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    Updates about my new interpreter

    I wish you the best :)
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    My first time

    Yesterday I had a Dr's appointment & for the first time in my life I had to use an interpreter... I was both so scared & relieved at the same time... See I used to be the interpreter, so for me to have to sit there & watch her, was very hard for me. I was scared that maybe I wasn't getting...
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    Hearing people who are attracted to deaf people

    Before I lost most of my hearing, I was attracted to Deaf women because of the fact that I wanted to learn all I could about the deaf. I was studying ASL at the time & I thought what better way to learn than from the deaf...ok maybe not the best way, but I learned a lot from the deaf not just...
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    Why Dogs Tails are Docked!

    I can understand why some people would want to dock their dog's tails...I do not agree with it & I would never have it done, but I understand where they are coming from.
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    How do you explain a complicated past love life to your SO?

    Yesterday is a canceled check & tomorrow is a promissory note; So all we have is today. Enjoy it while you can. :D
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    How do you explain a complicated past love life to your SO?

    This is how I see a person's past. if it happened before you knew me, I really do not care bout it. it was before me so there is nothing I can do about it, and so what is the point of bringing it up? HOWEVER, If something from your past has carried over to the present & possibly future...
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    What would you do??

    what you are describing are the precursors to a very serious problem... The way I see it, you have 2 choices....stay or go. period. Everything else falls in behind that. Now my opinion is this: If you stay with him for the kids' sake, the kids(both of them) are the ones who will end up...
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    Need your advice and feedback

    I took an oath years ago, to not let the *cough*idiots of this world get me down. my attitude on life is this: This is me, this is who I am. If you like me & want to be my friend, Great! If not, that's ok too. Either way, I refuse to lose any sleep over it.
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    Need your advice and feedback

    Yes it will hurt for a long time...but this way, you are not dwelling on it needlessly. The more power you take away from whatever causes you pain, the less it will hurt. Eventually, the pain will cease to exist.
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    Just letting folks know....

    That's ok, we'll forgive you this time....but just this one time.:cool2::lol:
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    Boy do I feel stupid

    In many cases, the hearing world thinks that just because they can hear, that alone makes them superior to us that are deaf or HOH...which is B.S. IMO. this is a mistake that anyone can make, hearing or deaf. my take on this? OOOOOPS! fumble.:cool2:
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    Need your advice and feedback

    I just thought about something... now is a time to celebrate & PARTY! PARTY!! PARTY!!! :lol: Think of all the parties you can have from now on with less stress & more fun!! YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSssssssss!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:
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    Happy Thanksgiving!!!

    I'm sorry if my message came across as less than respectful to you or to Christians in general, that is not how I meant it to sound. The way I was raised, it IS a Christian Holiday...or maybe that's just what my family wanted me to believe... But I like the way you define...
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    Need your advice and feedback

    :hmm: Some times it is better to let it go & find new friends. Regardless of what the reason why you were not invited, what they did was rude & it was their way of saying that you are not welcome with them any more. My advice is to put this all behind you & have nothing more to do with the...
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    Happy Thanksgiving!!!

    Being Muslim, I do not celebrate Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, or any of them "Christian" Holidays... But that does not mean I am not thankful. My Friend Lucy, drove from Maryland to Indiana(about 750 miles one way)to get me away from my ex wife. 10 days after I got here, I ended up in...
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