have you ever got stood up by your dates?

racheleggert · 01-20-2004, 11:12 PM

Did anyone got stood up (ditch) by their dates like supposed to go to prom or dances? It happened to me once....

Cheri · 01-20-2004, 11:17 PM

Nope, Never had happened to me but it did to my twin sister once for the Prom. She had to pick someone from my step mother church. Too bad she couldn't get laid on the prom night heh!! Now I better hide cuz my sister might kick my butt for saying that..

racheleggert · 01-20-2004, 11:29 PM

LOL, Maybe you should feel sorry for your sis. I was stood up few times.. first time would be for homecoming dance, I asked my ex fiance, Josh Morris to come to homecoming dance, he decided to go to his friend's graduation party instead, and I asked him to go to Gov. Tim Pawlenty's Inagural ball, but later on I was planning on dumping him in front of my friends at the ball. I told him to come to my place himself because I had stuff to do that I can't pick him up. I was so upset because I paid for his ticket for bus fare and to the ball. Josh chose to go on date with his "mom/wife" to shopping, church, eating at Perkins in tux.. what a sick bastard.... Josh was most worst fiancee that I had ever in my life, thank god I didn't get married to him because he isn't that smart and I am sure hes still acting married to his own mom, what a sicko..

him!!!!!

Cheri · 01-20-2004, 11:34 PM

Oh I do feel sorry for my twin sister on prom night I don't understand who wouldn't go to the prom with her she is Beauitful inside and outside. U should have saw her prom picture She was really sexy. Our step mom made her dress but Not my I brought my own dress at Beachwood Mall.

***VamPyroX*** · 01-21-2004, 12:59 AM

I've been stood up several times. Once, I was supposed to meet this gal at Chili's. I went there and waited for two hours. She never showed up. I later found out that she disappeared and never spoke with me again. I also found out that she's still around cuz I'm friends with her friend. Damn! Another time, I was supposed to meet this gal at the mall. I went to the mall and waited for a hour. She never showed up. To make things worse, I locked my keys in the car. I ended up calling my friend to come by and pick me up so I could go home to get my spare keys. He then drove me back to get my car and then I headed back home. That night was about 3 hours long for me. Dammit!

Fly Free · 01-21-2004, 11:38 AM

yes ive been stood up

Angel · 01-21-2004, 01:56 PM

Oh Yeah!

I got stood up for my prom night...He called me at a couple hours before my prom started and said he couldn't make it because, he was grounded for using his parent's car....

Boy, I was so upset and crying ...I didn't want to missed my prom night...So , my step mom told me to go with her to a friend that she knew that goes to her church.....which I did, and I met him and he was soo excite to go with me to my prom ...He even rented a suit that day and when we rode in the limo on the way to the prom dinner , He was talking about ' God ' the whole time....I didn't know anything about ' God ' at that time ....I just sat there and nodding almost the whole evening and then I said , ' Are you allow to dance? '....He said Oh sure I can....We danced .....but, I felt sooo uncorforable with him because he wasn't that great looking ...And feeling his hands all over my back and my hips....

....This was the worstest prom night I ever been through.....

I didn't even get a kiss....

illustrator · 01-21-2004, 01:57 PM

twice.

They never show up for dinner and one for game show.

Cheri · 01-21-2004, 01:59 PM

He wasn't that bad Angel. He was cute not a hottie.. Well, the kiss I could tell you didn't want one by looks on your face the whole night lmaoo!!

TweetyBird · 01-21-2004, 04:05 PM

ofc!! i NEVER NEVER forget my senior prom, it was sooo AWFUL! i wore long black prom dress.. my ex date went with me prom, somehow he treated me bad alike he dont like my dress, i told him oh well i picked it up n i like this dress, then he say u should wear blue instead black.. then we got agrued then i left prom.. it hurt me SO BADLY!!! i only stayed there for 2 hrs then left... oh well!!!

eternity · 01-24-2004, 12:21 PM

I never have ever got stood up by my dates but I did stood up some of them

***VamPyroX*** · 01-24-2004, 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eternity

I never have ever got stood up by my dates but I did stood up some of them

Yeah, I was one of them!

Just kidding...

Cheri · 01-24-2004, 03:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eternity

I never have ever got stood up by my dates but I did stood up some of them

And That wasn't a nice thing to do either.. Men do have feelings too...

