Does that fact that Ashton Kutcher cheated make him less hot?

VacationGuy234 · 11-23-2011, 09:11 AM

There are a lot of posts about man's infidelity. Yes, women do it too, but the over all consensus is that men do it more(although, I don't believe this). Now, rather than go into this double standard, I'm curious, does it make the person less attractive or more attractive? For example, given that Ashton Kutcher has cheated on his wife, does that make him less attractive to women or does it make him more attractive?

AlleyCat · 11-23-2011, 09:57 AM

1) anyone who cheats is less hot.

2) Ashton Kutcher? Don't give a darn about him.

PowerON · 11-23-2011, 10:06 AM

There is many story that we don't know how or what it cause that individual lead to cheat because wife may piss him off or just mistook of something...

whatdidyousay! · 11-23-2011, 10:46 AM

I don't really think about the guy , he is cute but I always like men 10 years older than me when I was in my 20's. I found older men to be sexier, they are more sure of themselves .

StevieMont927 · 11-23-2011, 10:53 AM

Regardless of his reasons to cheat, it's not acceptable. In regards to looks, knowing he's willing to cheat, he's less hot. I wouldn't go out with a guy like that.

***naisho*** · 11-23-2011, 11:07 AM

Unless you personally have a problem with Ashton cheating, which is a different story, I feel the woman (or man) who sees him as hot sees it differently.

They don't decide it as the ultimate factor. Cheated, cheating, will cheat doesn't make them any less desirable. Would a man looking for an escort think any less of her for having slept with multiple men? Men who are interested in escorts are certain types of men in the first place. Not all men would look for one.

**Banjo** · 11-23-2011, 11:13 AM

Well, it isn't really any of our business... but I got the impression that their relationship had turned toxic and stayed that way for a good while.

Frisky Feline · 11-23-2011, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Banjo

Well, it isn't really any of our business... but I got the impression that their relationship had turned toxic and stayed that way for a good while.

Good thinking, banjo!

**sallylou** · 11-23-2011, 11:43 AM

Women and men both cheat about the same. It's a stereotype that men cheat more. Doesn't matter if someone is "hot" because he's just eye candy to me. lol

Kitten · 11-23-2011, 11:53 AM

For me, Ashton Kutcher, still hot. But then again, I don't know him, nor am I married to him.

VacationGuy234 · 11-23-2011, 01:13 PM

Interesting answers. Perhaps hot is too strong a word for the title, it probably should be attractive. Still, do our perceptions of attractiveness change based on how a person acts?

From a guys perspective, I'm not sure that anything a woman does can make her less desirable(sad to say). Although, sometimes we do think twice about how much we want to be involved(to our credit).

But, women think differently than men and I wonder if emotionally something like cheating makes a difference in how attractive they see a man.

**sallylou** · 11-23-2011, 01:23 PM

I hate to break this to you but women don't think much differently than men. It's not like women are a separate species. Did you grow up with girls? You seem like you haven't been around many females. That tends to create an air of mystery about very ordinary things. My hubby grew up with all brothers. He had some funny ideas about girls and women. Now, he's over that. lol

VacationGuy234 · 11-23-2011, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by sallylou

I hate to break this to you but women don't think much differently than men. It's not like women are a separate species. Did you grow up with girls? You seem like you haven't been around many females. That tends to create an air of mystery about very ordinary things. My hubby grew up with all brothers. He had some funny ideas about girls and women. Now, he's over that. lol

Not different? Really? I think the women I've been around are quite different. Perhaps I'm just lucky enough to have found the rare ones.

I hope your husband is doing better now.

**sallylou** · 11-23-2011, 01:30 PM

Hubby is doing great. We've been married 20 years and still going.

**shel90** · 11-23-2011, 08:00 PM

I think he is sexy but if he did cheat on Demi, then his actions arent sexy.

**sallylou** · 11-23-2011, 08:11 PM

The celebrities that stay married are the exception rather than the rule. Maybe it's their lifestyle?

FadedRose · 11-23-2011, 08:13 PM

It makes him less attractive at least to me. I have a large amount of disdain for anyone that cheats. It's ok to look and it's human but to touch? That's a no, no. There are countless men I've met that I found rather attractive but did I ever act on the urge to ruin my marriage? No. Why? I love my husband and self control.

It's easy to avoid just don't do it. Why is it so hard for people to keep their hands to themselves?

**shel90** · 11-23-2011, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by sallylou

The celebrities that stay married are the exception rather than the rule. Maybe it's their lifestyle?

