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Deafcollegegal · 09-02-2009, 06:48 PM

Hi Everyone !!! I am new here and have an question for everyone on this site !!

How many people on this site are married or engaged to their better half? Also is your better half deaf?

The reason why I am asking this because I have made an decision since high school that i would never date or marry hearing mens only deaf. However, I am not meeting deaf guys who are on the right path such as being edcuated or own their home or cars or even working. Therefore, I am wondering if I am limiting myself !! Never really had issues finding a man but finding a GOOD Man was always the issue.

THanks !!!

CJB · 09-02-2009, 07:05 PM

I'm married to a sighted-hearing woman. I'm deafblind myself. It's the best thing that's ever happened to me. Love is love. When you love someone, it doesn't matter if they can hear or see or not.

WhisperHorse · 09-02-2009, 07:10 PM

I agreed with CJB.

C.C.Sinned · 09-02-2009, 07:21 PM

married for about 12 years, my wife can hear

rockin'robin · 09-02-2009, 10:34 PM

I understand ur dilemma....I, too, looked high & low for a deaf partner, to no avail. Education/communication was the problem.

So I married hearing....and divorsed later.

A good man is hard to find....but they are out there. Good luck!

deafbajagal · 09-03-2009, 06:27 PM

Was married to a hearing man...divorced him seven years later. Now married to HOH and I've never been happier. I don't think it matters if the person can hear or not...but if that person can respect your deafness and can communicate well. That's what counts.

MoonDrifter · 09-04-2009, 09:17 AM

My girlfriend is deaf and she is the best girl I've ever met.

Deafcollegegal · 09-08-2009, 02:34 PM

Hey all , Thanks for responding to my post.. Sorry it took me so long to respond but i been busy with School like CRAZY.. Anyway Rocking Robin thanks for your post!!! Very encouraging .............. I guess there is hope after all for all us ladies

Oceanblue7 · 09-08-2009, 11:47 PM

As long as you and that person can get along, be the best of friends and more. Communication is very important, if no communication and making it a one way thing its not good. Both people need to be attentive to each other, if you get into with each other always , forgive and forget

Love goes beyond being deaf, hearing, etc..

09-02-2009, 06:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
Deafcollegegal Registered User Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Somewhere in USA Posts: 29	SoulMates Hi Everyone !!! I am new here and have an question for everyone on this site !! How many people on this site are married or engaged to their better half? Also is your better half deaf? The reason why I am asking this because I have made an decision since high school that i would never date or marry hearing mens only deaf. However, I am not meeting deaf guys who are on the right path such as being edcuated or own their home or cars or even working. Therefore, I am wondering if I am limiting myself !! Never really had issues finding a man but finding a GOOD Man was always the issue. THanks !!!

09-02-2009, 07:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
WhisperHorse Lexi's Mommy Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Michigan Posts: 7,702	I agreed with CJB. __________________ Proud Mommy of my Alexanderia Gayle Born on May 21, 2008 8 lbs 1.4 oz and 21 1/2 inches She's the love of my life. Weight; lose 13 lbs since June 23, 2009 Haven't drink any kind of soda(like pepsi, coke, dr pepper, anyyyy) since July 12, 2009!

09-04-2009, 09:17 AM	#7 (permalink)
MoonDrifter Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Location: Hillsboro Posts: 1,140 Blog Entries: 1	My girlfriend is deaf and she is the best girl I've ever met. __________________ ~You only have one shot at life. Either live it or waste it~

09-08-2009, 11:47 PM	#9 (permalink)
Oceanblue7 Patriots Rock! Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: She Walks by faith not by sight Posts: 6,701 Blog Entries: 26	As long as you and that person can get along, be the best of friends and more. Communication is very important, if no communication and making it a one way thing its not good. Both people need to be attentive to each other, if you get into with each other always , forgive and forget Love goes beyond being deaf, hearing, etc.. __________________ Ps.103:12 He washes our sins away into the ocean Brady's back "We have unfinished business to take care of" Randy Moss,#81, WR

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09-02-2009, 07:05 PM	#2 (permalink)
CJB deafblind writer Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: U.S. Posts: 1,425	I'm married to a sighted-hearing woman. I'm deafblind myself. It's the best thing that's ever happened to me. Love is love. When you love someone, it doesn't matter if they can hear or see or not.

09-02-2009, 07:21 PM	#4 (permalink)
C.C.Sinned xXxXxXxXxXxXxXx Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 3,787	married for about 12 years, my wife can hear

09-02-2009, 10:34 PM	#5 (permalink)
rockin'robin Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida Posts: 2,782	I understand ur dilemma....I, too, looked high & low for a deaf partner, to no avail. Education/communication was the problem. So I married hearing....and divorsed later. A good man is hard to find....but they are out there. Good luck!

09-03-2009, 06:27 PM	#6 (permalink)
deafbajagal Jasmine's Tiger "Lilly" Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 2,634	Was married to a hearing man...divorced him seven years later. Now married to HOH and I've never been happier. I don't think it matters if the person can hear or not...but if that person can respect your deafness and can communicate well. That's what counts.

09-08-2009, 02:34 PM	#8 (permalink)
Deafcollegegal Registered User Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Somewhere in USA Posts: 29	Hey all , Thanks for responding to my post.. Sorry it took me so long to respond but i been busy with School like CRAZY.. Anyway Rocking Robin thanks for your post!!! Very encouraging .............. I guess there is hope after all for all us ladies