MintyOreo
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I'll try to keep this post short and sweet
My parents keep talking about ridiculous things. My mother keeps saying that I cannot:
~ learn how to drive (The doctors would "never" sign the papers for me.)
~ finish high school (How can I go to school if I can't hear? Yet, Deaf school isn't an option to her...)
~ go to college (Again, how can I go if I can't hear? And no college would accept a deaf student.)
~ get married (No good man is going to want a deaf wife.)
~ start a family (If I can't hear my kids, I can't be a parent. And heaven forbid that I pass on my deafness to my children!)
And more!
I think all of that is really stupid. I can do all of that, and more! There's no reason why I cannot.
What should I say to my parents to help them to understand that being deaf does not mean that the world will end and that I CAN have a very good future? I've tried to talk to her MANY times about it, but she just won't listen to reason. She is convinced that my life (and hers) is ruined.
My deafness is NOT new by any means, by the way. I have had hearing loss since I was a very young child. But I have become increasingly deaf, and now I am really deaf. I'll be completely deaf by the time I am an adult. My parents just don't understand what being deaf means, and they won't listen to reason.
My parents keep talking about ridiculous things. My mother keeps saying that I cannot:
~ learn how to drive (The doctors would "never" sign the papers for me.)
~ finish high school (How can I go to school if I can't hear? Yet, Deaf school isn't an option to her...)
~ go to college (Again, how can I go if I can't hear? And no college would accept a deaf student.)
~ get married (No good man is going to want a deaf wife.)
~ start a family (If I can't hear my kids, I can't be a parent. And heaven forbid that I pass on my deafness to my children!)
And more!
I think all of that is really stupid. I can do all of that, and more! There's no reason why I cannot.
What should I say to my parents to help them to understand that being deaf does not mean that the world will end and that I CAN have a very good future? I've tried to talk to her MANY times about it, but she just won't listen to reason. She is convinced that my life (and hers) is ruined.
My deafness is NOT new by any means, by the way. I have had hearing loss since I was a very young child. But I have become increasingly deaf, and now I am really deaf. I'll be completely deaf by the time I am an adult. My parents just don't understand what being deaf means, and they won't listen to reason.