Have you ever been cheated on by your girlfriend/boyfriend?

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did you forgive and stay with them, or did you end the relationship immediately?

me- if i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me, WILL DROP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATO! can't tolerate infidelity- so if you're a cheater then stop wasting my time and move on to the next person

i believe that once a cheater, always a cheater.. that's just my opinion
 
Yes, I had an ex-girlfriend that cheated on me, sadly I thought I was "madly in love" with her so I let it slide....a couple of times :roll: Finally a friend knocked some sense in me and I left her. I won't tolerate that ever again.
 
jgwhite said:
Yes, I had an ex-girlfriend that cheated on me, sadly I thought I was "madly in love" with her so I let it slide....a couple of times :roll: Finally a friend knocked some sense in me and I left her. I won't tolerate that ever again.
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aw, i'm so sorry about that. if a person cheats on you, then it obviously means they have no respect for you

please don't ever let a girl walk all over you like that
 
yes I do but ex my gf shame and lie I remove on break time I am not trust relationship to my ex gf no more I quit Otherwise she is very silly behavior she miscommunication!
 
smithtr said:
yes I do but ex my gf shame and lie I remove on break time I am not trust relationship to my ex gf no more I quit Otherwise she is very silly behavior she miscommunication!
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you seem like a nice guy and you don't need a girl like that! she sounds very immature

*sighs* really makes me mad when i see girls who don't appreciate sweet guys :mad:
 
Ex hubby cheated on me. Yea...
 
I think so, it would explain a lot about the way in which one of my relationships ended. But I don't know for sure. I just made sure to get myself tested, just in case!
 
I never have, that I know of. I used to be judgemental of cheaters, but now I can understand that sometimes there are temptations. I would never cheat...I will break up firsthand. But ...and I can't believe I'm saying this aloud...but I'm tempted at times. Not to sound vain or anything, but I still get hit on sometimes...and I sometimes miss the intimacy, attention, and just the fact that I'm appreciated as a woman instead of being a mom or the atm dispenser. It'a nice to get compliments...but bittersweet at the same time. I deserve being slapped for feeling this way, and even more so for being open about it. But does it condone cheating? Of course not.
 
deafbajagal said:
I never have, that I know of. I used to be judgemental of cheaters, but now I can understand that sometimes there are temptations. I would never cheat...I will break up firsthand. But ...and I can't believe I'm saying this aloud...but I'm tempted at times. Not to sound vain or anything, but I still get hit on sometimes...and I sometimes miss the intimacy, attention, and just the fact that I'm appreciated as a woman instead of being a mom or the atm dispenser. It'a nice to get compliments...but bittersweet at the same time. I deserve being slapped for feeling this way, and even more so for being open about it. But does it condone cheating? Of course not.
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I still get tempted from time to time. My hubby does too. We tell each other that and then do something about it. :)

I think it is normal.
 
deafbajagal said:
I deserve being slapped for feeling this way,
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Not at all! It's normal to be attracted to various people. We can't help how we feel. What we CAN help is what we do about it, and your dedication to fidelity is admirable!
 
Thanks. On the flip side of the coin, I think my commitment to being faithful can make the person take me for granted. To me, being taken for granted is worse than being cheated on. Just my personal opinion.
 
I did the cheatin'. Hey, it's hard to be strong and handsome at young age. I got bitch-slapped for it. It wasnt a serious relationship,tho. Never had a serious relationship. :lol:
 
I am very happy because my ex gf don't bother me I am shrug I Don't care because my ex gf i am very clever blocked on cell phone and msn :lol: she is very shame because manpuite play games wrongful I am numberous her is very zero tolerance argue to me no more i quit! I wisdom watch on study find out her'sister have said no dateds I said she is very lie! she complaint I am seriou! she is very bad on mess her mind! screw up!
 
katerivera said:
did you forgive and stay with them, or did you end the relationship immediately?

me- if i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me, WILL DROP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATO! can't tolerate infidelity- so if you're a cheater then stop wasting my time and move on to the next person

i believe that once a cheater, always a cheater.. that's just my opinion
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I disagree. I cheated on first husband. Thought it was only way to get out of arranged marriage, abusive marriage, but he forgive me. Eventually left him because of abuse.

I was also cheated on. I learned what it feel like and vow never to cheat on someone again and have not.
 
rebeccalj said:
I disagree. I cheated on first husband. Thought it was only way to get out of arranged marriage, abusive marriage, but he forgive me. Eventually left him because of abuse.

I was also cheated on. I learned what it feel like and vow never to cheat on someone again and have not.
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wow that is many lie and play games! mistake! accidently something!
 
rebeccalj said:
I disagree. I cheated on first husband. Thought it was only way to get out of arranged marriage, abusive marriage, but he forgive me. Eventually left him because of abuse.

I was also cheated on. I learned what it feel like and vow never to cheat on someone again and have not.
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i understand because i have been in abusive relationships before.. they can be very scary and emotionally/mentally draining. i hope that experience has made you a stronger person today
 
smithtr said:
I am very happy because my ex gf don't bother me I am shrug I Don't care because my ex gf i am very clever blocked on cell phone and msn :lol: she is very shame because manpuite play games wrongful I am numberous her is very zero tolerance argue to me no more i quit! I wisdom watch on study find out her'sister have said no dateds I said she is very lie! she complaint I am seriou! she is very bad on mess her mind! screw up!
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screw that witch! you are better off without her.. you deserve to find a girl that makes you happy. where did you meet your ex gf?
 
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