My aunt managed to stay married to my uncle despite their celebrity lifestyle. She said it was very very hard with the fans chasing after him.

**sallylou** · 11-23-2011, 08:16 PM

I'll bet. Being apart while one person is working and traveling is really hard, too.

FadedRose · 11-23-2011, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by sallylou

The celebrities that stay married are the exception rather than the rule. Maybe it's their lifestyle?

I would say yes. The lifestyle is quite tempting.
regardless though the person should have some self control.
why that's lacking is beyond me. No matter how attractive a person is to me it's easy to just say no. Maybe that's because I'm a woman but I'm pretty sure if I were a man and married I'd be the same.

I'm old fashioned, very old fashioned with it comes to marriage. Til death to us part really is the deal. Regardless of how bad it ever gets a deal was made and I plan to uphold it.

Why can't others do the same? Keep the snake in the pants...christ.

**shel90** · 11-23-2011, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by sallylou

I'll bet. Being apart while one person is working and traveling is really hard, too.

Oh yea..it was hard on my aunt. Before they had kids, she was able to join him to Philly during the baseball season but once they had kids and they started going to school, she had to stay behind. Also the groupies were so aggressive towards my uncles and the other players. So much temptation but still..no excuse if they are married.

**Jiro** · 11-23-2011, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

My aunt managed to stay married to my uncle despite their celebrity lifestyle. She said it was very very hard with the fans chasing after him.

they're celebrities? what kind?

FadedRose · 11-23-2011, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

My aunt managed to stay married to my uncle despite their celebrity lifestyle. She said it was very very hard with the fans chasing after him.

Glad to hear they made it work!

FadedRose · 11-23-2011, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

they're celebrities? what kind?

I was going to ask but I didn't want to be rude.
My thinking is if she wanted to share she'd share. If I ever met a celebrity online or off it'd be between me and that person but that's just me.

Ya beat me to it!

***naisho*** · 11-23-2011, 08:20 PM

Remember, Shel's uncle is that baseball dude.. Not Joe DiMaggio but someone else..

I forgot the name

**shel90** · 11-23-2011, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jiro

they're celebrities? what kind?

My uncle used to play for the Phillies in the 80s. He played with Pete Rose and Mike Schimit and they went to the World Series.

**sallylou** · 11-23-2011, 08:22 PM

Maybe the reason that some people can control themselves is because they realize the value of what they already have? When you have a good marriage, you don't want to mess that up with an affair.

**shel90** · 11-23-2011, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaspheth

Glad to hear they made it work!

Yea, they have been married for 32 years now.

their younger son just got married 2 weeks ago.

**Jiro** · 11-23-2011, 08:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by naisho

Remember, Shel's uncle is that baseball dude.. Not Joe DiMaggio but someone else..

I forgot the name

lol ok. my friend is related to Joe Dimaggio. and the highway in NYC that I commute on everyday is named after him.

Quote:

Originally Posted by shel90

My uncle used to play for the Phillies in the 80s. He played with Pete Rose and Mike Schimit and they went to the World Series.

ah yes the baseball player.

**shel90** · 11-23-2011, 08:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by naisho

Remember, Shel's uncle is that baseball dude.. Not Joe DiMaggio but someone else..

I forgot the name

Ozzie Virgil Jr. His father also played pro baseball as well..same name but with Senior.

11-23-2011, 09:11 AM	#1 (permalink)
VacationGuy234 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 2,800	Does that fact that Ashton Kutcher cheated make him less hot? There are a lot of posts about man's infidelity. Yes, women do it too, but the over all consensus is that men do it more(although, I don't believe this). Now, rather than go into this double standard, I'm curious, does it make the person less attractive or more attractive? For example, given that Ashton Kutcher has cheated on his wife, does that make him less attractive to women or does it make him more attractive?

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PowerON Registered User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: 37.5, 126.9 Posts: 10,328 Blog Entries: 5	There is many story that we don't know how or what it cause that individual lead to cheat because wife may piss him off or just mistook of something... __________________ • [Illustrator.Blog-alloon.com] • Don't shoot me! I'm only blogger!

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StevieMont927 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: I live near Los Angeles, California Posts: 336	Regardless of his reasons to cheat, it's not acceptable. In regards to looks, knowing he's willing to cheat, he's less hot. I wouldn't go out with a guy like that. __________________ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "This above all: To thine own self be true."

