Interracial Relationship - Page 3

Miss-Delectable · 04-21-2004, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Oddball

I am not against interracial relationships. I don't date them exactly, but I do go out with my friends with different ethnic backgrounds. Of course, I learn a lot from them about their cultures. Mostly, I do date with white men.

I'm the same as Oddball.
So far, I've dated only white guys.
But I've friends who's of different races and it doesn't bother me.

racheleggert · 04-22-2004, 11:18 AM

I am mixed mutt but also european latino (italitan), and my current boyfriend is half native american, german, and irish. I also adopted a nephew who is native american and a nephew who is half white and half black.

Longster · 04-23-2004, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Ironheartz

I'm curious-are there any one of you involved into interracial realtionship? If not, why not? If you're in one, how has it affected your life? I would love to hear your stories or testimonies.

Hmm.. I've always been fascinated with interracial relationship and have been involved with quite a few. I dated this one girl who never had interracial relationship and expressed her doubts about us for that reason which was crock of shit! It was her way of getting out of relationship so we ended at that time. Never in my life would I use that kind of excuse.

Then there was another girl who had 2 kids (half black and half white) and dated for a short while. Her kids are gorgeous and brilliant. It was interesting cuz we had "Trio racial" relationship, her being white, her kids and myself as asian. Unfortunately, I had to end it due to personal conflicts. It was a great experience and I'll always cherish what I've been through.

Another interesting part is that I couldn't... or shall i say wouldn't date within my own race. For some reason it just felt like dating my sister.

Although, I try to keep my option open to all race.

04-23-2004, 07:35 PM

Interesting thread..

I have dated men of all races and religion - while I had no problem dating with them, there are always cultural issues that get into the way.

For example, dating a Indian Hindu or Pakistani Muslim or Korean Catholic or French atheist or Israeli Jew or Zimbawaen Protestant caused many problems for me because I am a strictly Irish American Catholic girl so we could not agree on many philosophical issues.

Some of these mens families forced them not to date me again because they wanted their sons to marry a woman of same religion thus to ensure that their grandchildren grow up in same traditions, not mesh into my Irish Catholic culture.

Color does not matter but socioenconomics, religion and values does. So it takes a lot of work to keep that going. I do not think i would date a Hindu or Muslim seriously again - we simply cannot agree on many theories so it is easier for me to have a long term relationship with someone with similiar lifestyle like me.

o0obluemoon0o0 · 06-03-2004, 11:01 AM

This is really good topic to discuss. throughout middle school & high school, I 've always seem to date white guy... during senior year, I dated black guy, then few black guys since then... I dont have any problem with dating different races. There wasnt a lot black or chinese, mexicans guys in my school. the only thing that stop me dating guys in my school is their intelligence. I went to school for the deaf. I quit school for the deaf after I was freshman, and came back to school for the deaf during my senior year. I've always dated hearing guys for some reason. intelligence, maybe?? I get along with them better? they have better common sense, and maurity?? I never seem to be able to find a deaf guy I like that has real good english and smart. common sense, and all. whole 9 yard.

CatoCooper13 · 06-29-2004, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Liza

LOL Magatsu - you seem pretty intelligent with a sense of humor. I love that.

Oh Ms Giglz!!! Now you are not going to use a stick to beat off girls from your handsome son??

Ah, I remember when I was a kid, I've been asked a few times if I were adopted or if I was Spanish. That was like

.. I have a very white father - born and raised in NJ, and I lived with him instead of my islander mom (who is not Spanish, but a very nice school therapist and has worked in shelters for abused women and children BTW) after the divorce. Just remember, NEVER ask a child if he/she is adopted or assume her/his heritage.. that hurts and is very, very moronic. I wish I'd slap the morons silly!

Chrissakes, they never heard of those islands I mentioned about my ancestors being from. This was when I moved to the mainland from Hawaii. *grin* No, I am not a Hawaiian... silly mainlanders

Hey there, Lizagirly! My Mum was asked quite a number of times on whether she had adopted my sister and me while we were growing up. You see...both sister and I have black hair, olive skin and brown eyes...whereas my mother's white as. She has blonde hair and blue eyes.
That offended my mother because we weren't adopted at all -- but she gave birth to us!

My father's Japanese/Hawaiian while Mum's German/Dutch/Irish.

Brainwashed Gal · 06-29-2004, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Ironheartz

Hi peepz! I'm 1/2 Native American (southwest Chipposaux *sp may be wrong*) and 1/2 African American gal. I am currently with a white guy- DeafDot and we have a 5 year old biracial son. We've been together for 12 years and have been gracious and blessed about our realtionship regardless of color. Granted, there has been some people who look at us like we should've never been together or have a son together. Some people look at our realtionship as harmony or being one coming from two different worlds, and color.

