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06-14-2008, 02:24 AM
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I post, therefore I am
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oh dear.. stick that joke with j(cla)oker please. (:
sorry,... deaf hitman? dixie, believe me I used to do that and now sometimes I'm not so good at that when am so down that I eventually had to gave myself up. today I wasn't feeling great, crummy, no energy and depressed. who cares. anyone would sharpen their horns as much as they want to. I've just given up fighting back.
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06-14-2008, 02:35 AM
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06-14-2008, 04:19 PM
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they give you poop, you go boom boom. they go bye bye. |
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06-14-2008, 04:29 PM
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What really disturbs me is just because someone is deaf doesn't mean a person needs to raise her/his voice louder to expect a deaf person to hear.
Back in the old days someone I once knew asked me "If I talk loud can they hear me?" and I said "no, If a deaf person doesn’t understand you while talking slowly then get a paper and pen" ..  Freckles- I'm sorry you had such a bad day, dont let these kind of people bother you. I guess their parents didn't teach them any manners.. 
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06-14-2008, 04:33 PM
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I post, therefore I am
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ha poop, boom, bybye ... how so wish I. I think picking out black jigsaws out of their hearts would be easier. no crime. you're right, thanks angel. |
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06-14-2008, 10:51 PM
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Burn fat off your soul
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anyway being deaf does surely sux, I am a grad student, its so hard with out a much needed interaction, hearing students have it all for granted, and no I'm not doing deaf studies as I think it's too narrow minded. Try explaining deafness as a disability these days to what is now dominated by a poliically correct dogma saying 'deaf are not dumb' but need sign language yet, the pubilc reacts and gives us the total opposite !! they THNKS we ARE dumb and they by well and large still havent got a clue about the problems of being d/Deaf. I know what ? i reckon we ought to rage agains the 'supercrip' mentality I mean deaf people DO NOT need to get over our 'handicapps' the bloody hearing should start stop being selfish, the list can go on and on like i dont wanna repeat what you all would say, but yep Id say this once, EVEN the so -called 'understanding' hearing freinds ASSUMED they KNOW more about my understanding of deaf problems, they ALWAYS talk about how other deaf people have done well!! this sort of bullshit has to go... ...being deaf does suck...just because we cant hear - it doesnt mean we dont know... that's the nutshell of hearie's inability to listen !!! %#%*()%&%*(@&*(&@$#*(@ sorry my rant |
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06-14-2008, 10:55 PM
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06-14-2008, 10:57 PM
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Yea, I hate it when hearing people assume that they know what it is like to be deaf and compare me to other deaf people who have done better. Excuse me!!! Geez!
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06-14-2008, 11:08 PM
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06-14-2008, 11:13 PM
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06-14-2008, 11:52 PM
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06-15-2008, 03:37 AM
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I guess sometimes being " hearing " sucks. They don't even know how to say " I love you " in hand signing like deaf people do. Pssh -- Oh, oh only interpreters can do better with their certification/or license.
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06-15-2008, 03:48 AM
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I am sorry that she did that. If you acted like that at your job, you would be fired. I am not hateful or vendictive, and I don't want you to do anything but forgive her, but still, if you say nothing, she will continue to wound innocent people with her nasty attitude. The next Deaf person that she does that to might not be as nice and lose their temper, so you might be doing her a favor by saying something to her now, via a note, or going to her boss. Court house ethics require confidentiality and professionalism. Your taxes pay her wages. You don't have to be mean, and you need to forgive her for your own sanity, but you still don't have to let it go un-noticed. You noticed it. It hurt you,. You have a right to let her know. Good luck. I will shut up now. |
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06-15-2008, 04:16 AM
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06-15-2008, 07:29 AM
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Burn fat off your soul
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in politics, theres no room for forgiveness, just plain hard truth and truth be won. dont give them an inch. in other words dont be so naive, i mean how you can go saying I love you when you know it' so shitty in being deaf in the hearing dominated society?
Deaf politics is extremely limited, it done us hardly any favours except giving a means to enact interpreters as a viable professional careers, limited room for sign language tutors, and teacher's aides (even teachers) and schools for the deafs receiveing an 'appropriate' policy facelift which it meant to quieten us down. indeed it sux to be deaf, hearing people once again says 'you have all this now' its not so bad, pure bollocks |
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06-15-2008, 10:31 AM
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06-15-2008, 11:20 AM
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*chuckles*.. bottesini, I'll live with it. dreamchaser, thanks for 'butting' in, interesting reply. curious, have you read my post #11? and of course I would forgive if she understood what she did. as william blake says, it is easier to forgive an emeny than to forgive a friend. right now she's my emeny until fate says so. athina, sorry if my riflings have offended you. I never though |
good idea august, after I use it for myself then maybe you can help with the rest if any bullets left. 
while I know people could be just nasty as can be, I stood there dumbfounded. then she did it again. so third time I had the paper, I landed the pen down on paper, pushed it over to middle of the counter and left it there so she'd not do it again. she started yelling at me, GIVE ME THE PEN! I shook my head, no, YOU pick it up, you grabbed twice and that wasn't very nice. she chuckled (or scoffed) and looked around at her co-workers then gave me a stare - give...me...the...pen now (with it right under her fingers!)
(at least the icon does it for me because I don't).