a running car at that ????
She and her baby were so lucky!

NEVER EVER THINK ABOUT IT !!! take your child with you even if removing it from car takes longer than the task at hand.


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Old 10-24-2005, 10:16 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I'm so against those parents out there who leaves their children in the car while they're shopping....It's makes me real mad, cause anything could happen when you're not around....

As what Cheri had said above is true, the child could die in the result of overheat in a car during a hot weather.....

I have seen many, yet I don't let them get away with it! I say something about it....

If you see a child alone in the car, don't be scare to say something, cause you're saving the child's life is what important than minding your own business...
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Old 10-24-2005, 10:59 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I always go to Serve gas station if i'm alone w/ kids. I always bring kids w/ me even for a min or more. For my safety and caution.
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Old 10-24-2005, 05:47 PM   #11 (permalink)
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One time I saw a car parked at a shopping center with two young children inside, alone. They were playing with matches and incense sticks. I calmly said to them that playing with fire is not safe. Then I said, "Can I have the matches please?" So they gave me the book of matches. Then I started going into the store. Suddenly, the mom showed up, and ran after me, yelling. She said, "Why did you take my matches!?" I explained to her that her little children were alone in the car playing with fire (I didn't even get a chance to tell her that all kinds of other awful things could have happened to her kids, too). She demanded that I pay for the matches! So I did. I told her it was worth it to me to keep her kids safe.

Another time, I was driving thru an apartment complex and I saw a very young girl playing in the parking lot, in a puddle, all by herself. I thought that was weird. So I stopped and looked around. I thought, maybe the mom or babysitter is near by and I just don't see her. I looked and looked. No one was there. I drove up closer, opened my car door, and spoke to the girl. I asked, "Where are your parents?" She shrugged that she didn't know. I asked, "Are you supposed to talk to strangers?" She just looked confused.

I stayed with her for several minutes, talking. I was hoping someone would come running out of the building and demand what was going on. Nothing. I could have easily kidnapped the child. Finally, I parked my car and went to the girl and said, "Where do you live? Can you lead me to the apartment door?" So I followed her to apartment. It was down a hall, around a corner. I knocked at the door. A man answered the door. It was the dad. He was not concerned. He wanted to know what I wanted. I told him what happened. He got mad at me! He said, "Her mom just went to the store for a few minutes. I'm watching her. I look out the window to check on her when the commercials come on. There is no problem." I was shocked! I checked my car clock. I was outside with that girl, alone, for at least 15 minutes, and NO ONE came outside to see what happened.

All this happened several years ago, before I had a cell phone. If I had a phone, I probably would have called the police first.
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Old 10-24-2005, 05:58 PM   #12 (permalink)
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We refused leave the key in the car.. While I'm pumping the gas and leave the child in the car... When I'm ready to go pay up the gas station.. and will ask my kids, Do you want buy anything from gas store? I know My kids always get off the car and run w/me into the gas store.. to buy something cold drink..

We don't like leave the children in the car..
I've seen so many youngest children likely range babies to Toddlers. Even 8 yrs old to up are mostly stay in the car and lock the door to prevent stranger open the car door.
My children are sometimes stay in the car... While I'm get the tiny things at the variety store likely eg: Milk or bread or something.. My kids will not let open the car door for stranger..

I do not agree w/other people who leave their babies to toodler which can be happends in the car.
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Old 10-25-2005, 07:41 AM   #13 (permalink)
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One time when my son was an infant and I went out for a walk to the store with my son in his stroller. On my way home from the store. I saw an infant in the car seat inside the car just about the same age as my son was. So as soon as I got home. I called the police and reported. The next time around, I saw the same car but no baby. They know better now. Thanks goodness.

Right now my son is 9 yrs old. I can leave him in the car and leave the door lock and no talking to stranger. I can only leave him in there for not more then 10 minutes. But most of the time he will come in and find me. He missed his mom. AWWWWWWWWW!!!
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Old 10-25-2005, 07:49 AM   #14 (permalink)
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One time I saw a car parked at a shopping center with two young children inside, alone. They were playing with matches and incense sticks. I calmly said to them that playing with fire is not safe. Then I said, "Can I have the matches please?" So they gave me the book of matches. Then I started going into the store. Suddenly, the mom showed up, and ran after me, yelling. She said, "Why did you take my matches!?" I explained to her that her little children were alone in the car playing with fire (I didn't even get a chance to tell her that all kinds of other awful things could have happened to her kids, too). She demanded that I pay for the matches! So I did. I told her it was worth it to me to keep her kids safe.
Unbelievable that nonsense matches is more important to a mother than worried about her children's safety & also say a word "thank you". You doing right but I would call the police on mother because it's unsafety to leave the children alone with matches IN THE car

