i'm sad

Southern · 08-20-2007, 01:05 PM

lot of stuff going on. blah

**Phillips** · 08-20-2007, 01:30 PM

aww.. its happen to me few days ago too !! but I am fine now!

Hope you should get new a day and happy by tomorrow

Roadrunner · 08-20-2007, 01:33 PM

There are days when the sun doesn't shine, hopefully on these days, your friends, relatives and even family will be 'there', whether with rapport or showing significant support. Just hang in there--and surely, once again, you'll be able to >>>

once again.

~RR

Sunshine1 · 08-20-2007, 02:28 PM

I'm sorry to hear you're sad. Care to explain what's happening?

I think your tractor is sexy!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Southern

lot of stuff going on. blah

jillio · 08-20-2007, 03:25 PM

Sorry you're feeling sad, southern. Some days just suck!

ZiNg31 · 08-20-2007, 03:52 PM

Same here. maybe go walk by the park or something has have beautiful view that could help to have a great relax. Watching stars at night sitting on top of ur car would be great.

I need to do that today too... no jobs' calling me for hire yet.

**Jolie77** · 08-20-2007, 04:09 PM

I know how that feels when you're down in the dumps. Sometime you can brush it off but sometime you can't. All you can do is just hang in there and try the best as you can. There are days that are wonderful but there are days that are not so great. Keep your chin up and you'll be all right.

PlateCafe · 08-20-2007, 05:16 PM

Go out and do something...anything. Go see a funny movie. Or talk with some friends, go out for coffee or a drink.
Try not to think about being sad and get busy.

moonflower · 08-20-2007, 05:52 PM

aww i am sorry that you are sad

i was feeling down too because of the raining weather bleh!!
when it start to clear up i need to do something little more cheerful

Canuckian_Chick · 08-20-2007, 08:46 PM

Hang in there, when it rains it pours but it doesn't last too long... Tomorrow is a new day, just finish up today and be glad it's over for today!!! smile... it's not gonna be forever just a short time... You aren't alone!!!

Southern · 08-21-2007, 10:36 AM

Thanks everyone!
Well lets see. My sister moved out after 2 years of living together. It was supposed to be at the end of the month but she and her husband found a place and had to move right then to get the place so it was abrupt. They moved in like a day. That was two weeks ago. Then some stuff happened with my boyfriend and he isn't going to move in with me to the new apt. AAAAHHHHH so my finances are thrown for a complete loop!!! I have an apt i can barely afford and i don't know if i will have all the money for when rent comes. Not to mention i have to move on 09/08/07 and we all know how stressfull a move is. Add to that i am leaving an apt i love for one i don't care for. This weekend.... i broke up with my boyfriend. so much yuck!! i am very blah. I need to go out and get tore up!! But i am being responsible and keeping my budget tight so going out and getting tore up is not an option. BLAH BLAH BLIGITY BLAH!!!!

jillio · 08-21-2007, 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Southern

Thanks everyone!
Well lets see. My sister moved out after 2 years of living together. It was supposed to be at the end of the month but she and her husband found a place and had to move right then to get the place so it was abrupt. They moved in like a day. That was two weeks ago. Then some stuff happened with my boyfriend and he isn't going to move in with me to the new apt. AAAAHHHHH so my finances are thrown for a complete loop!!! I have an apt i can barely afford and i don't know if i will have all the money for when rent comes. Not to mention i have to move on 09/08/07 and we all know how stressfull a move is. Add to that i am leaving an apt i love for one i don't care for. This weekend.... i broke up with my boyfriend. so much yuck!! i am very blah. I need to go out and get tore up!! But i am being responsible and keeping my budget tight so going out and getting tore up is not an option. BLAH BLAH BLIGITY BLAH!!!!

Wow! When it rains it pours, huh? Hang in there. Southern. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and things will work out.

Raykat · 08-21-2007, 02:53 PM

Hey Southern, sorry yr having a bad time, can understand with the finances, been there, done that so many times, and lost count of house moving events.
And breakups, they always seem like the end of the world at the time.