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sallylou Potterhead and Janeite Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: My own private Idaho Posts: 6,653	Women and men both cheat about the same. It's a stereotype that men cheat more. Doesn't matter if someone is "hot" because he's just eye candy to me. lol __________________

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sallylou Potterhead and Janeite Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: My own private Idaho Posts: 6,653	I hate to break this to you but women don't think much differently than men. It's not like women are a separate species. Did you grow up with girls? You seem like you haven't been around many females. That tends to create an air of mystery about very ordinary things. My hubby grew up with all brothers. He had some funny ideas about girls and women. Now, he's over that. lol Buffalo likes this. __________________

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11-23-2011, 09:57 AM	#2 (permalink)
AlleyCat Registered User Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: In my time zone Posts: 10,809	1) anyone who cheats is less hot. 2) Ashton Kutcher? Don't give a darn about him.

11-23-2011, 10:46 AM	#4 (permalink)
whatdidyousay! Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 8,617	I don't really think about the guy , he is cute but I always like men 10 years older than me when I was in my 20's. I found older men to be sexier, they are more sure of themselves .

11-23-2011, 11:07 AM	#6 (permalink)
*naisho* Forum Disorders M.D.,Ph.D Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: 127.0.0.1 Posts: 6,162	Unless you personally have a problem with Ashton cheating, which is a different story, I feel the woman (or man) who sees him as hot sees it differently. They don't decide it as the ultimate factor. Cheated, cheating, will cheat doesn't make them any less desirable. Would a man looking for an escort think any less of her for having slept with multiple men? Men who are interested in escorts are certain types of men in the first place. Not all men would look for one.

11-23-2011, 11:13 AM	#7 (permalink)
Banjo Expelled Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 11,650	Well, it isn't really any of our business... but I got the impression that their relationship had turned toxic and stayed that way for a good while.

11-23-2011, 11:53 AM	#10 (permalink)
Kitten Registered User Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 92	For me, Ashton Kutcher, still hot. But then again, I don't know him, nor am I married to him.

11-23-2011, 01:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
VacationGuy234 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 2,800	Interesting answers. Perhaps hot is too strong a word for the title, it probably should be attractive. Still, do our perceptions of attractiveness change based on how a person acts? From a guys perspective, I'm not sure that anything a woman does can make her less desirable(sad to say). Although, sometimes we do think twice about how much we want to be involved(to our credit). But, women think differently than men and I wonder if emotionally something like cheating makes a difference in how attractive they see a man.

11-23-2011, 01:30 PM	#14 (permalink)
sallylou Potterhead and Janeite Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: My own private Idaho Posts: 6,653	Hubby is doing great. We've been married 20 years and still going. Frisky Feline likes this. __________________

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shel90 Let It Snow!!!! Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: A place where crabs are popular Posts: 40,303 Blog Entries: 3	I think he is sexy but if he did cheat on Demi, then his actions arent sexy. __________________ "Wine improves with age. The older I get, the better I like it." --- Anonymous

11-23-2011, 08:11 PM	#16 (permalink)
sallylou Potterhead and Janeite Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: My own private Idaho Posts: 6,653	The celebrities that stay married are the exception rather than the rule. Maybe it's their lifestyle? __________________

11-23-2011, 08:13 PM	#17 (permalink)
FadedRose Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 668	It makes him less attractive at least to me. I have a large amount of disdain for anyone that cheats. It's ok to look and it's human but to touch? That's a no, no. There are countless men I've met that I found rather attractive but did I ever act on the urge to ruin my marriage? No. Why? I love my husband and self control. It's easy to avoid just don't do it. Why is it so hard for people to keep their hands to themselves? VacationGuy234 likes this. __________________

11-23-2011, 08:16 PM	#19 (permalink)
sallylou Potterhead and Janeite Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: My own private Idaho Posts: 6,653	I'll bet. Being apart while one person is working and traveling is really hard, too. __________________

11-23-2011, 08:20 PM	#25 (permalink)
*naisho* Forum Disorders M.D.,Ph.D Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: 127.0.0.1 Posts: 6,162	Remember, Shel's uncle is that baseball dude.. Not Joe DiMaggio but someone else.. I forgot the name

11-23-2011, 08:22 PM	#27 (permalink)
sallylou Potterhead and Janeite Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: My own private Idaho Posts: 6,653	Maybe the reason that some people can control themselves is because they realize the value of what they already have? When you have a good marriage, you don't want to mess that up with an affair. FadedRose likes this. __________________

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