Wolfboy · 01-24-2004, 05:05 PM

Yes a couple times. I never stood them up. Damn cold hearted putas.

Opal · 01-24-2004, 07:17 PM

Yes twice by the same man!

***VamPyroX*** · 01-24-2004, 11:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eternity

I never have ever got stood up by my dates but I did stood up some of them

In that case, I might do the same thing...

*writes down reminder for future date with eternity*

sharlie · 01-25-2004, 09:18 AM

I remembered being stood up by a guy for the VERY first time. I chatted that guy off from this chatroom via internet and decided to meet up. To be honest I didnt trust him cos at that time he was soo pushy to meet up and so I ended up deciding to meet up one day. On that day, I waited for him at some meeting point but he didnt turn up at all BUT then later on that nite, I chatted him via MSN messenger and asked him why he didnt come. AND guess what he said? He said that he did come- drove his car and have a look at me, just ONE look at me and didnt like what he saw me in person and then drove off. He then went to find someone else for sex. I was pretty angry and totally upset at him at that time. Well, gotta admit that Im glad that I didnt meet him in person. If I eva see him in person somewhere, I'll just KICK his dick!

Ive also been stood up another 2 times AND I once did stood one guy up.

~sharlie~

TweetyBird · 01-25-2004, 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sharlie

I remembered being stood up by a guy for the VERY first time. I chatted that guy off from this chatroom via internet and decided to meet up. To be honest I didnt trust him cos at that time he was soo pushy to meet up and so I ended up deciding to meet up one day. On that day, I waited for him at some meeting point but he didnt turn up at all BUT then later on that nite, I chatted him via MSN messenger and asked him why he didnt come. AND guess what he said? He said that he did come- drove his car and have a look at me, just ONE look at me and didnt like what he saw me in person and then drove off. He then went to find someone else for sex. I was pretty angry and totally upset at him at that time. Well, gotta admit that Im glad that I didnt meet him in person. If I eva see him in person somewhere, I'll just KICK his dick!

Ive also been stood up another 2 times AND I once did stood one guy up.

~sharlie~

WHOA!!! he did very wrong do that!!! he is so

person!! he should stop there n meet u so he should tell u what he think of u than drove off without u been wait wait (alike left u out there) that is not right!!! oh man!!!

Cheri · 01-25-2004, 03:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sharlie

I remembered being stood up by a guy for the VERY first time. I chatted that guy off from this chatroom via internet and decided to meet up. To be honest I didnt trust him cos at that time he was soo pushy to meet up and so I ended up deciding to meet up one day. On that day, I waited for him at some meeting point but he didnt turn up at all BUT then later on that nite, I chatted him via MSN messenger and asked him why he didnt come. AND guess what he said? He said that he did come- drove his car and have a look at me, just ONE look at me and didnt like what he saw me in person and then drove off. He then went to find someone else for sex. I was pretty angry and totally upset at him at that time. Well, gotta admit that Im glad that I didnt meet him in person. If I eva see him in person somewhere, I'll just KICK his dick!

Ive also been stood up another 2 times AND I once did stood one guy up.

~sharlie~

That Guy was Rude... don't like people that so shadow. Guys and Ladies Need to look at what inside their heart not the outside, weight, looks, etc. I am sorry U had to go through that Nobody should... *Hugs!*

Maria · 01-25-2004, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Cheri

That Guy was Rude... don't like people that so shadow. Guys and Ladies Need to look at what inside their heart not the outside, weight, looks, etc. I am sorry U had to go through that Nobody should... *Hugs!*

That's why I am not interested in a relationship online. It's a full of crap. Faceless internet ....

Opal · 01-25-2004, 04:59 PM

Sharlie, oh no no, I'm sorry to see what you went through, he is spiteful mongrel!!

CatoCooper13 · 01-26-2004, 06:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberRed

That's why I am not interested in a relationship online. It's a full of crap. Faceless internet ....

Not always -- I met my hubby via online nearly 7 years ago and I have been married to him for nearly 6 years and live in Australia, his homeland and I consider it my homeland as well. Lovely country.

