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Unread 09-08-2010, 12:36 PM   #181 (permalink)
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Unread 09-08-2010, 12:43 PM   #182 (permalink)
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Last Friday, I met old friend girl at her work in natural history museum in washington dc but it is wrong time.

Why it is not good to meet at workplace?
It's OK to meet girls at your workplace. You don't have a workplace right now, do you?

I was asking about when you go on dates.
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Unread 09-08-2010, 12:50 PM   #183 (permalink)
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Last Friday, I met old friend girl at her work in natural history museum in washington dc but it is wrong time.

Why it is not good to meet at workplace?
did you tell her in advance that you were coming to her work?
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Unread 09-08-2010, 01:42 PM   #184 (permalink)
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Small group means not normal like ceberal palsy, autism, etc. Special needs.

Big group means normal like good behavior and regular
You did not want to be in a special need class as you did not want to get stuck with a label on all your school records saying you are a special need student. My niece felt the same way she hated being labeled disabled .
She has asperger and took her a long time to get a boyfriend. She has one now. I really think you should try to find a place to meet people , you will have a better chance finding a woman than on line.
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Unread 09-08-2010, 01:55 PM   #185 (permalink)
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You did not want to be in a special need class as you did not want to get stuck with a label on all your school records saying you are a special need student. My niece felt the same way she hated being labeled disabled .
She has asperger and took her a long time to get a boyfriend. She has one now. I really think you should try to find a place to meet people , you will have a better chance finding a woman than on line.
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Unread 09-08-2010, 02:40 PM   #186 (permalink)
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did you tell her in advance that you were coming to her work?
No
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Unread 09-08-2010, 02:43 PM   #187 (permalink)
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next time - always let people know in advance if you want to visit.
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Unread 09-08-2010, 03:07 PM   #188 (permalink)
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I bet this was how Matajan went in to her place of work and approached the situation:

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Unread 09-08-2010, 03:09 PM   #189 (permalink)
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You did not want to be in a special need class as you did not want to get stuck with a label on all your school records saying you are a special need student. My niece felt the same way she hated being labeled disabled .
She has asperger and took her a long time to get a boyfriend. She has one now. I really think you should try to find a place to meet people , you will have a better chance finding a woman than on line.
How long?

How did she meet her bf?
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Unread 09-08-2010, 06:10 PM   #190 (permalink)
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Unread 09-08-2010, 08:23 PM   #191 (permalink)
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Did you find your "Harvard girl"?
someone is not interesting in me who go harvard from here on AD when she found my common interests.

do common interests means our match like athlete, etc.?
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Unread 09-08-2010, 08:57 PM   #193 (permalink)
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someone is not interesting in me who go harvard from here on AD when she found my common interests.

do common interests means our match like athlete, etc.?
She told me that she really likes you and that she's just playing hard to get. She doesn't want to seem easy! You need to make more of an effort. Why don't you ask her if she wants to go running, or play tennis with you? OR, you could even ask her if she wants to play computer games with you! The choice is yours.
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Unread 09-08-2010, 09:04 PM   #194 (permalink)
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Oh, okay...I liked her, too.

I wanted to go out with her. But I don't know where or not online.

How can I do play hard with her? Why did she do with these silly posts?
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Oh, okay...I liked her, too.

I wanted to go out with her. But I don't know where or not online.

How can I do play hard with her? Why did she do with these silly posts?
try this moves. You might attract her.

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Oh, okay...I liked her, too.

I wanted to go out with her. But I don't know where or not online.

How can I do play hard with her? Why did she do with these silly posts?
She was probaly jealous because you made all those threads but you didn't make a thread about her.

I could be wrong though
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Unread 09-08-2010, 09:52 PM   #197 (permalink)
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I was happy when I met someone from college better...because I met wrong woman I am sure I was stupid thing, I think I should find someone who have degree and intelligent make me feel comfortable.

I am sure family friends will accept if I found someone from college and we should be stable what we are@
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She was probaly jealous because you made all those threads but you didn't make a thread about her.

I could be wrong though
Must be the wandering hand thing again.
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How long?

How did she meet her bf?
My niece meet her boyfriend on a dating service called Plenty of Fish.com My niece is in her 30 and and took her years to get a boyfriend . She dates a about 3 or 4 guy on POF before she meet her boyfriend , he has asperger's too. The other guys did not have asperger's ,they had no disability . The guys dated my niece one or two times and never called her back. It took about a year for my niece to meet her boyfriend and they been together over a year. The two are really inlove with one another and the whole famliy is really happy for my niece as she been wanting a boyfriend for years.
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Hello,

I let you know all that I remember I saw one woman who is from ivy league who dating down syndrome guy in las veags last july when i visit treasure island hotel pool party. i was not surprise how come she interested in guy who had down syndrome, i am shocked.
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My niece meet her boyfriend on a dating service called Plenty of Fish.com My niece is in her 30 and and took her years to get a boyfriend . She dates a about 3 or 4 guy on POF before she meet her boyfriend , he has asperger's too. The other guys did not have asperger's ,they had no disability . The guys dated my niece one or two times and never called her back. It took about a year for my niece to meet her boyfriend and they been together over a year. The two are really inlove with one another and the whole famliy is really happy for my niece as she been wanting a boyfriend for years.
my family would be happy if I met someone from prestigous college
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I let you know all that I remember I saw one woman who is from ivy league who dating down syndrome guy in las veags last july when i visit treasure island hotel pool party. i was not surprise how come she interested in guy who had down syndrome, i am shocked.
ask them.
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I let you know all that I remember I saw one woman who is from ivy league who dating down syndrome guy in las veags last july when i visit treasure island hotel pool party. i was not surprise how come she interested in guy who had down syndrome, i am shocked.

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Why?
I knew that most of my friends knew her that she is from las vegas, she is in elite sorority at ivy league.

i knew most intelligent girl attract to same attractive guy but it happens one.
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I know many beautiful, intelligent women that marry ugly morons.... In fact I was married to one of these women.

It's been said a bunch already. Opposites attract sometimes.....it shouldn't be a shock.

Pretties marry uglies. Brainiacs marry doofusi. Hearies marry deafies. ect ect ect
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Okay...it means I can't ask if she has boyfriend or not.
Do NOT ask her if she has a boyfriend. ,ask her what kind of movies she like , does she like to take walks on the beach , she what she enjoyed doing so she will know you are interested in her . and do not order her food for her , let your date decide what she what to eat. I hate it when a guy try to order my meal.
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I know many beautiful, intelligent women that marry ugly morons.... In fact I was married to one of these women.

It's been said a bunch already. Opposites attract sometimes.....it shouldn't be a shock.
anyways, you know how to let girl ask me out? it is interesting,my friend put status, ask me, i explained to him, he is 35 years old, do not have any girl, scared to ask her out.

for me, finally, girl ask me out or meet.
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