However, not to belittle your woes, just to put them in perspective, I'll tell you whats been happening to me this year. My son got married in March, his wife had a baby girl in June and 3 weeks later, after a perefect birth, son's wife died of blood clot thru the heart. She had just turned 23, my son is 27 and now has a baby girl to raise on his own. So now my grandaughter has no mother and my sons life as he knew it is no more.

Hang in there and things will get better with time.

jillio · 08-21-2007, 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Raykat

Hey Southern, sorry yr having a bad time, can understand with the finances, been there, done that so many times, and lost count of house moving events.
And breakups, they always seem like the end of the world at the time.

However, not to belittle your woes, just to put them in perspective, I'll tell you whats been happening to me this year. My son got married in March, his wife had a baby girl in June and 3 weeks later, after a perefect birth, son's wife died of blood clot thru the heart. She had just turned 23, my son is 27 and now has a baby girl to raise on his own. So now my grandaughter has no mother and my sons life as he knew it is no more.

Hang in there and things will get better with time.

Oh, wow! my condolences! What a tough time for your son, and for you as well.

**deafskeptic** · 08-21-2007, 03:16 PM

I'm really sorry and my heart goes out to you, Raykat and Southern.

***VamPyroX*** · 08-21-2007, 06:33 PM

Cheer up!

That's what friends are for.

If there's no one around to do anything with, do something that you enjoy... the mall, games, movies, whatever...

Deafilmedia · 08-21-2007, 07:06 PM

Southern...

Is that all?

Don't you know you are so bless?

My friend just left after she told me her experience in Africa.
She went there to do missionary.

And she said the Africans in poor terrain...

She slept on the floor with 10 other people, men and women in a small
hut and they have no doors or windows, bugs and creepy crawlers
come in and out of the hut.

And she only had bucket of water... and can't take a bath,
only use babywipers she brought from USA
and wipe her face and chest.
And they have no towel and no soap and no tub.

And small hospital.

And children don't wash their hands... some have sores on their
hands and one white man got so sick after touching the children, cause he didn't get all of his shots he suppose to get before going to Africa.

And they don't use toliet paper... they only use a hole to pee and poop.
and of course people there don't wash their hands.

And also women there have to do what men tell them to do...
they can't go anywhere without the Chief or men permission.

And also... they rely on corns.

And Chief got 3 wives.

Children after they turned 3, they go wild... their mother and father
ignored them...
Mothers only care for babies... but ignored children.

And we AMERICANS are so SPOIL.

And you only complain about

1. sister moved out
2. boyfriend won't move in and you break up with him
3. and money you lost

We are such wimp... why do we whine over nothing?

Thank God we don't live like that in Africa.

**Phillips** · 08-21-2007, 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Deafilmedia

Southern...

Is that all?

Don't you know you are so bless?

My friend just left after she told me her experience in Africa.
She went there to do missionary.

And she said the Africans in poor terrain...

She slept on the floor with 10 other people, men and women in a small
hut and they have no doors or windows, bugs and creepy crawlers
come in and out of the hut.

And she only had bucket of water... and can't take a bath,
only use babywipers she brought from USA
and wipe her face and chest.
And they have no towel and no soap and no tub.

And small hospital.

And children don't wash their hands... some have sores on their
hands and one white man got so sick after touching the children, cause he didn't get all of his shots he suppose to get before going to Africa.

And they don't use toliet paper... they only use a hole to pee and poop.
and of course people there don't wash their hands.

And also women there have to do what men tell them to do...
they can't go anywhere without the Chief or men permission.

And also... they rely on corns.

And Chief got 3 wives.

Children after they turned 3, they go wild... their mother and father
ignored them...
Mothers only care for babies... but ignored children.

And we AMERICANS are so SPOIL.

And you only complain about

1. sister moved out
2. boyfriend won't move in and you break up with him
3. and money you lost

We are such wimp... why do we whine over nothing?

Thank God we don't live like that in Africa.

Whoa.... you re hard humorous

Southern · 08-22-2007, 08:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Deafilmedia

Southern...

Is that all?

Don't you know you are so bless?

My friend just left after she told me her experience in Africa.
She went there to do missionary.