Maria · 01-26-2004, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by WaterRats13

Not always -- I met my hubby via online nearly 7 years ago and I have been married to him for nearly 6 years and live in Australia, his homeland and I consider it my homeland as well. Lovely country.

Yep, I know it's not always. I am speakin' of myself. *Chuckles* I prefer to meet a guy in my local area to which is more safer, because I could tell who the person really is in real life rather than online, because sometimes some people don't tell the truth about themselves before meetin' in person and then discover they tell lies ... geez... I don't blame Sharlie, because I know how she feels before she met that guy. I wish there's the other way around. And, of course it's RARE to find the right guy with a honesty heart... let's say "a needle in the haystacks". You are lucky to find your man, but for others, it's not always fortunate.

Angel · 01-27-2004, 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WaterRats13

Not always -- I met my hubby via online nearly 7 years ago and I have been married to him for nearly 6 years and live in Australia, his homeland and I consider it my homeland as well. Lovely country.

....

I've met Roadrunner on

(line) too and He is living with me now...We're in a lovely relationship...So, I would say depending on who you meet on line...some relationship works , some don't.....

------------------------------------------------
Sharlie,

I can not believe that person took a look at you and left...What a jerk!....*forgive me for saying that*...U will find someone better than HIM!..

I'm truly sorry that this had happened to you.....*hugs*...

Sophia26 · 01-27-2004, 07:44 PM

Never been on a date.

Roadrunner · 01-28-2004, 01:45 AM

*nodding at ^Angel^* Oh yes, I sure can remember the day I met her online...which was when I was a monitor for a chat-room...well, I was having a bit of difficulty with a 'hacker' who was flooding the room constantly one night...as my eyes would be *watching* the screen-name list so I could catch this person each time coming into the room and boot that sn off...when I had look over at the room and saw a line that caught my eye (the lines in the room were scrollin' at a rapid pace)...it was the nicest comment I ever had seen...suddenly I felt *warm* inside after seeing ^Angel^'s very caring comment she made to the room and complimenting me for trying my best to get rid of the 'flooder'. Honestly, I have never felt such warmness inside...my heart beating softly...making me wondered more and more who she was! I eventually 'pc'd' her later in another chat-room I also was monitoring...and the rest is 'history'...yes, we do have a very lovingly relationship...growing closer as each day goes by...I'm truly thankful to the ONE above for bringing 'us' together as I do believe strongly that is how this came to be!

It's true that not all online relationships will blossom into something unique and wonderful...for some, it will take a few to 'find' the right one...via online. As much as we do still need to be careful of who you meet online and really get to know...being busy on the

talkin' at all hours for hours!!

When I first realized that ^Angel^ was the 'one', I really did felt like I was walkin' on clouds...my heart skippin' a few beats...walkin' into a room forgetting what I was gonna do...sleepless nights...watchin' the clock for our time to get on, constantly...missin' chores...etc.

Here's to my sweetest

......

Ginette · 01-28-2004, 11:24 PM

I've never been stood up, the guys I dated were respectful in that aspect.

I think I stood up at least two. The reason was because I didn't feel safe around them. When you're a girl, you've got to be careful out there.

CatoCooper13 · 01-29-2004, 07:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberRed

Yep, I know it's not always. I am speakin' of myself. *Chuckles* I prefer to meet a guy in my local area to which is more safer, because I could tell who the person really is in real life rather than online, because sometimes some people don't tell the truth about themselves before meetin' in person and then discover they tell lies ... geez... I don't blame Sharlie, because I know how she feels before she met that guy. I wish there's the other way around. And, of course it's RARE to find the right guy with a honesty heart... let's say "a needle in the haystacks". You are lucky to find your man, but for others, it's not always fortunate.

Yeah...I reckon I was a bit gutsy and willing to take risks.

At least, I made sure I met men in public areas rather than secluded areas, ya know?

Just have to be very cautious on what is said in convos online and offline as well -- plus, honesty is hard to detect via online, unless the vibes are telling you otherwise.

Cheers!

***VamPyroX*** · 01-29-2004, 07:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ginette

I've never been stood up, the guys I dated were respectful in that aspect.

I think I stood up at least two. The reason was because I didn't feel safe around them. When you're a girl, you've got to be careful out there.

There's nothing wrong with carrying around a can of pepper spray!