I'm curious-are there any one of you involved into interracial realtionship? If not, why not? If you're in one, how has it affected your life? I would love to hear your stories or testimonies.

Im a native (cherokee) n african american myself, i dont go out w/ blk guys.. i go out w/ only white/italian guys, i dont give a damn what peepz think.. thats their plm if they dont like what they see! they can always move the earth and heaven somewhere else!

Brainwashed Gal · 06-29-2004, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Aphrodite

Interracial relationships produces beautiful & exotic looking children... I know a friend who is a product of an interracial couple and she is amazingly beautiful with her own unique features.

And some kids I work with, who comes from interracial families - and they do really show their attractive features.

One day, I was strolling around at the mall - and I saw the gruesome, fat, odd-looking interracial couple.. which can be an eye sore, but they have 4 children with them.. and I was like, awwww.. when I saw their four beautiful children.

It is interesting how it turned out in that way.

I strongly agree w/ ya! I've always wanted to have birracial kids! I was preg w/ a birracial baby but i had a miscarriage when I was almost 4 mos.. It was very very depressin'!! ((sobs)) but I aint worried cuz I can still have kids.. Thk the lord!

~Me~

Vance · 07-05-2004, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by o0obluemoon0o0

This is really good topic to discuss. throughout middle school & high school, I 've always seem to date white guy... during senior year, I dated black guy, then few black guys since then... I dont have any problem with dating different races. There wasnt a lot black or chinese, mexicans guys in my school. the only thing that stop me dating guys in my school is their intelligence. I went to school for the deaf. I quit school for the deaf after I was freshman, and came back to school for the deaf during my senior year. I've always dated hearing guys for some reason. intelligence, maybe?? I get along with them better? they have better common sense, and maurity?? I never seem to be able to find a deaf guy I like that has real good english and smart. common sense, and all. whole 9 yard.

Well, I have same problem with deaf women as well as you do with deaf men. That's why I have been dating hearing women ever since because of their intelligence, common sense, better understanding of relationship, better in sex, etc etc..

Of course, it will be nice to date deaf women but lately, hearing women made smart choices in "which right man to pick" issues so I have no choice but go for them

Edit: Wait.. my post is a offtopic post

Brainwashed Gal · 07-06-2004, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Magatsu

Well, I have same problem with deaf women as well as you do with deaf men. That's why I have been dating hearing women ever since because of their intelligence, common sense, better understanding of relationship, better in sex, etc etc..

Of course, it will be nice to date deaf women but lately, hearing women made smart choices in "which right man to pick" issues so I have no choice but go for them

Edit: Wait.. my post is a offtopic post

(((scoffs))) better in bed ??? ha ha ha, im deaf but im damn good in bed.. TRY ME!!! Thats why hearie guys cant lv me the hell alone!

Vance · 07-06-2004, 01:02 AM

Heh, I didn't say that deaf gals aren't. That was according to my experience with deaf gals and they are ok-ok in bed compare to hearing women due to their wild bed activities.

Again, I never say that deaf gals aren't. Just that I didn't meet a deaf gal that can whip me in bed like I did to them so

Brainwashed Gal · 07-13-2004, 03:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Magatsu

Heh, I didn't say that deaf gals aren't. That was according to my experience with deaf gals and they are ok-ok in bed compare to hearing women due to their wild bed activities.

Again, I never say that deaf gals aren't. Just that I didn't meet a deaf gal that can whip me in bed like I did to them so

Honey, i think u still shall try me! lets make arrangements to meet up...

***VamPyroX*** · 07-13-2004, 03:39 AM

I used to have a crush on this black gal from my work. Of course, she was years older than me but she was a hot chick that I wish I had dated. Unfortunately, she disappeared and I never saw her again.

Maria · 07-13-2004, 03:43 AM

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Originally Posted by VamPyroX

I used to have a crush on this black gal from my work. Of course, she was years older than me but she was a hot chick that I wish I had dated. Unfortunately, she disappeared and I never saw her again.

Ouchies ! That's too bad........

o0obluemoon0o0 · 08-25-2004, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Magatsu

Well, I have same problem with deaf women as well as you do with deaf men. That's why I have been dating hearing women ever since because of their intelligence, common sense, better understanding of relationship, better in sex, etc etc..