And she said the Africans in poor terrain...

She slept on the floor with 10 other people, men and women in a small
hut and they have no doors or windows, bugs and creepy crawlers
come in and out of the hut.

And she only had bucket of water... and can't take a bath,
only use babywipers she brought from USA
and wipe her face and chest.
And they have no towel and no soap and no tub.

And small hospital.

And children don't wash their hands... some have sores on their
hands and one white man got so sick after touching the children, cause he didn't get all of his shots he suppose to get before going to Africa.

And they don't use toliet paper... they only use a hole to pee and poop.
and of course people there don't wash their hands.

And also women there have to do what men tell them to do...
they can't go anywhere without the Chief or men permission.

And also... they rely on corns.

And Chief got 3 wives.

Children after they turned 3, they go wild... their mother and father
ignored them...
Mothers only care for babies... but ignored children.

And we AMERICANS are so SPOIL.

And you only complain about

1. sister moved out
2. boyfriend won't move in and you break up with him
3. and money you lost

We are such wimp... why do we whine over nothing?

Thank God we don't live like that in Africa.

You showed your ability to count, look at you. Thats special. Please actually read what i wrote though, that would be even more special. I didn't breakup with my boyfriend because he won't move in with me. We had already planned to, which is why i got the more expensive place. Some actions on his part caused that not to go through. Some other actions on his part caused me to break up with him. He is not a member of this site, so i will not put his business out like that. Also i never said i lost money. All of these things together made me sad. Yeah it is not "Africa" sad but here is the thing. A lot of what you state here is from an American perspective. They don't know about toilet paper so why would they care about it. They aren't sad about it. Cheif having 3 wives, what is sad about that? That is normal for their culture. You are puting your view on them and saying oh how sad for them. Just like so many hearing people looking at Deafies and saying oh they are so sad. No not really. And you paint all of Africa like this, when ALL of Africa, the whole continent is not like that......

moonflower · 08-22-2007, 09:47 AM

oh no i am sorry i hope everything will be ok later on just hang there ok
hugs

**Dixie** · 08-22-2007, 12:46 PM

Aww :hugs: Southern. Its feeling quite rough isnt it mate? I wish I knew how to to cheer you up and make you laugh, bu alas I cant think of anything funny to say. It hurts more though when youve made big plans for the future with your partner then boom all of it bottoms out and nothing to do about it except stik with your guns about what you believe is the right thing to do.

I personally find listening to som Savage Garden or Darren Hayes tracks tends to lift me up, even if only momentarily. If you need someone to talk to - you know Im only a PM away.

Southern · 08-22-2007, 02:21 PM

Thanks Dixie girl. Well first day i was listening to Nina Simone alot. I love her, and she is so mornful. Then it went to Limp Bizkit and Korn and such. I am better today thanks. just keep truckin and i will be out of this funk in another day or two. =)

Canuckian_Chick · 08-22-2007, 02:29 PM

hang in there Southern, be glad you know about it now then too late... most important thing is BE YOURSELF... smile

DeafSCUBA98 · 08-22-2007, 11:29 PM

dude.. i feel ya.. i'm in same sitution right now with finicially problem pretty much going on the same as urs. I'm now thinking of moving.. to an affordable place and start a new budget and so forth... hang in there.. once you get everything straighten out.. and smooth.. the future will be bright.

Buffalo · 08-24-2007, 06:29 AM

Hang on.... this will pass.

Freaky Cat · 08-24-2007, 08:51 AM

ur not the only one who is sad.. i am sad too.. due to my dog mac passing away, moving back to my moms and divorce.. basically everything.. it sucks.. i know it will pass.. i just gotta be patient.. gonna share a quote with you..

"Worry looks around, sorry looks back, Faith looks up."

so chin up and it will be ok..

jillio · 08-24-2007, 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Freaky Cat

ur not the only one who is sad.. i am sad too.. due to my dog mac passing away, moving back to my moms and divorce.. basically everything.. it sucks.. i know it will pass.. i just gotta be patient.. gonna share a quote with you..

"Worry looks around, sorry looks back, Faith looks up."

so chin up and it will be ok..