Ginette · 01-29-2004, 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VamPyroX

There's nothing wrong with carrying around a can of pepper spray!

LOL

Pepper Spray would've helped. I've had many bad "dates."

01-20-2004, 11:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
racheleggert Chode! Chode! Chode! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Twin Cities, MN Posts: 2,253	have you ever got stood up by your dates? Did anyone got stood up (ditch) by their dates like supposed to go to prom or dances? It happened to me once.... __________________ Happy Summer!

01-20-2004, 11:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
Cheri Prayers for my dad. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 22,615	Nope, Never had happened to me but it did to my twin sister once for the Prom. She had to pick someone from my step mother church. Too bad she couldn't get laid on the prom night heh!! Now I better hide cuz my sister might kick my butt for saying that.. __________________ God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow and sun without rain, But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

01-20-2004, 11:29 PM	#3 (permalink)
racheleggert Chode! Chode! Chode! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Twin Cities, MN Posts: 2,253	LOL, Maybe you should feel sorry for your sis. I was stood up few times.. first time would be for homecoming dance, I asked my ex fiance, Josh Morris to come to homecoming dance, he decided to go to his friend's graduation party instead, and I asked him to go to Gov. Tim Pawlenty's Inagural ball, but later on I was planning on dumping him in front of my friends at the ball. I told him to come to my place himself because I had stuff to do that I can't pick him up. I was so upset because I paid for his ticket for bus fare and to the ball. Josh chose to go on date with his "mom/wife" to shopping, church, eating at Perkins in tux.. what a sick bastard.... Josh was most worst fiancee that I had ever in my life, thank god I didn't get married to him because he isn't that smart and I am sure hes still acting married to his own mom, what a sicko.. him!!!!! __________________ Happy Summer!

01-20-2004, 11:34 PM	#4 (permalink)
Cheri Prayers for my dad. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 22,615	Oh I do feel sorry for my twin sister on prom night I don't understand who wouldn't go to the prom with her she is Beauitful inside and outside. U should have saw her prom picture She was really sexy. Our step mom made her dress but Not my I brought my own dress at Beachwood Mall. __________________ God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow and sun without rain, But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

01-21-2004, 12:59 AM	#5 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 31,473	I've been stood up several times. Once, I was supposed to meet this gal at Chili's. I went there and waited for two hours. She never showed up. I later found out that she disappeared and never spoke with me again. I also found out that she's still around cuz I'm friends with her friend. Damn! Another time, I was supposed to meet this gal at the mall. I went to the mall and waited for a hour. She never showed up. To make things worse, I locked my keys in the car. I ended up calling my friend to come by and pick me up so I could go home to get my spare keys. He then drove me back to get my car and then I headed back home. That night was about 3 hours long for me. Dammit! __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

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01-21-2004, 11:38 AM	#6 (permalink)
Fly Free Living Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: In the loving arms of my butchboi! Posts: 9,101	yes ive been stood up __________________ Enjoying life!

01-21-2004, 01:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 19,089	Oh Yeah! I got stood up for my prom night...He called me at a couple hours before my prom started and said he couldn't make it because, he was grounded for using his parent's car.... Boy, I was so upset and crying ...I didn't want to missed my prom night...So , my step mom told me to go with her to a friend that she knew that goes to her church.....which I did, and I met him and he was soo excite to go with me to my prom ...He even rented a suit that day and when we rode in the limo on the way to the prom dinner , He was talking about ' God ' the whole time....I didn't know anything about ' God ' at that time ....I just sat there and nodding almost the whole evening and then I said , ' Are you allow to dance? '....He said Oh sure I can....We danced .....but, I felt sooo uncorforable with him because he wasn't that great looking ...And feeling his hands all over my back and my hips.... ....This was the worstest prom night I ever been through..... I didn't even get a kiss.... __________________ "When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is brought in our life, OR in the life of another." ~ Helen Keller

01-21-2004, 01:57 PM	#8 (permalink)
illustrator Love in Jesus Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Benbrook Posts: 4,594	twice. They never show up for dinner and one for game show.