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Another time, I was driving thru an apartment complex and I saw a very young girl playing in the parking lot, in a puddle, all by herself. I thought that was weird. So I stopped and looked around. I thought, maybe the mom or babysitter is near by and I just don't see her. I looked and looked. No one was there. I drove up closer, opened my car door, and spoke to the girl. I asked, "Where are your parents?" She shrugged that she didn't know. I asked, "Are you supposed to talk to strangers?" She just looked confused.

I stayed with her for several minutes, talking. I was hoping someone would come running out of the building and demand what was going on. Nothing. I could have easily kidnapped the child. Finally, I parked my car and went to the girl and said, "Where do you live? Can you lead me to the apartment door?" So I followed her to apartment. It was down a hall, around a corner. I knocked at the door. A man answered the door. It was the dad. He was not concerned. He wanted to know what I wanted. I told him what happened. He got mad at me! He said, "Her mom just went to the store for a few minutes. I'm watching her. I look out the window to check on her when the commercials come on. There is no problem." I was shocked! I checked my car clock. I was outside with that girl, alone, for at least 15 minutes, and NO ONE came outside to see what happened.

All this happened several years ago, before I had a cell phone. If I had a phone, I probably would have called the police first.
Oh my dear!

My siblings & I stayed alone in the car at long hours often while our parents were in the Pub at afternoons/nights. (Accord British law, the children are not allow go in the pub until they are 18). We made ourselves crazier because we are tooo boring and play in the car... My sister damaged gear stick... It got us scared... We all received spanked from them because my sister denied it's her.

We visited family in England in 1991. My family asked us to go Pub with them. I remind them about the children (my sister's 3 little children). They said that they can stay in the car they often do that with no problem. I was like and remind her about our childhood and how we feel etc. She replied that it's problem that the children are not allow to go in the Pub - who watch her children... My hubby & I offered her to watch their children to let them to go Pub to enjoy themselves. They are offended because we can't go with them.

We visited England again in Summer 2000. My Dad & brother invited my hubby & me to go Pub with them. I remind them about my children. They said that they can stay in the car, then we can check many time whatever we like. I rejected and offered my hubby to go with them to let me to stay home with my children. My Dad aplogized and offer me & children to stay outside of Pub with them. I know the British people see okay to have children to stay in the car... British law to allow the people from 18 years old to go in the Pub but in Germany, not. The children CAN go in the pub with us.
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Old 10-25-2005, 07:52 AM   #15 (permalink)
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I was in Florida with my sister...
and she, me, and her baby were in car in garage...

She forgot something and went back in the house...

She left the car running and the garage door was still closed.

I quickly turned off the car....
and fussed at my sister to don't do that again...

because me and the baby would have die monoxide poison...

I can't believe my sister was so stupid and careless.
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This is what I saw on the news and I am glad the baby is safe:

http://kutv.com/topstories/local_story_297232430.html
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What a story you got there, I cannot believe how parents can be so upright stupid! They have no business having kids the first place when they are not being responsible for the safely of their own children.
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Don't get me wrong, I learned from my mistakes.. my car was parked in the driveway at home.. that time my daughter turned 1.. i put her in a carseat and buckled her up.. and had my car running with the a/c on.. i forgot something in the house so i ran inside and right back out.. i found that i locked my keys in the car with my daughter in it..(it was like 100 F outside) i freaked out and got scared, i didn't have an extra key to get the car door open.. so i called the sheriff and got him to come and unlock the door.. he couldn't do it so he called the locksmith and was going to charge me 50 dollars.. i was like.. fine.. i deserved it! The sheriff asked me what happened, I explained to him he said okay.. make sure it don't happen again.. never never never again i leave my kid in the car for 2 seconds... the locksmith felt bad for me and didn't charge me for it... I was soo shook up.. about to have a nervous breakdown..
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i've always seen parents leave their kids in car to pay gas inside.. this is why i have credit card so i can pay at the pump...
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Old 10-25-2005, 05:48 PM   #20 (permalink)
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i've always seen parents leave their kids in car to pay gas inside.. this is why i have credit card so i can pay at the pump...