Awww, freaky cat, I'm sorry. Seems like this has been a hard summer for several ADers.

**RedheadGrrl** · 08-25-2007, 06:52 PM

aww southern

how are u doing right now? Hang in there. I wish you alot of luck!

As for me, I am so sad is that I will have to say good bye to my house (that I am living in right now) that was given to me by my aunt who died back in 2002. I am the third generation in my house. It is time for me to move to a new place. Alot of memories with the house. Will miss my long time neighbors. They knew me since 1970. I will live and move to a new life. I always will visit them.

jillio · 08-25-2007, 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RedheadGrrl

aww southern

how are u doing right now? Hang in there. I wish you alot of luck!

As for me, I am so sad is that I will have to say good bye to my house (that I am living in right now) that was given to me by my aunt who died back in 2002. I am the third generation in my house. It is time for me to move to a new place. Alot of memories with the house. Will miss my long time neighbors. They knew me since 1970. I will live and move to a new life. I always will visit them.

Ahhh,that's so hard when you have to leave people and places you love. But think of the exciting new friends you will make!

**RedheadGrrl** · 08-25-2007, 11:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jillio

Ahhh,that's so hard when you have to leave people and places you love. But think of the exciting new friends you will make!

Yea it is. Right now, I am so down and so sad but I will be alright and will handle it. Yes I will make new friends and make a new life with my furkid.

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ZiNg31 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Somewhere in USA Posts: 1,222	Same here. maybe go walk by the park or something has have beautiful view that could help to have a great relax. Watching stars at night sitting on top of ur car would be great. I need to do that today too... no jobs' calling me for hire yet. __________________

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08-20-2007, 03:25 PM	#5 (permalink)
jillio Banned Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 60,296	Sorry you're feeling sad, southern. Some days just suck!

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PlateCafe Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 180	Go out and do something...anything. Go see a funny movie. Or talk with some friends, go out for coffee or a drink. Try not to think about being sad and get busy.

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moonflower Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 5,762	aww i am sorry that you are sad i was feeling down too because of the raining weather bleh!! when it start to clear up i need to do something little more cheerful

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Canuckian_Chick Registered User Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Ontario (I'm a Proud Canadian) Posts: 863	Hang in there, when it rains it pours but it doesn't last too long... Tomorrow is a new day, just finish up today and be glad it's over for today!!! smile... it's not gonna be forever just a short time... You aren't alone!!! __________________ Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love Truly, Laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you Smile.

08-21-2007, 10:36 AM	#11 (permalink)
Southern Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 646	Thanks everyone! Well lets see. My sister moved out after 2 years of living together. It was supposed to be at the end of the month but she and her husband found a place and had to move right then to get the place so it was abrupt. They moved in like a day. That was two weeks ago. Then some stuff happened with my boyfriend and he isn't going to move in with me to the new apt. AAAAHHHHH so my finances are thrown for a complete loop!!! I have an apt i can barely afford and i don't know if i will have all the money for when rent comes. Not to mention i have to move on 09/08/07 and we all know how stressfull a move is. Add to that i am leaving an apt i love for one i don't care for. This weekend.... i broke up with my boyfriend. so much yuck!! i am very blah. I need to go out and get tore up!! But i am being responsible and keeping my budget tight so going out and getting tore up is not an option. BLAH BLAH BLIGITY BLAH!!!! __________________ He thinks my tractor's sexy

08-21-2007, 02:53 PM	#13 (permalink)
Raykat Registered User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Auckland New Zealand Posts: 277	Hey Southern, sorry yr having a bad time, can understand with the finances, been there, done that so many times, and lost count of house moving events. And breakups, they always seem like the end of the world at the time. However, not to belittle your woes, just to put them in perspective, I'll tell you whats been happening to me this year. My son got married in March, his wife had a baby girl in June and 3 weeks later, after a perefect birth, son's wife died of blood clot thru the heart. She had just turned 23, my son is 27 and now has a baby girl to raise on his own. So now my grandaughter has no mother and my sons life as he knew it is no more. Hang in there and things will get better with time. __________________ I'd rather be deaf than brain dead www.pindrop.org.nz

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deafskeptic Premium Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 14,512	I'm really sorry and my heart goes out to you, Raykat and Southern. __________________ Left ear implanted with Med-El on April 24 2007. Activated on May 9th. Upgraded to Opus 2 9/10/2010 Think Pink. FREE JILLIO!