01-21-2004, 01:59 PM	#9 (permalink)
Cheri Prayers for my dad. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 22,615	He wasn't that bad Angel. He was cute not a hottie.. Well, the kiss I could tell you didn't want one by looks on your face the whole night lmaoo!! __________________ God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow and sun without rain, But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

01-21-2004, 04:05 PM	#10 (permalink)
TweetyBird ... Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 21,485	ofc!! i NEVER NEVER forget my senior prom, it was sooo AWFUL! i wore long black prom dress.. my ex date went with me prom, somehow he treated me bad alike he dont like my dress, i told him oh well i picked it up n i like this dress, then he say u should wear blue instead black.. then we got agrued then i left prom.. it hurt me SO BADLY!!! i only stayed there for 2 hrs then left... oh well!!!

01-24-2004, 12:21 PM	#11 (permalink)
eternity :naughty: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,623	I never have ever got stood up by my dates but I did stood up some of them

01-24-2004, 05:05 PM	#14 (permalink)
Wolfboy AROOOOO Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Chicago Posts: 1,630	Yes a couple times. I never stood them up. Damn cold hearted putas. __________________ You brought out the wolf in me

01-24-2004, 07:17 PM	#15 (permalink)
Opal ~~~~~ Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 3,756 Blog Entries: 1	Yes twice by the same man! __________________ (\ (\ (=' x') (,('')('')

01-25-2004, 09:18 AM	#17 (permalink)
sharlie Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: In da Middle of Nowhere Posts: 100	I remembered being stood up by a guy for the VERY first time. I chatted that guy off from this chatroom via internet and decided to meet up. To be honest I didnt trust him cos at that time he was soo pushy to meet up and so I ended up deciding to meet up one day. On that day, I waited for him at some meeting point but he didnt turn up at all BUT then later on that nite, I chatted him via MSN messenger and asked him why he didnt come. AND guess what he said? He said that he did come- drove his car and have a look at me, just ONE look at me and didnt like what he saw me in person and then drove off. He then went to find someone else for sex. I was pretty angry and totally upset at him at that time. Well, gotta admit that Im glad that I didnt meet him in person. If I eva see him in person somewhere, I'll just KICK his dick! Ive also been stood up another 2 times AND I once did stood one guy up. ~sharlie~

01-25-2004, 04:59 PM	#21 (permalink)
Opal ~~~~~ Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 3,756 Blog Entries: 1	Sharlie, oh no no, I'm sorry to see what you went through, he is spiteful mongrel!! __________________ (\ (\ (=' x') (,('')('')

01-27-2004, 07:44 PM	#25 (permalink)
Sophia26 Learn it Live it Love it Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Alexandria, VA Posts: 174	Never been on a date.

01-28-2004, 01:45 AM	#26 (permalink)
Roadrunner Registered User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 7,090	nodding at ^Angel^ Oh yes, I sure can remember the day I met her online...which was when I was a monitor for a chat-room...well, I was having a bit of difficulty with a 'hacker' who was flooding the room constantly one night...as my eyes would be watching the screen-name list so I could catch this person each time coming into the room and boot that sn off...when I had look over at the room and saw a line that caught my eye (the lines in the room were scrollin' at a rapid pace)...it was the nicest comment I ever had seen...suddenly I felt warm inside after seeing ^Angel^'s very caring comment she made to the room and complimenting me for trying my best to get rid of the 'flooder'. Honestly, I have never felt such warmness inside...my heart beating softly...making me wondered more and more who she was! I eventually 'pc'd' her later in another chat-room I also was monitoring...and the rest is 'history'...yes, we do have a very lovingly relationship...growing closer as each day goes by...I'm truly thankful to the ONE above for bringing 'us' together as I do believe strongly that is how this came to be! It's true that not all online relationships will blossom into something unique and wonderful...for some, it will take a few to 'find' the right one...via online. As much as we do still need to be careful of who you meet online and really get to know...being busy on the talkin' at all hours for hours!! When I first realized that ^Angel^ was the 'one', I really did felt like I was walkin' on clouds...my heart skippin' a few beats...walkin' into a room forgetting what I was gonna do...sleepless nights...watchin' the clock for our time to get on, constantly...missin' chores...etc. Here's to my sweetest ......

01-28-2004, 11:24 PM	#27 (permalink)
Ginette Registered User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 117	I've never been stood up, the guys I dated were respectful in that aspect. I think I stood up at least two. The reason was because I didn't feel safe around them. When you're a girl, you've got to be careful out there.

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