Interracial Relationship

Ironheartz · 03-27-2003, 05:55 PM

Hi peepz! I'm 1/2 Native American (southwest Chipposaux *sp may be wrong*) and 1/2 African American gal. I am currently with a white guy- DeafDot and we have a 5 year old biracial son. We've been together for 12 years and have been gracious and blessed about our realtionship regardless of color. Granted, there has been some people who look at us like we should've never been together or have a son together. Some people look at our realtionship as harmony or being one coming from two different worlds, and color.

I'm curious-are there any one of you involved into interracial realtionship? If not, why not? If you're in one, how has it affected your life? I would love to hear your stories or testimonies.

allisonjoy · 03-27-2003, 05:58 PM

cool!

, i'm not involved in that relationship.. but im defintely not against it. i just happen to be in love with a white guy right now.

Ironheartz · 03-27-2003, 06:04 PM

That's great! Do you ever wish you had another "flavor" to see what's that like?

BabyPhat21 · 03-27-2003, 06:22 PM

Mexican love here!!!! I have dated so many guys from different countries.......even Asian.

**bbnt** · 03-27-2003, 07:42 PM

This is a good topic. It amazes me how much prejudice there is in the world. In fact prejudice has been one of the main reasons many people have chose to leave AD.

While I do miss many of the people that have left I don't miss the racist remarks that used to come from some of them.

It shouldn't matter one damn bit what the color of your skin is when it come to friends, lovers , or anything else.

wickedeyed · 03-27-2003, 07:46 PM

i did have ex boyfriends who were of different race than i was....

spanish, korean, black, and so on..... i'm glad i dated each and every one of them. it was certainly a learning experience for me.

03-27-2003, 08:01 PM

I am not against interracial relationships.
I have dated Indian, Iranian, Af. American, hispanic and white before.
It is really hard to say about experience, because it was only dating. My two serious relationships were not interracial. I wonder why... hmmm...

DeafDot · 03-27-2003, 10:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BabyPhat21
Mexican love here!!!! I have dated so many guys from different countries.......even Asian.

You're Hispanic-American, is that what you're saying?

Steel X · 03-27-2003, 10:46 PM

i have a friend whose black and i asked her out to the prom

Steel X · 03-27-2003, 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by allisonjoy
cool! , i'm not involved in that relationship.. but im defintely not against it. i just happen to be in love with a white guy right now.

you seem white too

e · 03-27-2003, 10:54 PM

I'm Italian and Im going out with Alex whos half Chinese and half Peruvian!!! Hes

I used to went out with multracials, I had no problem with that.

nozobo · 03-28-2003, 12:01 AM

This posts is good to discuss here... I love all type of people, I don't think anything about their color I just think of them as a person and good personality....

Strawberry · 03-28-2003, 12:04 AM

I've dated numerous of races.. it makes no difference except my mother getting on my back about it. OFC I'm from the south. Diversity doesnt bother me- its awesome- learning others' culture.

03-28-2003, 06:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by pimpdaddyposse
This posts is good to discuss here... I love all type of people, I don't think anything about their color I just think of them as a person and good personality....

Exactly, Pimp. I never think about it, period. Same thing for deaf and hearing ppl, I simply never think about it too. Until when people make such a big deal out of it and remind me about it, bla bla bla

allisonjoy · 03-28-2003, 06:09 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Steel
you seem white too

yuppp. i am a mutt- a mix of everything, this and that.

Aphrodite · 03-28-2003, 10:45 AM

Interracial relationships produces beautiful & exotic looking children... I know a friend who is a product of an interracial couple and she is amazingly beautiful with her own unique features.

And some kids I work with, who comes from interracial families - and they do really show their attractive features.

One day, I was strolling around at the mall - and I saw the gruesome, fat, odd-looking interracial couple.. which can be an eye sore, but they have 4 children with them.. and I was like, awwww.. when I saw their four beautiful children.

It is interesting how it turned out in that way.

ChelEler · 03-28-2003, 10:53 AM

I'm not against interracial relationship. Actually, I have never dated anyone who's not in the same pool as I am because I'm too shy and very isolated. But I find a few couple (one black and one white) with their children attractive. I often wonder how they are treated by other people. I have always wanted to talk to them, but again, I'm too shy to confront them by myself.

I have many friends who are unique from each other when I was in my childhood, and I have no problem with that.

Ironheartz · 03-28-2003, 11:00 AM

Keep it coming, peepz! All of you are interesting and it IS cool to see other peepz view on interraccial realtionships.

Speaking of multiracial children-they may come from odd looking couples or from a couple who's races are unlikely together but they usually turn out to be the most beautiful children. My son-when he was younger, DeafDot used him a little to attract girls! LOL However, now DeafDot and I are one and equals.

Well-I'd love to hear more, so keep em' coming!

