Counseling..

04-14-2004, 01:30 AM

Have you gone to counseling?? Which kind? Did it help? You do not need to say what problems you have, but explain if these counseling actually work for you or not.

Angel · 04-14-2004, 02:05 AM

Good Thread Deaf258!...

I've never had counseling in my life...but I was told by my divorce lawyer that I should seek counseling for the ' abuse ' and etc....that was going on for the last 15 years...but, I don't think I would need it when I got Roadrunner!..Hes been helping me thru the fears, the nightmares and given me lots of encouragements, hopes and LOVE by his compassion for understanding what I have gone through....

Cheri · 04-14-2004, 02:08 AM

Hello Don't mind me Butting in.. Heh!

I never been to counseling in my life Either....But, I am sure it does Help People that Needed it.. That has a lot of Stress and Hurting In their Life. I learned to work things out on my own with my Emotions.. I Have Much Great Friends with Support too.

TweetyBird · 04-14-2004, 03:09 AM

yea i had counseling last year cuz of i had good reasons all in my life.. i had bad life.. but right now i am allright but still think past.. i know it not good for me think of past but cant help it... sowwy...

Cheri · 04-14-2004, 03:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TweetyBird

yea i had counseling last year cuz of i had good reasons all in my life.. i had bad life.. but right now i am allright but still think past.. i know it not good for me think of past but cant help it... sowwy...

Yes, I understand how u feel the past never goes away it will always be there...But, Remember Hon, U have Great and Caring Friends who would be there for you and Listen and Support you.

Opal · 04-14-2004, 03:30 AM

No, I never see one before.

For some people, the scar is always still there and sometimes flashback, too.
It's sad really.

CatoCooper13 · 04-14-2004, 06:21 AM

Wonderful thread, Deaf258...I've been in counselling a few times. The first few lots was while growing up. I was growing up a very angry girl who absolutely HATED being deaf and hated the world, etc.
The most recent and last one was for marriage counselling when I attempted suicide last year over the troubles that were happening in the relationship with my husband. Thankfully, things have improved since then and hubby and I are slowly mending the bridges and improving our relationship these days.

Y · 04-14-2004, 10:16 AM

Good thread

Went to a few kinds of counselors including:
Personal/Career/Financial
Career Counseling was most helpful
Personal counseling were least helpful

04-14-2004, 10:24 AM

Wow!! Still.. No one got financial counseling!! I wondered if that would have made a difference if I went for financial counseling.. If there was an opportunity to take financial counseling, would you take it?

Y · 04-14-2004, 06:56 PM

No one got financial counseling ?? i already got one
myself not sure if it was an oversight/overlooked
as mentioned above... This could be helpful
making a difference, but this depend
on an individual's motivation level.

Fly Free · 04-14-2004, 07:04 PM

ive had counseling too years ago in HS and no it doesnt work -- i just simply DO NOT TRUST the counselors period!

TweetyBird · 04-14-2004, 07:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cheri

Yes, I understand how u feel the past never goes away it will always be there...But, Remember Hon, U have Great and Caring Friends who would be there for you and Listen and Support you.

awww thanks!!!!

yea i trying my best...

Lasza · 04-15-2004, 01:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fly Free

ive had counseling too years ago in HS and no it doesnt work -- i just simply DO NOT TRUST the counselors period!

I feel same thing. NOt able to venting out to professional
Notice myself i can chest out to real friends.
between professinal and personal, i feel big different.

Fly Free · 04-15-2004, 01:27 AM

*nodding in agreement* yea Lasza -- i feel the same way too!

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04-14-2004, 01:30 AM	#1 (permalink)
Deaf258 Guest Posts: n/a	Counseling.. Have you gone to counseling?? Which kind? Did it help? You do not need to say what problems you have, but explain if these counseling actually work for you or not.

04-14-2004, 02:05 AM	#2 (permalink)
Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 19,088	Good Thread Deaf258!... I've never had counseling in my life...but I was told by my divorce lawyer that I should seek counseling for the ' abuse ' and etc....that was going on for the last 15 years...but, I don't think I would need it when I got Roadrunner!..Hes been helping me thru the fears, the nightmares and given me lots of encouragements, hopes and LOVE by his compassion for understanding what I have gone through.... __________________ "When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is brought in our life, OR in the life of another." ~ Helen Keller

04-14-2004, 02:08 AM	#3 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 21,025	Hello Don't mind me Butting in.. Heh! I never been to counseling in my life Either....But, I am sure it does Help People that Needed it.. That has a lot of Stress and Hurting In their Life. I learned to work things out on my own with my Emotions.. I Have Much Great Friends with Support too. __________________

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04-14-2004, 03:09 AM	#4 (permalink)
TweetyBird ~ Fall ~ Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 21,406	yea i had counseling last year cuz of i had good reasons all in my life.. i had bad life.. but right now i am allright but still think past.. i know it not good for me think of past but cant help it... sowwy...

04-14-2004, 06:21 AM	#7 (permalink)
CatoCooper13 Am attached and in LOVE! Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Sonoma County, California Posts: 6,418	Wonderful thread, Deaf258...I've been in counselling a few times. The first few lots was while growing up. I was growing up a very angry girl who absolutely HATED being deaf and hated the world, etc. The most recent and last one was for marriage counselling when I attempted suicide last year over the troubles that were happening in the relationship with my husband. Thankfully, things have improved since then and hubby and I are slowly mending the bridges and improving our relationship these days.

04-14-2004, 10:16 AM	#8 (permalink)
Y Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 3,113	Good thread Went to a few kinds of counselors including: Personal/Career/Financial Career Counseling was most helpful Personal counseling were least helpful __________________

04-14-2004, 10:24 AM	#9 (permalink)
Deaf258 Guest Posts: n/a	Wow!! Still.. No one got financial counseling!! I wondered if that would have made a difference if I went for financial counseling.. If there was an opportunity to take financial counseling, would you take it?

04-14-2004, 06:56 PM	#10 (permalink)
Y Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 3,113	No one got financial counseling ?? i already got one myself not sure if it was an oversight/overlooked as mentioned above... This could be helpful making a difference, but this depend on an individual's motivation level. __________________

04-14-2004, 07:04 PM	#11 (permalink)
Fly Free Just me Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Wherever i want to be LOL Posts: 9,101	ive had counseling too years ago in HS and no it doesnt work -- i just simply DO NOT TRUST the counselors period!

04-15-2004, 01:27 AM	#14 (permalink)
Fly Free Just me Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Wherever i want to be LOL Posts: 9,101	nodding in agreement yea Lasza -- i feel the same way too!

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