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Old 04-04-2004, 10:05 PM   #121 (permalink)
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Old 04-05-2004, 11:44 AM   #122 (permalink)
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Old 04-05-2004, 06:57 PM   #123 (permalink)
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Old 04-16-2004, 11:04 AM   #124 (permalink)
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Old 04-16-2004, 11:47 AM   #125 (permalink)
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Old 04-16-2004, 11:49 AM   #126 (permalink)
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Old 04-16-2004, 01:10 PM   #127 (permalink)
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Old 04-16-2004, 06:17 PM   #128 (permalink)
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I am not "proud" of it cuz I know what I am missing; however, I am not disgusted, either. It just IS.
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Old 06-03-2004, 12:00 PM   #129 (permalink)
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Old 06-05-2004, 03:27 PM   #130 (permalink)
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I am not "proud" of it cuz I know what I am missing; however, I am not disgusted, either. It just IS.
Well what's wrong with being proud of something? I see deaf/hoh pride as akin to being proud of being Irish, Portugese, French or whatever. It's all about celebrating difference! I mean I am certainly proud that I am not one of those soccer mom bland suburban types where everything is average or the same.
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Old 06-05-2004, 04:25 PM   #131 (permalink)
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I am not "proud" of it cuz I know what I am missing; however, I am not disgusted, either. It just IS.

Me too.. Im a lil proud of it but I really know what I'm missing and I hate it. But at the same time, I love being with deaf people more than I do hearing people, so I'm in, for now
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Old 06-05-2004, 08:29 PM   #132 (permalink)
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Pinkster, fair enough, you go, girl!

And, sigh.....Deafdyke, nothing wrong about being proud of anything; I said I'm not proud of being HoH AND I explained that its because I know what I'm missing AND that I'm not disgusted/angry/fekked up/ad infinitum over being deaf. What I said BELONGS to me, capise? This isn't a discussion, the topic's asking ya to just tell how YOU feel, so flake off, ok?
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Old 06-06-2004, 12:23 AM   #133 (permalink)
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Jeeze Tousi who lit the fuse on your tampon? I was just commenting for crying out loud! I don't really think of myself as missing anything...you might as well say that women are missing the experiance of being a man, or GLB folks are missing the experiance of being hetrosexual, or black, Asian and other racial minorities are missing out on the experiance of being white.
Seriously...how do you know that hearing is really all it's cracked up to be? Sure being deaf/hoh isn't the greatest thing in the world....but it's far from a tragedy. If hair cell regeneration became possible and you opted for it and it worked , you might realize after the fact that being dhh wasn't too bad after all. Sound and hearing are overrated!
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Old 06-06-2004, 01:17 AM   #134 (permalink)
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Tampon???? Ummm, maybe a sex change is something that makes you gush at the possibilities, but not this guy! Furthermore, for you to say that I, as a guy, am missing the experience of what its like to be a woman doesn't wash here.

Then you say that being deaf isn't the greatest thing in the world---isn't that what I said? You also say its far from a tragedy. Where did I say it was? If you said you swell with pride as some do, what's with the waffling?

And as far as my saying that I know what I'm missing, well...you are just gonna hafta trust me on that. If ya don't , I say, "Burglefickle".

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Old 06-07-2004, 12:56 PM   #135 (permalink)
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Old 06-07-2004, 01:02 PM   #136 (permalink)
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@ Deafdyke and 'Tousi!! you guys so funnieeee!!
Well as for me, i guess i dont mind being deaf (I guess) but it is a fawkin hassle and frustration at times, i wish more than anything in the world, even it is just for one day, i would LOVE to hear!! and see whats it like to be able to hear everything!!..
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Old 06-08-2004, 11:35 PM   #137 (permalink)
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Old 06-09-2004, 12:01 AM   #138 (permalink)
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Old 06-09-2004, 12:05 AM   #139 (permalink)
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Old 06-09-2004, 07:25 PM   #140 (permalink)
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I can be proud of my deafness as long its emphasized in a responsible demeanor. It's a turnoff when people use deafness as an excuse to conduct ad homenum smear campaigns, chidlish squabbling, and other immature activities.

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Old 06-11-2004, 11:53 PM   #141 (permalink)
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Old 07-06-2004, 09:07 PM   #142 (permalink)
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I don't know what is it that's "pride in deafness." Deafness can be difficult to live with at times, so I don't think it's all what it's cracked up to be. I can get a goodnight sleep, such as on July 5th a thunderstorm at 3 am, told by mom, but I didn't hear it.