Of course, it will be nice to date deaf women but lately, hearing women made smart choices in "which right man to pick" issues so I have no choice but go for them

Edit: Wait.. my post is a offtopic post

Yeah I agree with you... I wouldnt mind dating deaf guy again. I dated very few deaf guys. Im pretty picky... but it'd be nice to find one that I like.. but then again, I prefer hearing guys. Ive been with 2 or 3 deaf guys, they are ok in bed. but hearing guys, they seem to be much better. I dont know why. heh.

dhw5320 · 08-25-2004, 10:24 PM

My Man is half Black/White.. He's a pure Joy to me regardless of his color.

Fly Free · 08-25-2004, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by dhw5320

My Man is half Black/White.. He's a pure Joy to me regardless of his color.

and i hope i get the chance to visit u guys in Seattle -- i definately would have liked to meet ur man!!!!

trouble is i dunno when ill be able to head back out to Seattle

Lasza · 08-25-2004, 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Fly Free

and i hope i get the chance to visit u guys in Seattle -- i definately would have liked to meet ur man!!!!

trouble is i dunno when ill be able to head back out to Seattle

Psst! Have u hear of "Lottery" ?????

Fly Free · 08-25-2004, 11:44 PM

Lasza -- yes i have and u gonna win it for me qq LOL

dhw5320 · 08-26-2004, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Fly Free

and i hope i get the chance to visit u guys in Seattle -- i definately would have liked to meet ur man!!!!

trouble is i dunno when ill be able to head back out to Seattle

You know where we live. :-) We love having guests over.

activemode · 08-28-2004, 05:05 PM

That's a very interesting twist... You wouldn't date someone in your own race because it feels like you dating your sister?

I won't argue with that, because you have a right to choose who you want to be with. But I hope that no one of your own race sees that post. You might have some explaining to do.

The*Empress · 07-03-2005, 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Ironheartz

That's great! Do you ever wish you had another "flavor" to see what's that like?

I do wish I have another "flavor" to see what's that like.

Missus_Philos0phyK · 07-06-2005, 07:39 PM

wow, what a interesting thread ever... i read all of ur perpectives on these interracial relationship, whichever i never went out on any any dates with GUYS which its doesnt matter of what race of skins.. but i would defientely loved to date them whoever could be interested in me, before then, i told my mom that i had a cravings for latinos, i dont know why but i just did liked them as well as for pureto rican men r most deff hottest thing that i ever seen.. but nah, i wouldnt cared to date them through because it never matters for me to choose a prefence of skin colors as long as these guys will love to hear or see me beaming my lovely smiles and happiness. of course, people whhomever had been sticking to their old fashioned ways that are also racist.. just because they might be scare of revoluntions for this 21st centry in america.. (its in IMO tho) none offense shld be taken.. even through i did thought of myself being a bit of white inside because just how the way these people been treating me and does effectived the style that i dress. also in the addition to mentioned by my mom, its funny tho. my mom always wanted me to bring black man home. i told her i will try to bring some man home because she never seen me bring them home, i hoped there will be 1 day for me to bring him home..

lets not get a high hopes.. just let things happen along the line or path just like u cld have it like that.

07-06-2005, 07:46 PM

I can "so" see MissP running over to activemode now that he has his avatar up!

Oh MissP.. he's a looker and someone you might like too!!

As for the interracial dating/relationship, I have always held true to the belief that love sees no colour and prefers no gender.

DeafKattMom · 07-06-2005, 07:54 PM

Im in an interacial relationship. Im mexican, chinese, irish and filipino and my bf is white. We have two children and one on the way, have been together for eight(almost nine years

)

We are in total love!! He loves the diverse foods I cook at home, my family loves his singing and just him in general. Its a wonderful experience for us.

Color has never been an issue for us. Its just something we see in eachother that we find extremly erotic...so you can imagine that our sex like is well...

katt.

The*Empress · 07-06-2005, 08:05 PM

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04-22-2004, 11:18 AM	#62 (permalink)
racheleggert Chode! Chode! Chode! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Twin Cities, MN Posts: 2,219	I am mixed mutt but also european latino (italitan), and my current boyfriend is half native american, german, and irish. I also adopted a nephew who is native american and a nephew who is half white and half black. __________________ PROUD BARACK OBAMA SUPPORTER!

07-06-2004, 01:02 AM	#71 (permalink)
Vance Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 4,280	Heh, I didn't say that deaf gals aren't. That was according to my experience with deaf gals and they are ok-ok in bed compare to hearing women due to their wild bed activities. Again, I never say that deaf gals aren't. Just that I didn't meet a deaf gal that can whip me in bed like I did to them so Last edited by Magatsu; 07-06-2004 at 02:24 AM.