03-28-2003, 11:28 AM

Ironheartz, it is nothing wrong with any race, important you trust, love, share together. that's I care as long you happy. My cousin is Black guy. he is very cool. He is cop. I see he have no plm with his white family. keep yourself cool

03-28-2003, 01:46 PM

It does not matter whom I date, may he be white, black, or asian. or whatever.. I don't see the point of why people would object to it..

MDCodeRedFreak · 03-28-2003, 02:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BostonIceFire
It does not matter whom I date, may he be white, black, or asian. or whatever.. I don't see the point of why people would object to it..

yup - agreed

BabyPhat21 · 03-28-2003, 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by DeafDot
You're Hispanic-American, is that what you're saying?

nope, just that I love mexicams!! I am not born in USA

BabyPhat21 · 03-28-2003, 05:22 PM

some people say that deaf with hearings are interracial too

LeviathanC · 03-28-2003, 05:44 PM

I don't know what it's like to date a girl of other race.

crazyerica32 · 03-28-2003, 05:59 PM

hm I never dated anyone out of race but I ain't against it but I'm up for anything anyway but I'm takin my time

Bullshitter · 03-28-2003, 06:03 PM

Mmmm.... haven't really thought about it because I don't give any damn about who I want to date.... Human is human

***VamPyroX*** · 03-29-2003, 11:07 AM

I don't really care about who I date. As long as she's cute and has a great personality.

Fly Free · 04-13-2003, 06:06 PM

ive dated a hispanic womyn from Nicaragua -- learned a lil spanish too (and forgot most of them yikes) -- but i dont see anything wrong with interracial relationships either

04-13-2003, 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Aphrodite
Interracial relationships produces beautiful & exotic looking children... I know a friend who is a product of an interracial couple and she is amazingly beautiful with her own unique features.

And some kids I work with, who comes from interracial families - and they do really show their attractive features.

One day, I was strolling around at the mall - and I saw the gruesome, fat, odd-looking interracial couple.. which can be an eye sore, but they have 4 children with them.. and I was like, awwww.. when I saw their four beautiful children.

It is interesting how it turned out in that way.

Aphrodite... you are totally right about interracial relationship producing beautiful and exotic-looking children. Take a look at Lenny Kravitz, a famous guitarist/singer. He was a product of an interracial marriage. His famous actress mother was Roxxy Rokker from "The Jeffersons". She played the tall black woman married to the tall white man on the TV show. Lenny Kravitz's nationality was black and white. He was raised with a diverse religious background, Jewish and Catholic. The reasons why we shouldn't limit ourselves to our nationality. God told us in the Bible... "Be fruitful and multiply", he didn't say to be faithful to our race.

There's a special guy for me and he's from another nationality... I have learned so much from him. I appreciate his country and its customs & culture.

PurpleBreeze · 04-17-2003, 06:49 PM

I'm involved in an interracial relationship since almost 7 years and already had 3 kids...twin boys and one daughter. I dont have much problems with it but I hate when people insult blacks this word "N" because my kids are part of black race too. Of course you know how mother is...very protective of her kids just like I'm very protective of my kids when someone call them with insulting words. Oh well thats part of life that we have to deal with everyday.

03-27-2003, 05:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ironheartz Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Rochester, New York Posts: 110	Interracial Relationship Hi peepz! I'm 1/2 Native American (southwest Chipposaux sp may be wrong) and 1/2 African American gal. I am currently with a white guy- DeafDot and we have a 5 year old biracial son. We've been together for 12 years and have been gracious and blessed about our realtionship regardless of color. Granted, there has been some people who look at us like we should've never been together or have a son together. Some people look at our realtionship as harmony or being one coming from two different worlds, and color. I'm curious-are there any one of you involved into interracial realtionship? If not, why not? If you're in one, how has it affected your life? I would love to hear your stories or testimonies.

03-28-2003, 12:01 AM	#12 (permalink)
nozobo Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Denver, CO Posts: 3,944	This posts is good to discuss here... I love all type of people, I don't think anything about their color I just think of them as a person and good personality.... __________________ My roots are planted in the past And though my life is changin' fast Who I am is who I wanna be...

03-28-2003, 12:04 AM	#13 (permalink)
Strawberry Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Ol'ugly plains where Tornadoes like to lick! Posts: 823	I've dated numerous of races.. it makes no difference except my mother getting on my back about it. OFC I'm from the south. Diversity doesnt bother me- its awesome- learning others' culture. Last edited by Strawberry; 04-14-2003 at 03:10 AM.

03-28-2003, 10:53 AM	#17 (permalink)
ChelEler Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5,565	I'm not against interracial relationship. Actually, I have never dated anyone who's not in the same pool as I am because I'm too shy and very isolated. But I find a few couple (one black and one white) with their children attractive. I often wonder how they are treated by other people. I have always wanted to talk to them, but again, I'm too shy to confront them by myself. I have many friends who are unique from each other when I was in my childhood, and I have no problem with that. __________________ ~RAWR~ -ChelEler- =^.~=

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03-27-2003, 05:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
allisonjoy Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: rhodey isle Posts: 1,124	cool! , i'm not involved in that relationship.. but im defintely not against it. i just happen to be in love with a white guy right now.

