LawStudent
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So the man I have been with for almost a year now, gradually pulled away. He went from asking me to move in, to telling me he just wanted to be friends. The final straw? He told me he would prefer I didn't tell people I am hearing. Yet, I am hearing, and perfectly comfortable with being a hearing woman. He literally got mad at me for telling people I am hearing, or using the phone, or turning my voice on to talk to the waitress. What started out so great, really ended up a big flop. Come to find out he has been sleeping around. Makes the whole mess even more humiliating.
My question for you in this community.... How do I establish my own identity and not just always be "his" girl. Every event I go to people ask where he is, or if a man hits on me someone else comes up to inform the man that I am taken. It is like I do not have my own name, I'm just "his". Great Tempted to pull away from the friends I love because I am so sick of the constant questions about him.......
How do you deal in such a small community with every one knowing everything?
My question for you in this community.... How do I establish my own identity and not just always be "his" girl. Every event I go to people ask where he is, or if a man hits on me someone else comes up to inform the man that I am taken. It is like I do not have my own name, I'm just "his". Great Tempted to pull away from the friends I love because I am so sick of the constant questions about him.......
How do you deal in such a small community with every one knowing everything?