07-13-2004, 03:39 AM	#73 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 27,844	I used to have a crush on this black gal from my work. Of course, she was years older than me but she was a hot chick that I wish I had dated. Unfortunately, she disappeared and I never saw her again. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

07-06-2005, 07:39 PM	#83 (permalink)
Missus_Philos0phyK strongwise, only funnier Join Date: May 2005 Location: Funnyville in Tejas Posts: 642 Blog Entries: 1	i would dated one! wow, what a interesting thread ever... i read all of ur perpectives on these interracial relationship, whichever i never went out on any any dates with GUYS which its doesnt matter of what race of skins.. but i would defientely loved to date them whoever could be interested in me, before then, i told my mom that i had a cravings for latinos, i dont know why but i just did liked them as well as for pureto rican men r most deff hottest thing that i ever seen.. but nah, i wouldnt cared to date them through because it never matters for me to choose a prefence of skin colors as long as these guys will love to hear or see me beaming my lovely smiles and happiness. of course, people whhomever had been sticking to their old fashioned ways that are also racist.. just because they might be scare of revoluntions for this 21st centry in america.. (its in IMO tho) none offense shld be taken.. even through i did thought of myself being a bit of white inside because just how the way these people been treating me and does effectived the style that i dress. also in the addition to mentioned by my mom, its funny tho. my mom always wanted me to bring black man home. i told her i will try to bring some man home because she never seen me bring them home, i hoped there will be 1 day for me to bring him home.. lets not get a high hopes.. just let things happen along the line or path just like u cld have it like that.

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04-23-2004, 07:35 PM	#64 (permalink)
Gemtun Guest Posts: n/a	Interesting thread.. I have dated men of all races and religion - while I had no problem dating with them, there are always cultural issues that get into the way. For example, dating a Indian Hindu or Pakistani Muslim or Korean Catholic or French atheist or Israeli Jew or Zimbawaen Protestant caused many problems for me because I am a strictly Irish American Catholic girl so we could not agree on many philosophical issues. Some of these mens families forced them not to date me again because they wanted their sons to marry a woman of same religion thus to ensure that their grandchildren grow up in same traditions, not mesh into my Irish Catholic culture. Color does not matter but socioenconomics, religion and values does. So it takes a lot of work to keep that going. I do not think i would date a Hindu or Muslim seriously again - we simply cannot agree on many theories so it is easier for me to have a long term relationship with someone with similiar lifestyle like me.

06-03-2004, 11:01 AM	#65 (permalink)
o0obluemoon0o0 Small-town deaf chick Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Portland Metro Area, Oregon Posts: 146	This is really good topic to discuss. throughout middle school & high school, I 've always seem to date white guy... during senior year, I dated black guy, then few black guys since then... I dont have any problem with dating different races. There wasnt a lot black or chinese, mexicans guys in my school. the only thing that stop me dating guys in my school is their intelligence. I went to school for the deaf. I quit school for the deaf after I was freshman, and came back to school for the deaf during my senior year. I've always dated hearing guys for some reason. intelligence, maybe?? I get along with them better? they have better common sense, and maurity?? I never seem to be able to find a deaf guy I like that has real good english and smart. common sense, and all. whole 9 yard.

08-25-2004, 10:24 PM	#76 (permalink)
dhw5320 Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: Seattle Posts: 89	My Man is half Black/White.. He's a pure Joy to me regardless of his color.

08-25-2004, 11:44 PM	#79 (permalink)
Fly Free Just me Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Wherever i want to be LOL Posts: 9,101	Lasza -- yes i have and u gonna win it for me qq LOL

08-28-2004, 05:05 PM	#81 (permalink)
activemode I'm hearing Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Jacksonville, Florida Posts: 3	That's a very interesting twist... You wouldn't date someone in your own race because it feels like you dating your sister? I won't argue with that, because you have a right to choose who you want to be with. But I hope that no one of your own race sees that post. You might have some explaining to do.

07-06-2005, 07:46 PM	#84 (permalink)
Cookie Monster Guest Posts: n/a	I can "so" see MissP running over to activemode now that he has his avatar up! Oh MissP.. he's a looker and someone you might like too!! As for the interracial dating/relationship, I have always held true to the belief that love sees no colour and prefers no gender.

07-06-2005, 07:54 PM	#85 (permalink)
DeafKattMom I love, because Im loved. Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: AZ Posts: 120	Im in an interacial relationship. Im mexican, chinese, irish and filipino and my bf is white. We have two children and one on the way, have been together for eight(almost nine years ) We are in total love!! He loves the diverse foods I cook at home, my family loves his singing and just him in general. Its a wonderful experience for us. Color has never been an issue for us. Its just something we see in eachother that we find extremly erotic...so you can imagine that our sex like is well... katt.