03-27-2003, 06:04 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ironheartz Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Rochester, New York Posts: 110	That's great! Do you ever wish you had another "flavor" to see what's that like?

03-27-2003, 06:22 PM	#4 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,107	Mexican love here!!!! I have dated so many guys from different countries.......even Asian.

03-27-2003, 07:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
bbnt King of all I see Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Arizona Posts: 3,615	This is a good topic. It amazes me how much prejudice there is in the world. In fact prejudice has been one of the main reasons many people have chose to leave AD. While I do miss many of the people that have left I don't miss the racist remarks that used to come from some of them. It shouldn't matter one damn bit what the color of your skin is when it come to friends, lovers , or anything else.

03-27-2003, 07:46 PM	#6 (permalink)
wickedeyed Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: a plastic fork factory Posts: 337	i did have ex boyfriends who were of different race than i was.... spanish, korean, black, and so on..... i'm glad i dated each and every one of them. it was certainly a learning experience for me.

03-27-2003, 08:01 PM	#7 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	I am not against interracial relationships. I have dated Indian, Iranian, Af. American, hispanic and white before. It is really hard to say about experience, because it was only dating. My two serious relationships were not interracial. I wonder why... hmmm...

03-27-2003, 10:46 PM	#9 (permalink)
Steel X Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: The Carolinas/Rochester, NY. Posts: 13,824	i have a friend whose black and i asked her out to the prom

03-27-2003, 10:54 PM	#11 (permalink)
e Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Neeewwwww Yawk! Posts: 1,138	I'm Italian and Im going out with Alex whos half Chinese and half Peruvian!!! Hes I used to went out with multracials, I had no problem with that.

03-28-2003, 10:45 AM	#16 (permalink)
Aphrodite Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Down thy shore Posts: 389	Interracial relationships produces beautiful & exotic looking children... I know a friend who is a product of an interracial couple and she is amazingly beautiful with her own unique features. And some kids I work with, who comes from interracial families - and they do really show their attractive features. One day, I was strolling around at the mall - and I saw the gruesome, fat, odd-looking interracial couple.. which can be an eye sore, but they have 4 children with them.. and I was like, awwww.. when I saw their four beautiful children. It is interesting how it turned out in that way.

03-28-2003, 11:00 AM	#18 (permalink)
Ironheartz Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Rochester, New York Posts: 110	Keep it coming, peepz! All of you are interesting and it IS cool to see other peepz view on interraccial realtionships. Speaking of multiracial children-they may come from odd looking couples or from a couple who's races are unlikely together but they usually turn out to be the most beautiful children. My son-when he was younger, DeafDot used him a little to attract girls! LOL However, now DeafDot and I are one and equals. Well-I'd love to hear more, so keep em' coming!

03-28-2003, 11:28 AM	#19 (permalink)
GoldenLeaf74 Guest Posts: n/a	Ironheartz, it is nothing wrong with any race, important you trust, love, share together. that's I care as long you happy. My cousin is Black guy. he is very cool. He is cop. I see he have no plm with his white family. keep yourself cool

03-28-2003, 01:46 PM	#20 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	It does not matter whom I date, may he be white, black, or asian. or whatever.. I don't see the point of why people would object to it..

03-28-2003, 05:22 PM	#23 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,107	some people say that deaf with hearings are interracial too

03-28-2003, 05:44 PM	#24 (permalink)
LeviathanC Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,312	I don't know what it's like to date a girl of other race.

03-28-2003, 05:59 PM	#25 (permalink)
crazyerica32 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: san jose, CA Posts: 4,765 Blog Entries: 5	hm I never dated anyone out of race but I ain't against it but I'm up for anything anyway but I'm takin my time

03-28-2003, 06:03 PM	#26 (permalink)
Bullshitter Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 35	Mmmm.... haven't really thought about it because I don't give any damn about who I want to date.... Human is human

04-13-2003, 06:06 PM	#28 (permalink)
Fly Free Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Roosted in the DC area! Posts: 9,101	ive dated a hispanic womyn from Nicaragua -- learned a lil spanish too (and forgot most of them yikes) -- but i dont see anything wrong with interracial relationships either __________________ Enjoying life!

04-17-2003, 06:49 PM	#30 (permalink)
PurpleBreeze Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 43	I'm involved in an interracial relationship since almost 7 years and already had 3 kids...twin boys and one daughter. I dont have much problems with it but I hate when people insult blacks this word "N" because my kids are part of black race too. Of course you know how mother is...very protective of her kids just like I'm very protective of my kids when someone call them with insulting words. Oh well thats part of life that we have to deal with everyday. Last edited by PurpleBreeze; 04-17-2003 at 06:51 PM.

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