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*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: 40.18, 58.41 Posts: 34,146	Cheer up! That's what friends are for. If there's no one around to do anything with, do something that you enjoy... the mall, games, movies, whatever... __________________ Check out my city... C L I C K H E R E! (If you've already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

08-21-2007, 07:06 PM	#17 (permalink)
Deafilmedia Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1,579	Southern... Is that all? Don't you know you are so bless? My friend just left after she told me her experience in Africa. She went there to do missionary. And she said the Africans in poor terrain... She slept on the floor with 10 other people, men and women in a small hut and they have no doors or windows, bugs and creepy crawlers come in and out of the hut. And she only had bucket of water... and can't take a bath, only use babywipers she brought from USA and wipe her face and chest. And they have no towel and no soap and no tub. And small hospital. And children don't wash their hands... some have sores on their hands and one white man got so sick after touching the children, cause he didn't get all of his shots he suppose to get before going to Africa. And they don't use toliet paper... they only use a hole to pee and poop. and of course people there don't wash their hands. And also women there have to do what men tell them to do... they can't go anywhere without the Chief or men permission. And also... they rely on corns. And Chief got 3 wives. Children after they turned 3, they go wild... their mother and father ignored them... Mothers only care for babies... but ignored children. And we AMERICANS are so SPOIL. And you only complain about 1. sister moved out 2. boyfriend won't move in and you break up with him 3. and money you lost We are such wimp... why do we whine over nothing? Thank God we don't live like that in Africa.

08-22-2007, 09:47 AM	#20 (permalink)
moonflower Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 5,762	oh no i am sorry i hope everything will be ok later on just hang there ok hugs

08-22-2007, 12:46 PM	#21 (permalink)
Dixie May I be found in Him Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 13,266	Aww :hugs: Southern. Its feeling quite rough isnt it mate? I wish I knew how to to cheer you up and make you laugh, bu alas I cant think of anything funny to say. It hurts more though when youve made big plans for the future with your partner then boom all of it bottoms out and nothing to do about it except stik with your guns about what you believe is the right thing to do. I personally find listening to som Savage Garden or Darren Hayes tracks tends to lift me up, even if only momentarily. If you need someone to talk to - you know Im only a PM away. __________________ Oh, you will. It is all a dream and since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, the dreams must be real in all their myriad forms. -Beowulf This Delicate Thing God Has Made *The world is measured in peasants; smaller than a unicorn but, bigger than a tidbit!*

08-22-2007, 02:21 PM	#22 (permalink)
Southern Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 646	Thanks Dixie girl. Well first day i was listening to Nina Simone alot. I love her, and she is so mornful. Then it went to Limp Bizkit and Korn and such. I am better today thanks. just keep truckin and i will be out of this funk in another day or two. =) __________________ He thinks my tractor's sexy

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08-24-2007, 06:29 AM	#25 (permalink)
Buffalo Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 4,025	Hang on.... this will pass.

08-24-2007, 08:51 AM	#26 (permalink)
Freaky Cat Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Central ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,221	ur not the only one who is sad.. i am sad too.. due to my dog mac passing away, moving back to my moms and divorce.. basically everything.. it sucks.. i know it will pass.. i just gotta be patient.. gonna share a quote with you.. "Worry looks around, sorry looks back, Faith looks up." so chin up and it will be ok..

08-25-2007, 06:52 PM	#28 (permalink)
RedheadGrrl Premium Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 4,827	aww southern how are u doing right now? Hang in there. I wish you alot of luck! As for me, I am so sad is that I will have to say good bye to my house (that I am living in right now) that was given to me by my aunt who died back in 2002. I am the third generation in my house. It is time for me to move to a new place. Alot of memories with the house. Will miss my long time neighbors. They knew me since 1970. I will live and move to a new life. I always will visit them.

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