My GF still hangs out with her ex - Page 6

PowerON · 03-09-2011, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Steinhauer

One post?

Tell her how you feel. If she makes you feel as if your being controlling and manipulative, drop her and R-U-N. Trust me, your much better off without all that drama.

that person haven't respond since Jan 30, 2011. sheesh. I claim it fake person

**Oddball** · 01-28-2012, 01:53 PM

Perhaps, you and your girlfriend need to sit down and discuss about her feelings and analyze your relationship with her. If she hangs around with her ex, then maybe your relationship may be doomed from the beginning.

I wish you good luck.

Steel X · 01-28-2012, 06:27 PM

If she goes out alone with her ex ALOT even thou she say she dont have any romantic feelings for him then...yeah, I wouldn't feel comfortable about that if I were you.

deafwelder · 01-28-2012, 08:13 PM

I went out with a hearing-impaired special-ed teacher in 2007. We were serious, but lived too far apart to see eachother during the workweek. She said she broke up with her abusive former boyfriend. She supported him somewhat and went to AA meetings with him, or just gave him a ride. They went out to dinner sometimes. After 3 or 4 months she would lie and say she was sick or busy on the weekend and for me not to come over. Eventually she simply emailed me and said she had "no feelings for me" and that she had found her soulmate.
Don't let someone drag you along, or use you for filler during rough spots in his or her relationship with somebody else.

**Cheetah** · 02-07-2012, 09:56 AM

I meet with my ex once every few months. We usually just go to lunch. this has tapered off a bit though. My girlfriend knows about this. Ive never done anything beyond talking (and eating lunch)... There is no reason I should shun her. If I was going to get back together with my ex, I would have done so a long time ago.

I'm done with being jealous and worrying all the time. If my girlfriend wants to meet with an old fling and she tells me there is nothing between them, them I'm good with that. yeah, I would be hurt if I find out later that she lied to me, but why worry about something that probably won't happen?

dereksbicycles · 02-07-2012, 11:07 AM

A lot of women that I knows from high school and college found me on Facebook. My girlfriend does not mind. She trusts me.

01-28-2012, 06:27 PM	#153 (permalink)
Steel X Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: The Carolinas/Rochester, NY. Posts: 13,824	If she goes out alone with her ex ALOT even thou she say she dont have any romantic feelings for him then...yeah, I wouldn't feel comfortable about that if I were you. ladysolitary85 likes this.

01-28-2012, 08:13 PM	#154 (permalink)
deafwelder Registered User Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: sacramento Posts: 54	move on to someone better I went out with a hearing-impaired special-ed teacher in 2007. We were serious, but lived too far apart to see eachother during the workweek. She said she broke up with her abusive former boyfriend. She supported him somewhat and went to AA meetings with him, or just gave him a ride. They went out to dinner sometimes. After 3 or 4 months she would lie and say she was sick or busy on the weekend and for me not to come over. Eventually she simply emailed me and said she had "no feelings for me" and that she had found her soulmate. Don't let someone drag you along, or use you for filler during rough spots in his or her relationship with somebody else.

02-07-2012, 09:56 AM	#155 (permalink)
Cheetah Cheetah Consulting-Closed Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 2,694	I meet with my ex once every few months. We usually just go to lunch. this has tapered off a bit though. My girlfriend knows about this. Ive never done anything beyond talking (and eating lunch)... There is no reason I should shun her. If I was going to get back together with my ex, I would have done so a long time ago. I'm done with being jealous and worrying all the time. If my girlfriend wants to meet with an old fling and she tells me there is nothing between them, them I'm good with that. yeah, I would be hurt if I find out later that she lied to me, but why worry about something that probably won't happen? __________________ The Cheetah Consulting services No request too small, no fee too large! Serving the deaf world wide since yesterday. Open daily 9 ~ 5

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01-28-2012, 01:53 PM	#152 (permalink)
Oddball Premium Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: The Toxic State Posts: 4,570	Perhaps, you and your girlfriend need to sit down and discuss about her feelings and analyze your relationship with her. If she hangs around with her ex, then maybe your relationship may be doomed from the beginning. I wish you good luck.

02-07-2012, 11:07 AM	#156 (permalink)
dereksbicycles Registered User Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: 60202 Posts: 3,808	A lot of women that I knows from high school and college found me on Facebook. My girlfriend does not mind. She trusts me.