I am not sure that I can say it's something to be proud of or excited about. It's just deafness, but I accept it and live with it as I have it, but to rave about it? What's to rave about it....exactly?
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Old 07-06-2004, 10:15 PM   #143 (permalink)
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Old 07-06-2004, 11:42 PM   #144 (permalink)
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Old 07-07-2004, 12:22 AM   #145 (permalink)
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Deafness can be difficult to live with at times, so I don't think it's all what it's cracked up to be. I can get a goodnight sleep, such as on July 5th a thunderstorm at 3 am, told by mom, but I didn't hear it.
So? Many of my GLB friends say that being GLB is extremely difficult. Yet many of them are proud about it. Being deaf or hoh isn't easy....but neither is being a woman, being black, being anything in this society but a middle class white guy.
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Well I am the queen of hearing aids. Have always loved them, even when I was a little kid and first got them. (a lot of little kids hate them when they first get theirs) I love being able to hear....but I also love being deaf...and I am damn proud of it. Some of my friends are proud of their heritiges....it's the same way with being dhh.....some of my friends are proud to be blind or proud to be in wheelchairs or proud to be GLB or proud to be female and so on.
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but to rave about it? What's to rave about it....exactly/
We can choose to listen or not. You have NO idea how many of my hearing friends have told me that they wish they could turn off their hearing the way I do (I am and have been notorious for turning my hearing aids off on people)
We don't have to hear things like thunder or be scared by fire engines or if someone plays music we hate we can just turn our aids or CIs off. Being able to hear RAWKS....but being able to be deaf is just as good as being hearing!
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Old 07-08-2004, 03:49 PM   #146 (permalink)
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I do have the idea that some hearing people want to turn off their hearing. They don't have any clue what things they take for granted. I am sure if they were deaf for a day or a week or a month, they'd want to go back. I feel some weights lifted off my shoulder as part of my CI. It's an improvement. Still, I don't know what it is to rock on about deafness. I feel weird going long periods of time without hearing. I feel weird going anywhere without my CI.

It's fine if you like it, but I also have my own point of view. Ain't nothing wrong with my views. What does GLB, dhh...what do they mean? Is dhh +deaf hard of hearing?

The director of disability office at my college uses a powered wheelchair. Biking accident, married to a wife that walks and has children. He rocks about his chair and his disability, even has a frame of the statue of liberty in a wheelchair and the wheelchair barbie. It shows he's adapted well, but when it comes to reading a poem of his--he does express some of his frustrations.
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Old 07-08-2004, 08:40 PM   #147 (permalink)
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I don't know what is it that's "pride in deafness." Deafness can be difficult to live with at times, so I don't think it's all what it's cracked up to be. I can get a goodnight sleep, such as on July 5th a thunderstorm at 3 am, told by mom, but I didn't hear it.

I am not sure that I can say it's something to be proud of or excited about. It's just deafness, but I accept it and live with it as I have it, but to rave about it? What's to rave about it....exactly?
Exactly. I agree. Everyday, I realize that I miss out on some things by being deaf. Hearing people take their hearing for granted, and YES, I agree, if they went a week or so without hearing, they'd want to go back. There are hassles that go along with being deaf, such as having to go through hearing test procedures, speech lessons, etc, but it's stuff that I am willing to work on to be able to communicate better with the hearing world. I still would give ANYTHING to be able to have normal hearing, and be able to talk to people on the phone instead of having to use relay, text messaging, etc etc.

Of course it is one advantage to be able to turn off my hearing aid if I don't want to hear something, but that is a VERY rare thing because I hardly turn my aid off. I love sounds. That's just one advantage compared to the numerous advantages that hearing people have.
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Old 08-17-2004, 12:23 AM   #148 (permalink)
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Old 08-21-2004, 09:18 PM   #149 (permalink)
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yeah i am i don't need cochlear implant and to keep my good health that god kept us being that way to love ourselves because of his loveness, joyness, and faithfully to our heart and have our heart give to hearing people who sometimes are not good heart same with defeating against evil deaf people's heart don't need to listen to evil hearing or deaf people. love whoever u are not what your body is. so be happy with you being deaf no matter what.
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Old 08-24-2004, 02:49 AM   #150 (permalink)
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