Me too.. I have seen parents do that.. But not me.. I have BP, Citgo, Sheetz and Exxon gas credit card to pay without leaving my kid in car.
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>>We all received spanked from them because my sister denied it's her.<<


It was your parents who deserved proper spanking for leaving you poor kids alone, bored, unatteneded. while they, oh they were having fun guzzling beer or whatever.. but sure, you were bad kids... NOT !!! grrrrrrr

My post was about the baby stolen with a running car but I seen on TV cases when the babies and even older children were stolen from a car. the abductors broke in and took the child, left the car.
The parenst returned and...
no amount of grief and sorry will bring back stolen child. hardly ever happens..

What if something like that happened to you? it could have .. thanks God it didn't..

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Ps - thanks for the link about the baby. it's not the same story, but.. similar, isn't it..
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>>We all received spanked from them because my sister denied it's her.<<

It was your parents who deserved proper spanking for leaving you poor kids alone, bored, unatteneded. while they, oh they were having fun guzzling beer or whatever.. but sure, you were bad kids... NOT !!! grrrrrrr
Yeah, I know what it is this... We do like this very often...

Of course I'm not an angel when I was a kid...
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I had similar situation only mere 2 weeks ago....

but the twist is a puppy was involved... no drinking water the poor thing was panting like crazy so i saw part of the window open and i didnt give a fuck so i opened the door YES I DID i rather goto jail than see a puppy die....

So gave the poor thing water and the water bowl was gone in 3 seconds so kept on pouring water until the dog was satasifed. and got some dog food i managed to get, and he ate it just fine. (yes a boy puppy) so wrote a nasty note on thw window sheild took the dog with me and drove that puppy up to rainbow santcuary and notified the securty what i had done and told the cops.. they got a 250 bucks fine for leaving dogs in a hot weather in a car for more than 3 hrs how i know?? they were in the movies where i worked. I was RILED up...

So not just babies don't leave your animals in the car! if u need to go in town to do errands best yet leave ur pup at home let them damage shit there and not find it dead in a car.
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You're correct Javapride, counting animals as well should not to be left in the car. I watched animal planet and I've seen some cases which animals been neglect in cars, with no water and food. I also have seen dogs being left in the car alone, It's like this why bring a dog along with you if you going to leave the dog in the car expertly when it's hot outside? Dogs have fur they get hot easier, and they can also die just like a baby would from heat stroke.
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My hubby has learn his lesson first time.. I've warn him don't let Rogue stay in the car bit too long due not nice weather day.. When we went to the beach.. I kept paronid and panic worried sick hell lotsa about my precouisly Rogue..
Took 20 minutes swimming.. I told my children and my hubby, Has to go now.. They were not happy w/me.. and kept ingore me.. so I decide take walk back to my car... *spotted Rogue laid on the floor* I *banging* on the window.. but no respond.. I knew it.. I was so hysterically uncontrol... and ran to the beach and grabbed my car key.. My hubby spotted me... he knew something wrong.. and decide join w/me.. I rushed straight to my car and open the door.. I gave Rogue lot of water.. pour on her body 100% must COOL DOWN.... My hubby shock and saw me what am I doing w/Rogue..
He was kind scared and bent his knee down *say sorry really big time* I kept ignore my hubby for long hours.. I took focus on Rogue... I'm glad she is still alive... and already seen her tongue turns into purple.. Return our campsite... I refused talk w/my hubby for another long hours... I kept eye on Rogue no matter what... All I know British Bulldogs has short breath, beaks, chest broad and shorter.. isn't same type other dogs. So I kept giving her water every 10 minutes change water.. Rogue went back normal and wild play.. Finally I'm glad... and unexpected my hubby gave me YELLOW ROSES.. meaning he really deep apgolise me hell looks real seriouis.. I say okay and gave him hug.. Do not ever again let Rogue stay in the car, repeatly what I said to my hubby.

I hate seeing dogs stay in the car... made me goosebumps and paronid instant!
I cannot afford losing bulldogs which it's very expensive! *shivers*

I'm glad, take my dogs along w/us and goes to dog beach only... no more go normal beach.. All I want let my dogs have fun swim beach.. *chuckles*

Dogs as condiser part of children simlair.. as same CHILDREN!
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